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View Poll Results: A slut or not a slut? That is the question.
Yes...dirty girls that need a wash 18 16.98%
No...sexual liberation for women!! 37 34.91%
Indifferent...as long as I don't get any diseases off them. 38 35.85%
I'm a creep that's to busy jacking off to Nickelback music...and Chad 13 12.26%
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Old 02-04-2015, 07:43 AM   #391 (permalink)
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i guess but then if you call them a slut they get offended and label it shaming so it doesn't really seem to work that well.
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Old 02-04-2015, 08:18 AM   #392 (permalink)
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i guess but then if you call them a slut they get offended and label it shaming so it doesn't really seem to work that well.

I think it depends on your tone and context, really. Some girls liked to be called sluts in the middle of sex.
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Old 02-04-2015, 09:01 AM   #393 (permalink)
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yea i know and some girls don't mind being called sluts when they're not in bed too. that's what i'm saying though. those are the sluts that are actually progressing. women need to learn to not give a **** like men do if we're really supposed to treat each other as equals.
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Old 02-04-2015, 10:15 AM   #394 (permalink)
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I think men also need to not call women sluts in anger or as a pejorative. Basically, we shouldn't shame sluts.
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:10 AM   #395 (permalink)
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I think men also need to not call women sluts in anger or as a pejorative. Basically, we shouldn't shame sluts.
Agreed, but I'd like it to be sort of a tongue-in-cheek thing. Nothing as boring as a straight-laced person, and a slut who's a slut because she is sexually liberated, rather than just trying to gain male attention due to low self-esteem, is probably going to be far more interesting---and fun in general---than a woman who is sexually repressed.

The thing that bothers me about "sluts" in this day and age is that many women who are called sluts probably do fit the negative stereotype. When "societal law" dictates that the only women who are sexually active to a certain degree are somehow defective, many well-adjusted women with a strong sense of self---who might otherwise be into non-self-destructive promiscuity---probably hold themselves back; which creates a self-fulfilling prophecy where the only women who do engage in promiscuity are likely those who lack self-respect, which makes willing to engage in acts that they may very well see as degrading, but simply don't have the willpower or self-awareness to see what they're doing to themselves.

In my experience, "sluts" unfortunately often do fit that stereotype. I imagine the same is even more true for porn stars. There should be nothing inherently wrong with sex work. I'm sure it can often be a fulfilling career, depending on the nature of your job and with whom/why you're engaging in it. I mean, plenty of people whore themselves out in "normal" degrading jobs---cubicle work, customer service, etc---so even legitimately degrading porn could have the same, unpleasant, though relatively benign nature as that kind of work, so long as societal stigmas change.
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Old 02-06-2015, 01:59 AM   #396 (permalink)
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I don't think it's necessarily wrong to sleep with lots of people wheb you're single. Do whatever you enoy, it's not my business and it's just sex.

Besides,If girls wouldn't be slut shamed, than horny dudes would get more sex. A slut is still a slut though. Just saying there isn't inherintly anything wrong with being a slut, male or female.
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