Relationship conundrum
 

I met someone who I knew for 3 days total. She apparently started to fall in love with me and although I have had girlfriends before, she was the first to tell me she loved me. I started to fall in love with her too, but I just was not really attracted to her. She is 30 and I am 24. The way I saw it was, I am not the best looking person around, but I can still get a much better looking 22 year old with a lot of luck. Less luck if I pursue certain career choices - singer, football player, etc. Because women tend to like those.

So anyway, I broke up with her. There were other problems too, besides the attraction. She wouldn't play games correctly (not relationship games. just games in general). And she didn't have the best communication abilities compared to me - she wrote short messages, couldn't always use correct spelling or grammar, and the like.

So my question is, did I make the right choice breaking up with her? Should I have broken up with someone that supposedly loved me?

Someone who falls in love with you after three days is probably crazy and hella clingy. So yeah, probably

It might be too late already. She probably fell in love with a guy alot better looking and younger then you by now. Better luck next time. :wavey:

I doubt it. But thanks anyhow, you've put my mind at ease.

3 days and she loves you already? She sounds clingy and insane. You made the right choice.

Thats what Dan said. :rofl: Heh

*moves bishop horizontally

"Thats it we're over!"

Well I can tell you what happened. We were playing Truth or Dare and Truth or Dare is not an easy game to play, but she skipped 3 simple dares. They were not anything complex like jump off a cliff or strip down. They were just things like, "Tell me something that embarrasses you."

Thats a huge deal breaker in any relationship. I broke up with my last because she sucked at Twister. " I don't want to get my knees dirty!!!" A girl who doesn't want to get her knees dirty is a surefire prude.

She wouldn't play games correctly? :laughing: Burn the witch!

Came in to say this. Love after 3 days???????????? Run bro.

He said I'm crazy? lol, he's probably right. :laughing:

To be fair, I got engaged after three days, so uh
yeah

:|

How long did that last?

Wouldn't that count as a Truth?

I knew this girl from high school who went down to Vegas for a vacation, went to get a tat (which was so ugly btw) and she thought the artist was hot and they got married that night in one of the cheap wedding chapels along the Strip. As far as I know they're still together (this was only in May) but it's crazy to marry someone you only met 6 hours earlier.

A year and a half

O **** I thought you were gonna say like 3 more days.

It can count as either. Either as a truth question or as an "I dare you to..." Yes, it was a really easy game of Truth or Dare we were playing, and she still got stuck.

Whenever I'm in Vegas, I joke around about that. I ask random girls if they want to marry me just to get their reactions. It's pretty funny. :tramp:

If you had met this girl and said that, she probably would have seriously taken you up on it.

and I would probably go through with it and just get it annulled within 24 hours.

The whole living in the moment feeling is amplified when I'm in Vegas.

Part of me asking is letting them know that I will get it annulled and that what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. :tramp:

It would be at one of those fun chapels on the strip with Elvis officiating.

Hehe. Love makes fools of us all.

U broke up with a psycho with no smarts, personality humor or looks



Wow tough choice I csnt decide

Actually rebound relationships & misguided attempts at revenge do

but i digress

Come now, he said he kinda fell in love with her too so she had something going on.

You got married in an act of revenge?

Nah I got engaged with this guy b/c I was rebounding off one of my other fiancee's and I figured it would do double duty and make him jealous


It was a very messy situation and I ended up being with both at the same time so chronologically I'm not sure which is the first and second fiancees

Op is just desperate. Dont settle.ta made a goid choice.

I think I fell in love with her because she was the first woman to tell me she loved me, and she was somewhat affectionate. But other than that, and having someone to talk to, there was not much there.

Did you check for a dick?

:laughing:

That's cray cray gf. A man will be lucky to marry me. I know there too many douchebags out there.

:stupid:

I was 16/17 so I have an excuse

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16/17 year olds might be dumb, but you're still a loon. ;)

Dude used to pay for everything I ever wanted

nothing crazy about that, i was pretty smart about sticking with material bull**** until i decided i was more interested in ~love and left him

Ah, gold digger. I woulda done the same. I don't understand the hate for gold digging women. My dream is to find a nice eighty-year-old millionaire chick to marry and push down the stairs.

What she isnt telling you is he was a 40 year old wall street banker.




Have a seat over there.

LOL hardly, he offered and I felt weird telling him no. But now because of this relationship, I can't deal with it when a man I'm attracted to/in love with tries this same approach because it feels like they're trying to compensate for something. It made me feel really uncomfortable since I never really loved him, I was in love with the other fiancee and decided I wasn't going to keep up the charade anymore so I left him for the other dude

basically