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Originally Posted by FETCHER.
We've not had full on sex yet as neither of us ever carry a condom and I'm definitely not willing to have sex without one. I had one of those post-sex pillow talks yesterday haha, I told him I wasn't sleeping with him until I knew he wasn't going to be an arsehole and he seemed quite hurt that it would cross my mind. He's a mutual friend of mine, my brother and sister so my brother has already gave the embarrassing big brother speech.
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Hmmm, I see. How crude of me to assume you guys were already going at it. Welllllp in that case he must be hanging around for something. Better to just get it out in the open. First, tell him what you want out of the friendship. Then maybe he'll open up about what he's thinking. That's all you can do, really. And I echo what other posters have said about the fact that if he gets freaked out/doesn't really answer he probably had the wrong intentions anyway.