The Slut Debate

TheBig3 · 12-18-2010, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by RezZ

@Big3: Do you go to fetish shows at all? I ask because I just attended a GenaTorture show and it was insane. The crazy party though is really that somehow the show was all ages. My friend got to go on stage and drank jack off the singers cooch. Of coarse the show the night before which had a couple bad words in it was 21 and over. Pretty odd way of rating them.

All in all though it ws pretty cool and different than any normal show.

No, most fetish-type events are generally dominated by things I'm not interested in: Bondage, BDSM, Role Playing, to a far lesser extent Feet. And then theres the freaky **** like crushing, hair, and balloons and the like that genuinely disgust me. I mean to each their own, but I'd prefer not to see it.

I'm fascinated generally by what makes people tick, and obviously I've looked into my own interested much more thoroughly, but in general, the Fetish folks are not my cup of tea.

Dr_Rez · 12-18-2010, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by TheBig3

I'm fascinated generally by what makes people tick, and obviously I've looked into my own interested much more thoroughly, but in general, the Fetish folks are not my cup of tea.

I dont think it makes most people who go to them tick. The average person at them seems to be just like me. To do/see something that they are not used to and typically not accustomed to. Of coarse also usually baked out of there mind as well. Now im not saying I wouldnt go to another, but Im not exactly counting down the days either.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 12-18-2010, 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by TheBig3

No, most fetish-type events are generally dominated by things I'm not interested in: Bondage, BDSM, Role Playing, to a far lesser extent Feet. And then theres the freaky **** like crushing, hair, and balloons and the like that genuinely disgust me. I mean to each their own, but I'd prefer not to see it.

I'm fascinated generally by what makes people tick, and obviously I've looked into my own interested much more thoroughly, but in general, the Fetish folks are not my cup of tea.

I can't say I find that type of sexual conduct appealing either!!

TheBig3 · 12-18-2010, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by RezZ

I dont think it makes most people who go to them tick. The average person at them seems to be just like me. To do/see something that they are not used to and typically not accustomed to. Of coarse also usually baked out of there mind as well. Now im not saying I wouldnt go to another, but Im not exactly counting down the days either.

To me, most of that **** is the step beyond the Howard Stern show. I don't know if I'd say I like my sex "classy" but I'd certainly say I want it a little more filthy than I do violent.

Dr_Rez · 12-18-2010, 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by TheBig3

To me, most of that **** is the step beyond the Howard Stern show. I don't know if I'd say I like my sex "classy" but I'd certainly say I want it a little more filthy than I do violent.

Just throw on some Electric Wizard or something then it will be beyond filthy. And if you need to clean up the mess you made put on some Mozart.

Guybrush · 12-19-2010, 03:11 AM

I've laughed myself to tears watching this fetish vid which shows a girl popping balloons. I love the way they've decided to show in slow-mo when the balloons pop.

It tickles my funny bone, but not much else though. Oh, and it should be safe for work.

TheBig3 · 12-19-2010, 07:43 AM

Yeah, thats exactly what I mean. WTF is that? I just don't get it.

Yukon Cornelius · 12-19-2010, 08:04 AM

Slut... Women get bashed for this all the time. Once labled a slut you have been marked with the scarlet "A". I honestly feel the only way that a woman can be labled a slut is if they are careless with whom they decide to sleep with and if they are excessive. Men assume women in general are more conservative, once they show they have no boundries we call them sluts. The only reason the word bothers women is because "they" themselfs feel ashamed for the actions they have been engaged with, basically the only reason we're talking about it is because someone feels bad somewhere and there looking for some type of justification.

When men sleep around the difference is "It's expected" we're all dogs.. My dad never told me to find a good one as i was coming up, he just told me not to get the wrong one pregnant.

