A Journey Through The Mind of a Loner: A Kiiii Story

The Batlord · 12-08-2016, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Mondo Bungle

I'll bring stuff back if you really think so. It's also a matter of how tedious it is to type long things

**** you, we wanna know what happened and how you got back to... wherever the hell it is you are now.

Mondo Bungle · 12-08-2016, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

**** you

well never mind then

Key · 12-08-2016, 04:48 PM

Feel free to make your own journal otherwise don't talk about it here.

~~ChelseaDagger~~ · 12-08-2016, 04:48 PM

Here is some insight on women...

(Note: I am NOT referring to the screeching, foaming at the mouth SJWs... stay away from man-haters; they are not fit for relationships and will only serve to whittle away yor confidence even more.)

Ki, you are your own worst enemy when it comes to relationships (you are already aware of this, I know), and unless you get out of your comfort zone and shift your current attitude towards yourself (and relationships in general), then your love life will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Women are pretty basic. The first mistake you can make is taking seriously anything they SAY that they want out of a relationship... Women are constantly bull****ting about how they want a nice, sensitive guy who will respect their space and independence, blah blah blah... It's ****ing bull****.

Women want a guy who will chase them (it makes them feel desireable). Women want a guy willing to take a chance, risk rejection, and possibly humiliate himself in an effort to pursue them (why should they take a risk on a guy who doesn't even consider them worth the risk?). It doesn't matter whether you are confident or insecure, the fact that you're actually making an effort is all that counts. Dont wait for them to come to you. You go to them. Be direct. Dont be wishy washy. Be decisive. Women, above all else, seek security; indecisiveness and cowardice is the furthest thing from security. Don't just offer them a shoulder to cry on and expect that everything will fall into place... Nothing will get you in the friend zone faster.

You have to be willing to face rejection. Over and over again. Even the most desirable alpha males get rejected (more often than you might think). But they go for it anyway, pick themselves up, and don't waste time wondering in abstract terms whether they are good enough.

Lastly, command respect. Women can't respect a guy who doesn't respect himself, a guy who kisses her ass, is afraid to disagree with her, and afraid to stand up for himself when she's acting like a ****. Any girl who can't handle the dynamic I just described, is looking for a doormat, not a boyfriend. Good riddance I say.

Sorry, Ki. Tough love. I hope you take it as a challenge and not a reason to beat yourself up even further. You know I'm right, the question is whether your fear of rejection and heartache will control where you go (or stay) from here.

Key · 12-08-2016, 04:56 PM

Thanks Chels

~~ChelseaDagger~~ · 12-08-2016, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki

Thanks Chels

Anytime, dude

Now go **** yourself.

Key · 12-08-2016, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by ChelseaDagger

Now go **** yourself.

I may need assistant, would you like to help me **** myself?

Trollheart · 12-08-2016, 05:55 PM

Chelsea's right, you know. Otherwise why would I still be single??

Oh yeah, right: I forgot. The ugliness. The lack of funds. The sense of humour nobody seems to appreciate or understand. The lack of muscles. The balding head. The glasses. The being unable to take anyone anywhere due to having decided to look after my sister until one of us dies. Did I mention the ugliness?

Yeah but apart from all that ... it's a genuine mystery, dude.
Oh of course yeah, I forgot: the small dick.

Zhanteimi · 12-08-2016, 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart

The being unable to take anyone anywhere due to having decided to look after my sister until one of us dies.

You sound like the woman in Love Actually who has to take care of her brother.

~~ChelseaDagger~~ · 12-08-2016, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki

I may need assistant, would you like to help me **** myself?

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12-08-2016, 04:48 PM	#44 (permalink)
~~ChelseaDagger~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jul 2015 Location: In the fires of your own disillusion Posts: 684	Here is some insight on women... (Note: I am NOT referring to the screeching, foaming at the mouth SJWs... stay away from man-haters; they are not fit for relationships and will only serve to whittle away yor confidence even more.) Ki, you are your own worst enemy when it comes to relationships (you are already aware of this, I know), and unless you get out of your comfort zone and shift your current attitude towards yourself (and relationships in general), then your love life will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Women are pretty basic. The first mistake you can make is taking seriously anything they SAY that they want out of a relationship... Women are constantly bull**ting about how they want a nice, sensitive guy who will respect their space and independence, blah blah blah... It's ing bull. Women want a guy who will chase them (it makes them feel desireable). Women want a guy willing to take a chance, risk rejection, and possibly humiliate himself in an effort to pursue them (why should they take a risk on a guy who doesn't even consider them worth the risk?). It doesn't matter whether you are confident or insecure, the fact that you're actually making an effort is all that counts. Dont wait for them to come to you. You go to them. Be direct. Dont be wishy washy. Be decisive. Women, above all else, seek security; indecisiveness and cowardice is the furthest thing from security. Don't just offer them a shoulder to cry on and expect that everything will fall into place... Nothing will get you in the friend zone faster. You have to be willing to face rejection. Over and over again. Even the most desirable alpha males get rejected (more often than you might think). But they go for it anyway, pick themselves up, and don't waste time wondering in abstract terms whether they are good enough. Lastly, command respect. Women can't respect a guy who doesn't respect himself, a guy who kisses her ass, is afraid to disagree with her, and afraid to stand up for himself when she's acting like a *. Any girl who can't handle the dynamic I just described, is looking for a doormat, not a boyfriend. Good riddance I say. Sorry, Ki. Tough love. I hope you take it as a challenge and not a reason to beat yourself up even further. You know I'm right, the question is whether your fear of rejection and heartache will control where you go (or stay) from here. Last edited by ChelseaDagger; 12-08-2016 at 05:00 PM.*

12-08-2016, 05:55 PM	#48 (permalink)
Trollheart Born to be mild Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: 404 Not Found Posts: 26,971	Chelsea's right, you know. Otherwise why would I still be single?? Oh yeah, right: I forgot. The ugliness. The lack of funds. The sense of humour nobody seems to appreciate or understand. The lack of muscles. The balding head. The glasses. The being unable to take anyone anywhere due to having decided to look after my sister until one of us dies. Did I mention the ugliness? Yeah but apart from all that ... it's a genuine mystery, dude. Oh of course yeah, I forgot: the small dick. __________________ Trollheart: Signature-free since April 2018

12-08-2016, 04:48 PM	#43 (permalink)
Key . Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 13,153	Feel free to make your own journal otherwise don't talk about it here.

12-08-2016, 04:56 PM	#45 (permalink)
Key . Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 13,153	Thanks Chels