The Slut Debate

djchameleon · 02-03-2011, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyMarsh

"sleeping around" means sleeping with several people in a very short period of time, just how well could you know those people? You can only **** with so many people that you know. Simple conclusion, either you don't know them at all or you can't know them well enough to properly care about them, either way you clearly don't value yourself or respect yourself (or them for that matter).

why do you have to care about someone to sleep with them?

you DO know that you can have sex with someone just for pleasure and not to make love right?

~~RandyMarsh~~ · 02-03-2011, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

why do you have to care about someone to sleep with them?

It's more to do with the fact that you're willing to have sex with multiple partners you barely know... it's rather pathetic to be honest. Like the quote said, it's just two insecure people that don't value themselves craving some affection and acceptance.

A slut is a slut, simple and plain. At least hookers have the initiative to make some money from being a slut.

djchameleon · 02-03-2011, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyMarsh

It's more to do with the fact that you're willing to have sex with multiple partners you barely know... it's rather pathetic to be honest. Like the quote said, it's just two insecure people that don't value themselves craving some affection and acceptance.

A slut is a slut, simple and plain. At least hookers have the initiative to make some money from being a slut.

you don't think sluts get anything out of having sex with random partners? it's called instant gratification and maybe they just like sex. So those old hags from sex and the city are sluts in your eyes huh?

it has nothing to do with their insecurity level. Sure some are insecure and are searching for something that they can't find by doing it but you can't make that sweeping blanket statement. I mean I guess you can but it's not a smart thing to do.

The Batlord · 02-03-2011, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyMarsh

"sleeping around" means sleeping with several people in a very short period of time, just how well could you know those people? You can only **** with so many people that you know. Simple conclusion, either you don't know them at all or you can't know them well enough to properly care about them, either way you clearly don't value yourself or respect yourself (or them for that matter).

You're talking about a specific type of "sleeping around", which is an inexact term to begin and not very useful in a discussion, and applying it indiscriminantly. Of course there are people who are like you say, but they do not represent everyone.

~~RandyMarsh~~ · 02-03-2011, 01:05 PM

I stand by everything I've said. People who sleep around are sluts, they have no self respect and do not value themselves and until they learn to respect, value and love themselves they'll never find another person who can respect them, value them or love them.

Howard the Duck · 02-03-2011, 01:13 PM

I just want to say Sex is fun, okay?

no harm enjoying it, and with complete strangers, no less

it's quite thrilling

Dr_Rez · 02-03-2011, 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyMarsh

I stand by everything I've said. People who sleep around are sluts, they have no self respect and do not value themselves and until they learn to respect, value and love themselves they'll never find another person who can respect them, value them or love them.

TO a degree yes. There are always exceptions.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 02-03-2011, 04:14 PM

I think this video says it all, if not to make women look a little more trashy.

I can't say I don't believe sluts don't exist, but there has to be a line that one can cross where they are taking it too far with the number of sexual partners. It goes for men too. I understand people need to explore their sexuality but it doesn't say much for what they think of their body.

djchameleon · 02-04-2011, 02:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

but it doesn't say much for what they think of their body.

I don't know, I just don't get this. They think their body is smoking hot and they want sex because they love to get pleasure out of it. As long as they are being safe then more power to them.

The Batlord · 02-04-2011, 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by RandyMarsh

I stand by everything I've said. People who sleep around are sluts, they have no self respect and do not value themselves and until they learn to respect, value and love themselves they'll never find another person who can respect them, value them or love them.

Well, if you're just going to keep repeating the same line over and over again...

View Poll Results: A slut or not a slut? That is the question.
Yes...dirty girls that need a wash	18	16.98%
No...sexual liberation for women!!	37	34.91%
Indifferent...as long as I don't get any diseases off them.	38	35.85%
I'm a creep that's to busy jacking off to Nickelback music...and Chad	13	12.26%
Voters: 106. You may not vote on this poll

02-03-2011, 04:14 PM	#138 (permalink)
Scarlett O'Hara Make it so Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 6,181	I think this video says it all, if not to make women look a little more trashy. I can't say I don't believe sluts don't exist, but there has to be a line that one can cross where they are taking it too far with the number of sexual partners. It goes for men too. I understand people need to explore their sexuality but it doesn't say much for what they think of their body. __________________ "Elph is truly an enfant terrible of the forum, bless and curse him" - Marie, Queen of Thots

02-03-2011, 01:05 PM	#135 (permalink)
~~RandyMarsh~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 130	I stand by everything I've said. People who sleep around are sluts, they have no self respect and do not value themselves and until they learn to respect, value and love themselves they'll never find another person who can respect them, value them or love them.

02-03-2011, 01:13 PM	#136 (permalink)
Howard the Duck Live by the Sword Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia Posts: 9,075	I just want to say Sex is fun, okay? no harm enjoying it, and with complete strangers, no less it's quite thrilling