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Key 11-28-2016 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 1774363)
oh they're gonna be horrendously screwed but the amount of times I've gone in so other people didn't have to, being called at 11pm to work overnight after I've been up all day and stuff

the last three people they tried to hire to cover my days off did this job like one day and were like nahhhh

Sounds exactly like my old job was. I'm on your side when you want to just walk out. I completely understand what this is like.

Chula Vista 11-28-2016 03:33 PM

Twas a sad day. For my 50th birthday I had this guy: Ron Kirn Signature build me a custom telecaster from the ground up.
I chose the body blank and all of the specs. It turned out spectacular.

http://donniebshawn.com/pics/kbb5.JPG

Because of our situation I'm having to sell off a ton of prized gear. Fortunately this one is going to a really good friend back east. He's already told me that if things turn around I can buy it back in a heartbeat.

*sniff*

Paedantic Basterd 11-28-2016 03:36 PM

Frankly that sounds like... having a job. :|

Key 11-28-2016 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Paedantic Basterd (Post 1774369)
Frankly that sounds like... having a job. :|

Yeah, but that's not the attitude to go about it. If employers can just get away with treating employees like crap, there's no wonder people are so up their asses these days.

I don't disagree, but that's an awfully cynical way to look at it.

Paedantic Basterd 11-28-2016 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1774377)
Yeah, but that's not the attitude to go about it. If employers can just get away with treating employees like crap, there's no wonder people are so up their asses these days.

I don't disagree, but that's an awfully cynical way to look at it.

Eh, I don't agree that anything yet stated constitutes crappy treatment, so much as "aspects of a job that you don't like", and for any job you could do those things will be present.

I'm not saying neither of you is right to leave if you're truly unhappy, merely that there are ways to handle these sorts of situations professionally and that it's important to examine one's own behaviour critically.

God knows I recently left an employer for similar reasons so I'm not advocating the "suck it up" approach, but I definitely had to weigh the severity of my unhappiness against the responsibility I owed to my employer as part of our social contract and come up with an exit strategy that respected her needs as well as mine.

Chula Vista 11-28-2016 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 1774391)
I mostly do advocate for sucking it up tbh if you want to get anywhere in life.

So much this.

Zhanteimi 11-28-2016 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1774366)
Because of our situation I'm having to sell off a ton of prized gear.

Are you in financial dire straits?

DwnWthVwls 11-28-2016 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1774366)
Twas a sad day.

That is a beautiful guitar.

Chula Vista 11-28-2016 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by mordwyr (Post 1774449)
Are you in financial dire straits?

Yes.

Zhanteimi 11-28-2016 10:09 PM

Well, that sucks. What happened? The tl;dr version.


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