Haha, yeah she's really beautiful. And very huggable/cuddly. So it's pretty tough to keep my hands where they 'belong'. But I manage.

I dunno, maybe it's because of her.
She's worth every bit of pain I've had so far.
She's the best friend I've ever had and probably the best friend I'll ever have.

I meant literally sleeping. As in, laying in bed :D.
Sorry, translated that a bit literally.
I think that's quite unreasonable though. He sees his ex-girlfriend regularly and my ex-girlfriend doesn't really care about that.

Ghehe, she and I actually broke up in september 2009. We broke up while hugging, kissed. Then she asked 'break-up sex?' so that's what we did. There's worse ways of breaking up.

Why the hell did you two break up again? All signs point to y'all being together...well, based on everything you post here anyway.

Woke up, played Left 4 Dead, went to the gym, made oatmeal, studied for three hours for my accounting midterm tomorrow, and now I'm going off to section for a quiz and then straight to work until half midnight. I'll be so glad when tomorrow is over and I can crash on the couch and watch The Universe for hours on end

You're talking to me? Seriously?
We haven't been together since september 2009 :D.
So I'm not sure if you're talking to me :)

Of course I'm talking to you!! :P

Who else around this joint is pining over their ex-girlfriend that hard core?

Seriously though...it's pretty baffling based on how you describe your relationship why you two aren't together still...

You know, we're pretty baffled about that sometimes, too.
There's some doubts. There's I reason I refer to her as ex-girlfriend all the time.
If I wouldn't do that you wouldn't believe she's my ex-girlfriend.

No, really, it's simple. We love eachother as much as we did, we hug eachother as much as we did when we see eachother. But there's no sex and we don't live together anymore. It just didn't work. Our ways of living are too different and we need too much space in our lives because of that. I want to have friends over all the time, drives her nuts. But probably without living together, who knows.
I know it didn't work the way we used to be, but who knows...
Her new boyfriend is about as bad as I was, in completely different ways.
It's complicated.

Edit: I now understand why I didn't understand why you were talking to me. You said 'why the hell', I read 'when the hell'.
Sorry :)

Eitherway, because we couldn't be together. But we obviously can't be apart either. We're pretty much made for eachother, but our lives don't really work together.

Why would she want to do that? Why would you want to do that? Why would her boyfriend allow that?

So many questions. Not a diss towards you, sk, I just can't wrap my head around that kind of lifestyle. There is no way I would even want an ex to sleep over, or me crash at her place. One, cause it'd probably just trigger emotional bullshit. And two, if I did sleepover and cuddle with her, there's no way I could resist trying to bang her. My hands would be down her pants within a few minutes or i'd be in my car and driving home.

I mean it's basically like being together, without the sex. Hugging, cuddling, that's just not my idea of something I want to do with someone I am not dating or having sex with. Again, not trying to diss you, we have different thoughts on that obviously, I am just saying i can't imagine cuddling and spooning like that with an ex who has a boyfriend.

Probably the strangest thing about all of that situation... WTF is her boyfriend thinking? "Oh, you're ex boyfriend is coming over to cuddle? Yeah, totally cool with me!!!" Seriously, what the hell, does he know she sleeps over and stuff? It sounds like he does... Hell, I'll admit I am not someone who places trust in people easily, and I am one of those guys who is all like "Don't talk to your ex" during relationships, but how could any boyfriend be comfortable with this? That truly baffles me... That he would allow his girlfriend to spoon with an ex-lover and let her stay the night.

sk, just wondering here, but what if you meet a girl and start dating and stuff, and she doesn't want you to continue having sleepovers with your ex-girlfriend. What would you do?

allright, I'm in a bit of a hurry now, but I'll answer your questions this evening. I really have an answer to all of them. And don't worry, I'm reading your questions like questions, I don't think you're trying to diss me ;)

My day yesterday was a normal day. I woke up a little later than usual because I wasn't at home and was much closer to school. Got up got dressed and done what normal people do in the mornings minus eat breakfast. Attended school which was boring as usual. Came home and chilled like normal, lol. Ate some supper, showered, and chilled some more. I've been up all night though so I guess yesterday still hasn't ended for me, lol. I've got to go to school again in about an hour.

yesterday, my friend told me that the laptop I gave him was stolen from him. He was robbed at knife point. I told him that it had to be someone he knows because people in the city that I live in are pussys. The guy that robbed him took his wallet, only taken out five dollars when he had 20 dollars in there total and walked away. My friend was so shocked that his stupid ass didn't think to go rush the guy when he turned his back to him and slowly walked away like he was mocking him.