Physical discipline against children .. okay or not? (bling, track, quote)

sleepy jack · 04-10-2009, 02:11 PM

I didn't say you shouldn't punish/discipline them - in fact in order to raise them so they grow up to be respectful/humble you need to do both. I was just criticizing the methodology of the punishments advocated by many in this thread.

djchameleon · 04-10-2009, 02:15 PM

oh okay completely understand now.....I do need to backtrack and read most of the thread....I've only gotten up to page three

ElephantSack · 04-10-2009, 06:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by adidasss

Sadists should be excluded from this topic. Thank you.

It's pretty easy to be smooth and cynical when its not your life or experiences that your drawing from, isn't it, ****tard?

sleepy jack · 04-10-2009, 06:43 PM

None of that now.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 04-10-2009, 07:17 PM

I think that it is a very difficult situation to say whether physical discipline is okay or not. When you're under a lot of pressure with a morgage, busy job and have children it's hard to keep tabs of how their behaviour is changing when you don't see them. When you've had a hard day at work, you've got to find a lot of extra energy stores to keep your kids on track and behaving appropriately. So you're not necessarily going to just put them in a corner every 5 minutes until they get it, as time is limited. So if you do give them a light smack it puts them in their place far quicker. But that doesn't mean I agree with it. I'm concluding that everyone is different and no one finds looking after children a piece of cake.

darkcornerinthecloset · 04-14-2009, 06:28 PM

acceptable. some bitches just dont get it the first 50 times you tell them

Double X · 04-14-2009, 07:11 PM

Well I jokingly said it was acceptable earlier, and I asked my parents if they were physically disciplined...and they weren't. Same with my dad's parents, they were not physically disciplined and they turned out normal. I haven't been disciplined either, I turned out okay (I think). Obviously these are only isolated incidents, but parents shouldn't have a right to hit their child anyways.

Yukon Cornelius · 04-14-2009, 07:14 PM

Do you consider a spank on the butt abusive ?

Double X · 04-14-2009, 07:32 PM

Physical violence towards another person = abuse

so yes, I do.

Guybrush · 04-14-2009, 08:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Yukon Cornelius

Do you consider a spank on the butt abusive ?

How would you feel if a grown man spanked your butt?

View Poll Results: Physical punishment aganist children. Acceptable or Unacceptable?
Acceptable	50	56.82%
Unacceptable	38	43.18%
Voters: 88. You may not vote on this poll

04-10-2009, 07:17 PM	#165 (permalink)
Scarlett O'Hara Make it so Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 6,181	I think that it is a very difficult situation to say whether physical discipline is okay or not. When you're under a lot of pressure with a morgage, busy job and have children it's hard to keep tabs of how their behaviour is changing when you don't see them. When you've had a hard day at work, you've got to find a lot of extra energy stores to keep your kids on track and behaving appropriately. So you're not necessarily going to just put them in a corner every 5 minutes until they get it, as time is limited. So if you do give them a light smack it puts them in their place far quicker. But that doesn't mean I agree with it. I'm concluding that everyone is different and no one finds looking after children a piece of cake. __________________ "Elph is truly an enfant terrible of the forum, bless and curse him" - Marie, Queen of Thots

04-14-2009, 06:28 PM	#166 (permalink)
darkcornerinthecloset Music Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Rochester, NY Posts: 160	acceptable. some bitches just dont get it the first 50 times you tell them __________________ If you board the wrong train, it is no use running along the corridor in the other direction.

04-14-2009, 07:14 PM	#168 (permalink)
Yukon Cornelius Music Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 625	Do you consider a spank on the butt abusive ? __________________ Attempting to find a cure for Stupid...

04-10-2009, 02:15 PM	#162 (permalink)
djchameleon A.B.N. Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: NY baby Posts: 11,455	oh okay completely understand now.....I do need to backtrack and read most of the thread....I've only gotten up to page three

04-14-2009, 07:11 PM	#167 (permalink)
Double X sleepe Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: boston Posts: 1,140	Well I jokingly said it was acceptable earlier, and I asked my parents if they were physically disciplined...and they weren't. Same with my dad's parents, they were not physically disciplined and they turned out normal. I haven't been disciplined either, I turned out okay (I think). Obviously these are only isolated incidents, but parents shouldn't have a right to hit their child anyways.

04-14-2009, 07:32 PM	#169 (permalink)
Double X sleepe Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: boston Posts: 1,140	Physical violence towards another person = abuse so yes, I do.