Depression and suicide - Music Banter Music Banter

Go Back   Music Banter > Community Center > The Lounge > Current Events, Philosophy, & Religion
Register Blogging Today's Posts
Welcome to Music Banter Forum! Make sure to register - it's free and very quick! You have to register before you can post and participate in our discussions with over 70,000 other registered members. After you create your free account, you will be able to customize many options, you will have the full access to over 1,100,000 posts.

View Poll Results: Is suicide cowardly?
Yes 39 20.74%
No 79 42.02%
Sometimes, depends on the circumstances (kids etc.) 70 37.23%
Voters: 188. You may not vote on this poll

Closed Thread
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 02-20-2012, 01:38 PM   #401 (permalink)
the worst guy
 
Goofle's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: Miami is the place
Posts: 11,610
Default

Yeah, I need to stop sleeping too much. But I do go to bed really late, so if I ever got a job, my sleeping pattern would seriously have to change.
__________________

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chula Vista View Post
[youtube]NUmCWGPgU7g[/url]
Quote:
Originally Posted by Chula Vista View Post
[youtube]=LtYg1xz1A00[/youbube]
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mindfulness View Post
2. What was the strangest/best/worst party you ever went to?
Prolly a party I had with some people I know
Goofle is offline  
Old 02-20-2012, 01:38 PM   #402 (permalink)
Music Addict
 
Paedantic Basterd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 5,184
Default

Anybody who thinks that the difficulties it presents are trivial has no fucking idea what they are talking about, and no business stating their opinion on the matter.
Paedantic Basterd is offline  
Old 02-20-2012, 03:39 PM   #403 (permalink)
not really
 
Sparky's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 5,223
Default

disclaimer:incoherent rant

Does anyone think that depression, or symptoms of it are more common recently because of our fixation with instant gratification?

The internet, fast food, shopping. It's all hitting our pleasure senses without our brain ever associating it with effort or work. We just get what we want instantaneously, all the time in this age, and I don't believe that has ever been the case before.

The world is also too small these days, and i say that as a relatively young person. I don't like being reminded of what the hundreds of people I know are doing at all times, including photographs. I don't like the stress that comes with waiting for a text back, or the stress I feel im giving to another person when i don't respond to them.

I believe our consumption of media is what's making many youth today depressed. Real life isn't as instantly gratifying as leveling up in WOW.
Sparky is offline  
Old 02-20-2012, 04:39 PM   #404 (permalink)
Quiet Man in the Corner
 
CanwllCorfe's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Pocono Mountains
Posts: 2,480
Default

I could see that as being a factor. On a somewhat related note, I think of a Sage Francis lyric, "Technology made it easy for us to stay in touch while keeping a distance, so we just stayed distant and never touched. Now all we do is text too much." I think for me a big part of it is a lack of social contact. If I had all the friends I used to have around here still, I'm sure I'd be happier.
__________________
Your eyes were never yet let in to see the majesty and riches of the mind, but dwell in darkness; for your God is blind.

CanwllCorfe is offline  
Old 03-14-2012, 05:47 PM   #405 (permalink)
Trolier Than Thou
 
Forward To Death's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Minnesota
Posts: 1,336
Default

Nah, it's cowardly when you toy around with it to depress people and get attention. As someone openly depressed, if I ever got to the point where I wanted to kill myself, I would not want anyone to "help me". Sometimes you just see the reality all to clear, which is, as Nas puts it: "Life's a bitch and then you die". Not that there's not good times in there.

Nothing cowardly about that.
Forward To Death is offline  
Old 03-14-2012, 06:51 PM   #406 (permalink)
Account Disabled
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Posts: 4,538
Default

So... it's cowardly to want to get help when you're dealing with suicidal thoughts? Are you fucking kidding me?
someonecompletelyrandom is offline  
Old 03-14-2012, 07:31 PM   #407 (permalink)
Music Addict
 
Paedantic Basterd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 5,184
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by These guys View Post
So... it's cowardly to want to get help when you're dealing with suicidal thoughts? Are you fucking kidding me?
No, I don't think that's what he meant. I think he meant that it's shameful to use disease symptoms for attention.
Paedantic Basterd is offline  
Old 03-14-2012, 07:38 PM   #408 (permalink)
Account Disabled
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Posts: 4,538
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Pedestrian View Post
No, I don't think that's what he meant. I think he meant that it's shameful to use disease symptoms for attention.
While I agree with that, I just got the impression that he implied seeking help would automatically qualify you as an attention seeker. Sorry if I'm wrong about that.
someonecompletelyrandom is offline  
Old 03-14-2012, 07:46 PM   #409 (permalink)
Trolier Than Thou
 
Forward To Death's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Minnesota
Posts: 1,336
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by These guys View Post
So... it's cowardly to want to get help when you're dealing with suicidal thoughts? Are you fucking kidding me?
That's not what I meant. I personally wouldn't. I think its cowardly to seek attention and use depression as an excuse, and toy with the thought. If you think you need help, you need help. I just wouldn't personally.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Pedestrian View Post
No, I don't think that's what he meant. I think he meant that it's shameful to use disease symptoms for attention.
Yeah, I do, and I have friends who threaten to off themselves if their girlfriend breaks up with them and crap.

And that's I'm a she.
Forward To Death is offline  
Old 03-14-2012, 07:57 PM   #410 (permalink)
Account Disabled
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Posts: 4,538
Default

I get you now, and I definitely agree. Suicide gets tossed around a lot for silly little things. It really muddies the waters of people actually dealing with depression.
someonecompletelyrandom is offline  
Closed Thread


Similar Threads



© 2003-2024 Advameg, Inc.