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djchameleon · 05-09-2011, 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by duga

I would say a drunken makeout isn't exactly grounds for immediate breakup, but the only factor here is that she did it while you were in the same damn bar. That is totally disrespectful. I dunno about this one...

Yeah, I'm usually willing to forgive one transgression especially if it was a drunk incident and purely physical type of thing but the fact that she didn't give a fuck that he was in the same bar/area I wouldn't tolerate it.

Didn't they come into the bar together too? I have to go back and re-read the story.

FRED HALE SR. · 05-09-2011, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Buzzov*en

So talked to my girlfriend worked **** out for now. Going to see if she does what she said she will.

She was sorry as hell etc etc.

soooooooooooo my day was just talking **** over with her once she got home

Worked **** out? She was playing tonsil hockey with another guy and your OK with that? I wouldn't have even split the guys lip over it, shes the one in charge of her goodies. You blew it man should have dumped that zero. Yeah i said it.

s_k · 05-09-2011, 11:30 AM

I don't agree with the 'once a cheater' stuff.
It's not always that easy and I can understand people falling in love while having a relationship.
Nevertheless, I wouldn't trust a girl who just makes out with some random dude in a bar while she's having a boyfriend. And what's that with her claiming you punched her in the face? I dunno man, sounds rather ****ed. But it's your life

Buzzov*en · 05-09-2011, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by duga

I would say a drunken makeout isn't exactly grounds for immediate breakup, but the only factor here is that she did it while you were in the same damn bar. That is totally disrespectful. I dunno about this one...

Yea that is the thing that really made me think about it. The fact that I was there the whole time and she did that pissed me off which obviously resulted in me starting to beat on the guy.

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

Yeah, I'm usually willing to forgive one transgression especially if it was a drunk incident and purely physical type of thing but the fact that she didn't give a fuck that he was in the same bar/area I wouldn't tolerate it.

Didn't they come into the bar together too? I have to go back and re-read the story.

Yea we came in together. Also at the time and a few hours after she didn't give a ****. Yesterday she did and that is the only thing that kind of made me say alright one chance **** up again done.

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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR.

Worked **** out? She was playing tonsil hockey with another guy and your OK with that? I wouldn't have even split the guys lip over it, shes the one in charge of her goodies. You blew it man should have dumped that zero. Yeah i said it.

Obviously not okay with it if I was I wouldn't have started a fight which resulted in me getting jumped by his jack ass friends.
Sa'll good man. Willing to give her a chance with this. One small thing she ****s up with and I'm done.

Bloozcrooz · 05-09-2011, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Buzzov*en

Yea that is the thing that really made me think about it. The fact that I was there the whole time and she did that pissed me off which obviously resulted in me starting to beat on the guy.

Yea we came in together. Also at the time and a few hours after she didn't give a ****. Yesterday she did and that is the only thing that kind of made me say alright one chance **** up again done.

Obviously not okay with it if I was I wouldn't have started a fight which resulted in me getting jumped by his jack ass friends.
Sa'll good man. Willing to give her a chance with this. One small thing she ****s up with and I'm done.

She's opened the door for you to mess around now my friend and it would be justified. You should totally wait till she's mad at one of her better looking friends(if she has any then it will happen) and then get with them. They will probally be more than happy to have a revenge hook up just to get back at her as well. It doesnt fix the whole broken heart aspect of things or prove you have won in any kind of way. It does however make you feel a little redemption and walking away becomes a lil easier.

FRED HALE SR. · 05-09-2011, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Buzzov*en

Yea that is the thing that really made me think about it. The fact that I was there the whole time and she did that pissed me off which obviously resulted in me starting to beat on the guy.

Yea we came in together. Also at the time and a few hours after she didn't give a ****. Yesterday she did and that is the only thing that kind of made me say alright one chance **** up again done.

Obviously not okay with it if I was I wouldn't have started a fight which resulted in me getting jumped by his jack ass friends.
Sa'll good man. Willing to give her a chance with this. One small thing she ****s up with and I'm done.

Not his fault she wanted to sword fight with her tongue. I never blame the guy its always the unfaithful persons fault everytime. Obviously your call and if your secure in thought then roll on mang. I'd be willing to give her a chance to jump off a cliff while i watched thats about it, but i guess i'm vindictive. Yeah if you find her buying knee pads kick her ass to the big curb immediately.

Buzzov*en · 05-09-2011, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR.

Not his fault she wanted to sword fight with her tongue. I never blame the guy its always the unfaithful persons fault everytime. Obviously your call and if your secure in thought then roll on mang. I'd be willing to give her a chance to jump off a cliff while i watched thats about it, but i guess i'm vindictive. Yeah if you find her buying knee pads kick her ass to the big curb immediately.

Well when she told him that is my boyfriend and he continued to talk to her and buy her drinks and leaned in he asked for his face to get ****ed up.

Not like it was just his fault. She got a black eye out of the thing so in a way it evened out.

If he didn't know she was with me different story. Took two this time and yea he got what he had coming to him and need his friends to stick up for him and still all I walked away with was a stitched up eye and some bloody clothes and a girl who is hating herself willing to do what ever to stay with me. I'd say I walked out in pretty good shape.

FRED HALE SR. · 05-09-2011, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Buzzov*en

Well when she told him that is my boyfriend and he continued to talk to her and buy her drinks and leaned in he asked for his face to get ****ed up.

Not like it was just his fault. She got a black eye out of the thing so in a way it evened out.

If he didn't know she was with me different story. Took two this time and yea he got what he had coming to him and need his friends to stick up for him and still all I walked away with was a stitched up eye and some bloody clothes and a girl who is hating herself willing to do what ever to stay with me. I'd say I walked out in pretty good shape.

I would have walked out and never looked back. I would never let my girl disrespect me in that manner. Good luck.

Buzzov*en · 05-09-2011, 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR.

I would have walked out and never looked back. I would never let my girl disrespect me in that manner. Good luck.

Yea normally I would, but IDK.

****ing sucks I got sucker punched.

Bloozcrooz · 05-09-2011, 04:09 PM

I just read the whole story of what happened rather than just the short go of her making out with some guy. Dude your were totally set up man in my opinion. She was the bait to set you off and get you to react the way you did. That way their beating you down was somewhat justified, and leaves just enough hint of who was behind it from the get go. Ive seen it happen many times man...you obviously have pissed this girl off about something. Or she is just so big of a drama queen that you dont want to stick around for anymore of her excitment.

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