^Real talk: he said that calling this particular person 'a psycho' is cruel. I agree with Fred

Did he need to specify?
Its pretty obvious what statement made him reply with that.

wow what a total psycho

did who need to what because why?

KAPOW

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I think you guys need to realise that on the internet, you're not going to enjoy interacting with 100% of people you encounter. I'm not perfect by any means but as you all know I am a very loud and vocal person (see Franco's quote in Mankycaaant's sig). Often I do speak first and think later but I mean well. Yes I was nasty to her in the Nicki thread and am sorry for that.

I had no idea what skin tone she is. I don't judge people based on that.

It is crap. Yes I had loads of drama with Sansa which worked both ways but that comment doesn't make sense. I think because I am a big personality and loud which means I am noticeable but I don't feel drama follows me. I think that was just a comment to try get a rise out of me.

Thank you baby girl you're such a sweetheart. I don't let my situation justify what I say and do on here like some people do. I have a boat load of health issues including general anxiety disorder which is sometimes why I have little freak outs or overreact but again that's up to me to get a handle on. I only got diagnosed this year and am on medication which I hope will start making a difference soon. I also live with chronic pain which often affects my study but I'm trying so hard to get through it. I've made money through my own self arranged work under the table (social media etc) which is exciting. I am so flattered by your comments Jess (Roxy) and you work just as hard. I think it's fucking fantastic what you're doing with forensics and you also have been through a lot as well

This!! I wasn't trying to put her down as a person, I have no doubt she is a nice person, but I was talking about the style of debate she has. I can't be bothered discussing things with her because she is very bull in a china shop discussion wise. Sure it's great to see more people discussing music but as this is a SYG I am allowed to be open about my frustrations with other members. You guys see me supporting members who have differences about them that don't necessarily meet societies norms. I actually give a big **** about people here.

Thanks for understanding. I will put her on ignore too. Yes saying psycho doesn't sound nice but I mean't she is like that in discussions. I'm not sure how it comes off cruel?

I realize 'psycho' hasn't been fully co-opted by the PC but in my mind it's kind of like calling her a retard. Personally I'm fine with both of those words but I acknowledge that they're damn cruel when you consider what you are actually saying.

You know whats wrong with you people? You take this **** too seriously. And beyond this ****, you take most **** too seriously.

Here's some advice: Your thoughts aren't that deep. And even if they were, you lack to basic skills to communicate them without sounding like a flock of squawking geese. Everything is "You've degraded a whole sub-section of humanity with that sentence, you cretin!"

Or "but what about the queer-neutral transmogrified Inuit you left out of your otherwise all-inclusive verbiage? How patriarchal are you!??!"

And you know, it's not really what you say. It's how you say it. Yes, you. You're an idiot. Stop looking behind you like I'm talking to the other jerk with a stupid avatar. You read an article, or watched a lecture on Youtube and you came here to masturbate all over the forums like you're a ****ing PhD in pan-societal family structures. And you jerk off here because none of the friends you have off of these forums gives a ****. Well news flash, we don't give a **** either. We're just stuck here on this raft with you, and to be honest, a few of us got together yesterday and thought about killing you for the extra meat it would provide.

Stop thinking up a response. Just stop. The forum cannot be all wars, soapbox mounting and gifs. We've all had enough of that, and the "remember when" posts it yields. Let's just pretend I never wrote this, and you never did these things, and maybe the next time you write something you can pretend like you give a **** about other people and the forums and make a post worthy of responding to.

Just go write a post for your journal. **** it, post a gif if that's all that's left in your arsenal, but stop coming to the lounge. And for christ sake go to the doctor, you look like your cholesterol's through the roof.

(side note: spelled cholesterol right on the first go...its a banner day for me.)

I don't understand how you get retard from psycho? I mean it as coming off angry with her posts. I can say for sure retard is not what I'm saying. But whatever, people can get offended easily by some slang words that can have multiple meanings. I can't please everyone.

What the **** did I just say?

I thought you had better taste in movies than that.

No need to get angry dude, I just read your post after replying! And anyway, I am not a child, I'll quite happily continue discussing what we are discussing. If it bothers you, exit the lounge. ;)

This retarded thread is too gay

tldr: #yolo

Hey, can I be a part of the drama too? I'm lonely and need attention.

You a bitch.

The irony is that this post is just as pretentious and annoying as the posts you're trying to condemn.


...but maybe that was your intention, in which case...ok.

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Ikr!

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I am shocked, I feel like I've been way too harsh about you. A thousand apologies. :)

Let's get this back on track

Alex: always on the fringe of the drama, needs attention (only sorta ironically), and deserves way more love than he feels. Excellent taste in music let me count the ways

Did he delete the post after posting it? lol.

On this:
I mean that's a bit of a reach there but seriously. Heteronormativity and similarly themed gender/racial jargon aren't to be taken lightly. I call people out on that **** offline too because, gee... wouldn't it be nice to live in a world devoid of bigotry?

yes it would! and hypersensitivity as well!

As well as those who say "do as I say" not as "do as I do". ;)

Some of us wouldn't mind doing what you say given the appropriate setting. :bowdown:

Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw.

People who care about these kinds of things can definitely react in ways that aren't conducive to their cause. ****, I'm one of those people. Not too mention, plenty of people claim to be sensitive to such issues but really... they just want to appear like they do. Doesn't mean their outrage isn't unfounded. Just means they expressed it poorly. Or disingenuously.

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Sounds fantastic. And it goes both ways! ;)

Yeah I think some people just complain for the sake of it so they can feel like they are part of something. And there is ways of ending "drama" that don't patronise others.

Deviouz has become one of the people I like

Also LiL, sent you a friend request since I recently made a facebook and I want your tunage in my news feed :D But don't share my name with people here because my real name is only for real niggas.

Who let this dick in here?! ;)

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I love that gif. And you. :bowdown:

Yeah I cancelled request, don't want people getting jelly.

Not weird at all. :) Just took me a while and a bit of looking around.

If you can find me, I'll add you, no questions asked.

Whether she knows what you wrote is irrelevant, as nobody really has to listen to it. If what people write in the lounge annoys you, you don't have to read it.

HONEY 3 was being funny. ...very funny..

The ideas behind jargon like that are fine and dandy, but the attitude behind their use is generally insufferable. I'd rather be moderately insensitive than a miserable bastard nobody else wants to be around for fear of a boring, angry lecture.

Well that's what I mean. I think a lot of people get put off from putting effort into understanding what all that stuff means because most people who value it come across as total self-righteous pricks. Myself totally not excluded. I feel like a lot more people would be inclined to learn these things if the already-informed didn't make their knowledge out to be some sort of exclusive commodity.

No one's gonna give a **** if they're called a racist for saying something not widely understood to be racist if the people calling them out are just staking out a witch hunt. It doesn't help the cause, not at all.

Like a TBS show that is very debateable.