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Originally Posted by djchameleon
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I'm talking about her currently being voiceless because she is banned and can't respond.
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She was eventually banned due to her behaviour, and you can't say she wasn't given enough warnings and chances. You're acting as if we all ganged up on her. We didn't. Although it seems impossible for one person to gang up on a number of others, this is essentially what she did. As soon as you supported, even tacitly, what someone else was saying that was contrary to what she believed or thought, she lumped you in with them as being out to get her. She was basically paranoid, and from my dealings with her, came across as quite nasty and intractable.
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She isn't the exception. Roxy is technically the other one this same thing applied to. Also, it does happen all the time as far as someone disagreeing with another's opinion. Well more so in the current events section. It happens on both sides. I've even done it myself but I don't completely write the person off and try to keep the discussion going back and forth. When you get heated talking politics it happens. I've seen it with Chula Vs Frownland, well Chula vs. Everyone when they decide to gang up on him for his blind loyalty to Hillary.
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I knew you'd bring up Roxy. She wasn't ganged up on; she had a lot going on yet kept posting here in what was perhaps not the best frame of mind, instead of standing back and taking a breath. I love her, but sometimes she needed to really think about what was important and not give people here the kind of responses she was, which didn't help her. Some people were probably unnecessarily mean to her, but then, as someone pointed out, we're all ****s here anyway.
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If you know you aren't something that someone says you are. Being upset isn't going to change the persons thoughts about you even if it's a lie. I've been on the opposite side of this many times. You have to just accept that, that's what the other person thinks of you and decides to go running off at the mouth and telling others about you. You don't have to be a robot but it's a good life lesson to learn to control your reaction to what others say because you know the truth and you can't change their perception of you.
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I'm sorry, but this is the worst bull**** I have ever read from you. So basically you're annoyed with Mordor's "get over it" comment and yet you here are advising the same thing? No way man. If someone accuses me of being something I'm not, I'll fight to prove it's not the case. Not only have you to make it clear to that person you are not what they say you are, you have to think of how that reflects throughout the forum. Silence is taken as admission, so if I'm accused by god I'll stand up and make my case. Otherwise what's the point? Keep your head down and let people say allsorts?
Also, if this is your philosophy then why is it bothering you that we're talking about SF are we are? If it's not true, or you believe it not to be true, to use your own words, what does it matter?
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If she wasn't clarifying or explaining then why did you keep responding to her? Why go on for pages back and forth with her then? She would bring up valid points besides just those things you said. I know because I have gotten into my share of arguments with her as well. She is just opinionated like I am. I have quoted numerous posts of hers and gone back and forth. I was able to keep it civil without going off the handle and insulting her. At least Neo was nice enough to keep his thoughts about her civil but since she isn't around to defend herself it's open season and everyone and their mother thinks it's okay to keep throwing dirt on her name.
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I wanted simple clarification of a point, as I recall a pretty unimportant point, but she wouldn't oblige, and I was genuinely surprised as to why she would not. I was simply debating, then she turned me into a racist. I got better.
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Oh is that why we can count the number of female posters that are currently active/semi active on one hand? Because we are so forum friendly to females.
Keep dreaming man.
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No, females rarely frequent these kinds of sites because they have better things to do, are interested in other things or have lives. It has nothing to do with being bullied by males.