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jwb 01-18-2020 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Exo (Post 2101277)
"Get" bent.

Are you calling me straight?

jwb 01-18-2020 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucem Ferre (Post 2101231)
I'm sorry, Exo. You really are an under appreciated moderator for having this much patience.

I would have to agree.

Exo 01-18-2020 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by jwb (Post 2101282)
Are you calling me straight?

Is that what you'd like to be called?

WWWP 01-18-2020 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Mindfulness (Post 2101255)
I never said I was going to eat raw pototes, DVW made that up. stop bullying.... :nono:

I think the big misunderstanding is coming from the very concept of pronouns. In this case, a person has said publicly that their preferred pronouns are they/them.

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Pronoun
noun
noun: pronoun; plural noun: pronouns

a word that can function by itself as a noun phrase and that refers either to the participants in the discourse (e.g., I, you ) or to someone or something mentioned elsewhere in the discourse (e.g., she, it, this ).
The word comes from Latin, and literally means "in place of the name."

In English, pronouns replace a person's name in a sentence. For example, rather than writing:

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Jack went to the store, and then Jack filled up Jack's car with gas, and returned to Jack's house.
It is much more efficient to identify the object of the sentence (Jack) once, and then use pronouns for the remainder of the sentence. For example:

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Jack went to the store, and then he filled up his car with gas, and returned to his house."
Common pronouns in English referring to humans are she/her/hers, he/him/his, and they/them/theirs. There are others, but let's keep it simple.

Other pronouns, following the same grammatical rules, include I, it, this, etc. Because we wouldn't say "I turned the lamp on but the lamp wasn't plugged in," rather we would say "I turned the lamp on but it wasn't plugged in." But we would never use "it" in place of a persons name in a sentence, because that is dehumanizing.


So in the case at hand, Tristan made it public that they use the pronouns they/them/theirs. So, if one were to say "Tristan makes interesting music, and Tristan has great hair," applying Tristan's preferred pronouns, one could instead say "Tristan makes interesting music, and they have great hair."


/End of Lesson One. Please submit any clarifying questions below.

The Batlord 01-18-2020 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Exo (Post 2101285)
Is that what you'd like to be called?

I know what he'd like to be called.

Frownland 01-18-2020 02:35 PM

"What do you prefer to be called?"
Steve Miller:
https://media3.giphy.com/media/5dWbg...eBoW/giphy.gif

Exo 01-18-2020 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 2101289)
I know what he'd like to be called.

This made me laugh pretty hard tbh.

The Batlord 01-18-2020 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 2101290)
"What do you prefer to be called?"
Steve Miller:
https://media3.giphy.com/media/5dWbg...eBoW/giphy.gif

Hi, I'VE BEEN TRAINING MY WHOLE LIFE FOR THIS DAY. I'm The Batlord.

WWWP 01-18-2020 02:38 PM

@Mindy, so to answer your question, yes you can refer to Tristan by their name. No one is suggesting you don't use their name. But hopefully I've helped make it a little more clear about what we're talking about when we're talking about pronouns. If you don't use Tristan's name, you should use the pronouns they, them, or theirs, because that is their preference.

Frownland 01-18-2020 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 2101292)
Hi, I'VE BEEN TRAINING MY WHOLE LIFE FOR THIS DAY. I'm The Batlord.

That's I'VE BEEN TRAINING MY WHOLE LIFE FOR THIS DAY shameless SHOWTIME to you, buddy.


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