The Support and Encouragement Thread

[Pet_Sounds]

Batlord? A eunuch?

[ladyislingering]

Originally Posted by RoxyRollah

Nice... From this post and what you have said about children. Might I venture out on a limb and say this, that it's not that you are not maternal, you just don't want to go through the labor, sleepless nights, etc?

I am just making an observation, and prying....

So, lie down on my couch, tell me about yor mosther...

that's actually true.

I guess I'm a little maternal. I just have no desire to birth a thing and care for it and not sleep, etc., etc. But once someone I know makes their way into my heart, you best believe they're the center of my attention whenever something goes even slightly wrong. I mean, another one of the girls I work with had a goddamn blister on her foot and I just about died and asked if she needed a band-aid, if she treated it with antiseptic after it ruptured, if it hurt, if she was ok, maybe she needs a new pair of shoes or to wear thick socks for a while, and don't forget to keep it clean, you don't want a staph infection or anything!!!! but children are all kinds of nope. Can't stand 'em.

Originally Posted by RoxyRollah

I can hold you close if you like...... Money back guarantee if you don't like.

That sounds lovely.

Originally Posted by The Batlord

Fixed.

my baby likes his psycho mama.

[ladyislingering]

Originally Posted by Pet_Sounds

Batlord? A eunuch?

what a gentle term for such an often-repulsive creature.

[Pet_Sounds]

I mean, I can think of a lot of things to call Batty, but a eunuch is not one of them.

[RoxyRollah]

Originally Posted by ladyislingering

that's actually true.

I guess I'm a little maternal. I just have no desire to birth a thing and care for it and not sleep, etc., etc. But once someone I know makes their way into my heart, you best believe they're the center of my attention whenever something goes even slightly wrong. I mean, another one of the girls I work with had a goddamn blister on her foot and I just about died and asked if she needed a band-aid, if she treated it with antiseptic after it ruptured, if it hurt, if she was ok, maybe she needs a new pair of shoes or to wear thick socks for a while, and don't forget to keep it clean, you don't want a staph infection or anything!!!! but children are all kinds of nope. Can't stand 'em.



That sounds lovely.



my baby likes his psycho mama.

See I can respect that. If you know something isn't for you why bother? To be truthful, I read that post and I was thinking about the children thread and how up in arms ppl would get about your views and I wondered if it was because they thought you had a problem with mothering, and parenting. When in essence you don't really have a problem with that all it's just you don't want a baby. Someone you can reason with and that is independent that you can care for is more your speed. All parent really is, is a fancy word for teacher and care giver. And if you are caring for others, and or consoling them and what have you, you are in essence just as much of a mother as any other woman. So keep on keeping on chickie. I can dig it.

[ladyislingering]

Originally Posted by Pet_Sounds

I mean, I can think of a lot of things to call Batty, but a eunuch is not one of them.

When I think of the Batlord, I think "dude's ok, but he's a huge butthole most of the time".

[RoxyRollah]

Originally Posted by ladyislingering

When I think of the Batlord, I think "dude's ok, but he's a huge butthole most of the time".

See I think, where's my can of mace.

[Pet_Sounds]

When I think of The Batlord, I think, "Dude's a huge butthole, but he's OK most of the time."

EDIT: Goddiggity, Roxy. That sequence would have been perfect if your post was after mine.

[ladyislingering]

Originally Posted by RoxyRollah

See I can respect that. If you know something isn't for you why bother? To be truthful, I read that post and I was thinking about the children thread and how up in arms ppl would get about your views and I wondered if it was because they thought you had a problem with mothering, and parenting. When in essence you don't really have a problem with that all it's just you don't want a baby. Someone you can reason with and that is independent that you can care for is more your speed. All parent really is, is a fancy word for teacher and care giver. And if you are caring for others, and or consoling them and what have you, you are in essence just as much of a mother as any other woman. So keep on keeping on chickie. I can dig it.

thanks hun.

I take care of some people on the daily (you may remember my friend who's a heroin addict - have mentioned him a time or two - I have to tell him how special and sweet he is every day or he's all sorts of sad - he is an eternal responsibility at this point but I love that kid beyond words) because they're so important to me; these people make my life worthwhile but they're also independent. I can go about my daily life and still be their confidante without much effort (apart from the occasional major heartache over their struggles) and that's what I'm all about.

[RoxyRollah]

You are welcome doll. You have a heart of fucking gold. I was just having a moment there and felt like I should share my epiphany with the board.
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