Oh and to end it, and this is a long shot...
It could be designed to make women feel ashamed because sex for a women with the wrong ******* can change her life completely.. MEN DONT HAVE BABIES, and no not every man a woman sleeps with can take care of them regardless of looks. So maybe the next time your called a slut outside of an arguement with your signifigant other, you should look at the activities your engaging in and make your own assumtion about yourself. If you don't think its an issue than thats good for you an fuk everyone elses opinion.

amyamy12345 · 12-19-2010, 09:18 AM

its their choice whatever they do but why do they need to tell people about it?
it is nothing to be proud of....both men and women.

Double X · 12-19-2010, 02:59 PM

I don't have to call them sluts if it offends people...but if a woman has slept around a lot, I assume they have no intention of getting into a relationship with me. Which is perfect, although I am a huge man-whore myself.

The problem is when I hooked up with a girl last month, and then she really wanted to start something with me. Even if I was looking for someone long-term, I can't really see myself long-term with someone like her who gave herself to me so easily. I need to work for it. I need to connect with them emotionally if I actually want long-term relationship. The only two relationships that lasted were when we waited 6 months and then 2 months before sex.

But random women having sex with random guys? Not my problem, don't care.

View Poll Results: A slut or not a slut? That is the question.
Yes...dirty girls that need a wash	18	16.98%
No...sexual liberation for women!!	37	34.91%
Indifferent...as long as I don't get any diseases off them.	38	35.85%
I'm a creep that's to busy jacking off to Nickelback music...and Chad	13	12.26%
Voters: 106. You may not vote on this poll

12-19-2010, 03:11 AM	#66 (permalink)
Guybrush Juicious Maximus III Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Scabb Island Posts: 6,525	I've laughed myself to tears watching this fetish vid which shows a girl popping balloons. I love the way they've decided to show in slow-mo when the balloons pop. It tickles my funny bone, but not much else though. Oh, and it should be safe for work. __________________ Something Completely Different

12-19-2010, 07:43 AM	#67 (permalink)
TheBig3 killedmyraindog Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Boston, Massachusetts Posts: 11,172	Yeah, thats exactly what I mean. WTF is that? I just don't get it. __________________ I've moved to a new address

12-19-2010, 08:04 AM	#68 (permalink)
Yukon Cornelius Music Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 625	Slut... Women get bashed for this all the time. Once labled a slut you have been marked with the scarlet "A". I honestly feel the only way that a woman can be labled a slut is if they are careless with whom they decide to sleep with and if they are excessive. Men assume women in general are more conservative, once they show they have no boundries we call them sluts. The only reason the word bothers women is because "they" themselfs feel ashamed for the actions they have been engaged with, basically the only reason we're talking about it is because someone feels bad somewhere and there looking for some type of justification. When men sleep around the difference is "It's expected" we're all dogs.. My dad never told me to find a good one as i was coming up, he just told me not to get the wrong one pregnant. Oh and to end it, and this is a long shot... It could be designed to make women feel ashamed because sex for a women with the wrong ******* can change her life completely.. MEN DONT HAVE BABIES, and no not every man a woman sleeps with can take care of them regardless of looks. So maybe the next time your called a slut outside of an arguement with your signifigant other, you should look at the activities your engaging in and make your own assumtion about yourself. If you don't think its an issue than thats good for you an fuk everyone elses opinion. __________________ Attempting to find a cure for Stupid...

12-19-2010, 09:18 AM	#69 (permalink)
amyamy12345 Groupie Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: cambridge Posts: 1	its their choice whatever they do but why do they need to tell people about it? it is nothing to be proud of....both men and women.

12-19-2010, 02:59 PM	#70 (permalink)
Double X sleepe Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: boston Posts: 1,140	I don't have to call them sluts if it offends people...but if a woman has slept around a lot, I assume they have no intention of getting into a relationship with me. Which is perfect, although I am a huge man-whore myself. The problem is when I hooked up with a girl last month, and then she really wanted to start something with me. Even if I was looking for someone long-term, I can't really see myself long-term with someone like her who gave herself to me so easily. I need to work for it. I need to connect with them emotionally if I actually want long-term relationship. The only two relationships that lasted were when we waited 6 months and then 2 months before sex. But random women having sex with random guys? Not my problem, don't care.