I'm a nice guy, trust me, what he says is all true.

Fal, she's 15. 15. think about that for a while.

If your advising getting a f*ck buddy to her with that in mind, there's something seriously wrong with the UK. Not that that's anything new:laughing: :laughing: . I joke, I joke. Just in case anyone gets overly offended...

And not ALL nice guys turn into stalkers; just the desperate ones

She's 15 ... so she should be getting into deep relationships where she ultimately gets heartbroken anyway wasting years of her life chasing dead end dreams of romance that blatantly won't work?

And I'm sorry if you're such a prude that you try to deny that under 16s do and will have sex.

Oh I know they do, but it's another thing to actively encourage it. So she shouldn't be trying to figure out what kind of guy she actually likes in more than that he's sex on legs, and instead risk getting pregnant, having a child she doesn't have the time for, go through all the emotional stress involved, and end up wasting away her youth trying to take care of a child she didn't want?

and I'm sorry if you're too big a sex maniac to realise that accidents DO happen.

Oops, my bad.

Wear a condom. Get on the pill. Get the smear test. Get the morning after pill. etc etc.

Condoms are 99% effective. But if you're drugged up on contraceptive pills at the same time, have a diaphragm, use spermicide etc ... The soldiers got a battle ahead.

Unless you're Catholic. In which case the condom lets the sperm through regardless. Despite them being water proof. And despite sperm being bigger than water.

And lets face it, part of liking a guy is about liking how good they are in the sack. If you don't know what you like in bed, it's just as bad as not knowing what you like in a man.

condoms may be 99% effective, but what percentage of drunk teenage guys remember to wear them? I've been told that being constantly drugged up on contraceptives is not a fun experience, as well as being dangerous.

I like the comment on Catholicism. it's so true!

and yes, PART of liking guys is how good they are in bed, but if she was to follow your advice she wouldn't have a clue about the other part. A good relationship, at her stage in life, can definately last without sex. When you're older, it's different, but right now, I'd regard it as too big a risk. Call me what you like, that's my view. I'm 17. I've never had sex. Do I give a Sh*t? No. I have plenty of time ahead of me, and I know exactly what I like in a girl, which means I won't have to waste time later on that.

I'm 32 and I would LOVE to have sex http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f3...badbananas.gif

Congratulations, you're putting words in my mouth. I never said "go to parties and find drunk boys to shag", I said "find a bloke to shag that you don't have to worry about emotional entanglement with".

Errr... maybe you need to find out what a fuck buddy is before making assumptions? A fuck buddy is also called a friend with privileges. You are, essentially speaking, mates. You do things what mates do, which inevitably means getting to know each others personalities. But you've also agreed that you both like sex, hence you have it. Because sex is fun. If a fuck buddy were someone that you only met on weekends for an hour during which you did nothing but sex, you might have a point. That is, however, the job of the prostitute.

haha ok I see my mistake and apologise.

But teenage guys, in Ireland at least, have a habit of being drunk quite a lot of the time anyway, so there may be a problem there...

But, I think we agree to disagree here. this is getting nowhere, I would go about it my way, you would go about it yours. Neither of us are her, so we'll have to wait and see what she thinks.

I think it's better to go at it one think at a time, try and figure out what you like in a girl/guy before what you like from a girl/guy. Your way would involve doing both at the same time, and might make it a bit complicated, mistaking liking the person for what they're like at sex, and vice versa. Maybe I'm wrong, maybe I'm right, it'd take someone who's tried both to say for sure.

Well girls or guys I'm planning on getting my ear pierced soon, from people that have seen my pictures on here before, do you think it would look good or not?