for one thing, i was alluding to something you didn't catch. for another, you're starting to annoy me. not that that would bear any difference in your behaviour, but i think it's about time i said it.

you know f*ck all about me and your assumptions are ridiculous.

she said she was 25, was that a joke?

No, she's 25.

Yip, I've had heaps of boyfriends. I haven't slept with them all however. I had really short, regular relationships in high school. On average I date 2 men a year now but I no longer wish to date unless the guy is really worth bothering with.

Sad part is...i dont really care for cats :/

Im more of a dog/reptile/rat type person.

But thanky thanky very much ^ ^

True. I don't know who you are and I barely even read your post. I was just making a "you should" joke. I thought it was a mildly funny non sequitur.

I think he was just making a joke playing off the whole "you should" thing.

ultimatums in relationships are never funny. don't joke about it :nono:

You should stop telling me what to joke about. Otherwise, we're through.

We are through then, don't try to change me and make me into someone that I'm not!!

*slams multiple doors on my way out*

nm

Please quit using 'smh' as a term. It is not a term. Nor is it grammatically acceptable.

Get over it bro. Go into the "do you look your age?" thread if you're so interested.

WTF is "loool"? The noise you make when they feed you?

smh- shaking my head

og- original

lool- should have been lllllooooooolllllll

Is that the noise you make when they feed you ice cream?

There was no need for me to post that, I should have kept that opinion to myself, I honestly thought it was a joke or a hypothetical scenario & I was shocked when I was told otherwise, hence my response.

I'll delete my og comment as it was not warranted & was a bit rude.

He was being facetious, calm down.
Why are you so mean?

no that sound is more like aaahhhhhhhh

was this a "one flew over the cuckoos nest" joke

I deleted the comment, I realized it came off as rude & it was my initial reaction to the fact that it indeed was not a joke/exaggerated example she was giving, but I honestly was not trying to be mean, but I understand it came off as such.

You should make better jokes.

I am aggravated, agitated, irritated and cantankerous, right now... It's been years since I have been with my ex (like 2) but he can still push my buttons like nobody I have ever met... We went through so much together over 8 years (ten total but 2 we were off again on again...) And I had a feeling when I woke up this morning that something was wrong.. it's hard to explain we both kinda get those feelings from time to time that the other one is not ok... well I called his phone over and over finally I called his mother and she "I dunno how you two do that..."
"Do what?"
"Know when something is wrong with the other...."
"Well is he dead yet?" ( because he is into some pretty shady shady shady ****...)
Fortunately he isn't dead just incarcerated for 10,000.00 time... In some ways I am glad, he is in jail.. and as awful and horrible as this is going to sound, sometimes I wish he wasn't breathing anymore...because of all the hurt and sorrow he leaves in his wake...It would be easier for me to give his eulogy then to explain to the few remaing mutual friends we have that he is just an *******...

We spent so many years traveling across country and being rebels with out a cause or a clue for that matter, we went through some heavy ****, drug addiction, overdoses, deaths of our friends, jail, rehab, and in the end we share something that will never go away, he beat the **** out of me, helped me piss 250,000.00 dollars, stole my prized 10 records out of a collection of 300, and through all of it, he is still my best friend... (regardless of weather I hit him with the car one night or let him be held hostage for 4 hours...)

In the end when I had the guts to clean up and stay cleaned up, I took his girlfriend (whom he cheated on me with) under my wing, and became her sponsor... And as much as I want to get in my car right now, and drive 2.5 hours to the arm pit of Florida, and grab her by her hair and throw her in my car and drive her back to rehab, I can't... Why? Because she has to fall lower then low to pick herself up...It's like watching me 5 or 6 years ago, and I want to say no mini me don't do it.. I can't watch him destroy another life... especially one that has so much promise...

I just want him to find peace, and sometimes the only way some people who are just so tortured inside to find it is for them to be six feet under so they can rest...:banghead: I was going to put this in the bitch box but then I realized something, that as much as I would like to have some sort of a normal relationship with this clown, there is nothing normal or bitch worthy about it... the **** happened it's over and done, and bitching about it don't really help.. I am just grateful for the life I have now, and I am grateful for the life I had to loose in order to gain this one.. I am just going to start writing his eulogy and put it away for when he can be set free from his cage... as sad as it will be, freedom comes at a huge price...

:clap:

What's a relationship even

I'm pansexual and not cisgendered know a lot of people so my world is in conflict on a daily basis, the queer dilemma be like: "do I wanna fuck you or be like you????" Then idiots all like "Oh yr pansexual? so you like wanna ****/love everyone right?"
Um no, I don't want to fuck you. Sorry to get your hopes up.

Plus I'm aromantic so it's like
I can't love you in the way you want , but I can love you to the best of my ability

Plus I'm hypersexual because of my mental illness, so I'll still **** anything but I won't love anybody unless I can connect to them on a personal level

I ain't gonna be monogamous with anyone if I don't think they're worth my love

shit's confusing

I think I may have a crush on one of my best friends.

Well, this is awkward. I'm hoping it just goes away.

Male or female?

Not awkward at all. Unless you start rubbing her leg with your crotch.

I've been there. It's hard to make it "just go away", often the feeling is just... there.

I kind of want to bang my co-worker who is 10 years older than me. I don't know if that would be a good idea though, and it would lead to weird looks if it happened and people found out. Everyone at work thinks I'm asexual, so I guess it wouldn't be too hard to cover up, but this person doesn't exactly have the tightest pair of lips either.

I always think that office romances/flings are a bad idea, just because they are super risky.

My mom used to work for a company that didn't even allow employees to date each other.

I guess, besides, I found out she wasn't a natural redhead. Disappointment of the fucking century.

Slightly dramatic there.

lol I agree with that sentiment. No lies are being told.

I thought good kid, m.A.A.d city had that one tied up tbh.

obviously you haven't been confronted with a false redhead before.

Female.

Lol. Yeah, that won't happen.

I've actually been in this place before. Last time it took awhile, but the feelings did eventually go away. Mostly because I was just sick of bull****, but still.

Been there booboo, does she give any indicators that she'd like to be more than friendly? Do you value your friendship more than a relationship/sex with her?

Not making assumptions at all, but I think more info is needed. I hate having that dilemma and I'd hate to see you make the same mistakes I did!

Meh, honestly, I just don't care enough about whatever feelings I may have right now to do anything about it, at least for the moment. This is only a crush, as far as I'm aware, and I know that I get over crushes fairly quickly if they mean nothing.

If I'm still feeling anything in a few months? Then I'll start seriously thinking about it, but for now, I'll just chill and let happen whatever happens.

Editing because I missed Blaro's post
Good for you! I wish you well, it's great that you value her friendship so much that you don't wanna **** it up with a relationship. A lot of people are really bad at that (meee lololol)

Anyway
Does anyone believe in the concept of soulmates? I mean it goes back to the Ancients, the whole myth about Zeus being jealous of humans that he split us into two halves and we spend our lives searching for that other half, someone who perfectly fits us

I used to think it was just bull**** but I'm not so sure now. I mean, there's so many combinations for identity now that I feel like it could be ANYONE but no one seems to fit me very well. I think I might have found my "other half" but that would, to me, imply I'm not a whole person without them but I am whole on my own.

What does everyone else think?

Thanks! :)

I think it's possible that certain personalities will mesh with others in a very complimentary way, and I know from my parents that sometimes a person wouldn't be "complete" without their "other half," but I ultimately believe that if you love someone enough, and they love you enough back, they are in essence your "soul mate." It's not like you couldn't possibly be with anyone else, it's just that they work out well with you, and the two complete each other.

Hopefully that makes sense.