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Old 01-16-2006, 07:12 PM   #1 (permalink)
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in my opinion you can slightly know for sure if you're falling in love after, let me give in example,...umm..two yrs. & a month or so. 1 year & 5 months being in a relationship; 8 months, about, to live with them.

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good addition. It always baffles me when I hear people talking about how they love their boyfriend/girlfriend sooo much, and then a month after they break up they hate them. Love doesnt go away that quickly. They're either lying and saying they hate them to try to make the breakup easier, or they just thought they were in love when they weren't, simple as that.
That annoys me, too!!!! Oooo, i love so & so...then he pushes her to the curb, all of a sudden...so & sos a ****sucker & she never loved him, now she loves bob


but yea, i say luv you to my boo, but we both know we're not in love with each other yet.


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You don't have to be with someone to love them. There are many levels of love ranging from friendship love to soul mate love. Once you have loved someone, you will never stop loving them, even if you are not physically together.
well written!


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i met a guy that took my breath away a few years ago.. then got into a relationship a while after with someone else.. and for 1 1/2 i couldn't stop thinking about this guy that i met at a small party and only talked to for a short while. and now 2 years sense i met him and i've hung out with him in the past four months but not often, i still can't get him out of my head.. call it what you well.. but he lives in my heart.. its freaky
you wanna dun dun dunn(oh)
Cuz hes so thick



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Old 01-16-2006, 07:18 PM   #2 (permalink)
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after two years and a month? i m confused
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Old 01-16-2006, 07:19 PM   #3 (permalink)
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how can you put a time frame on falling in love?
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Old 01-16-2006, 07:27 PM   #4 (permalink)
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how can you put a time frame on falling in love?

no, thats not want i was trying to do.
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Old 01-16-2006, 07:31 PM   #5 (permalink)
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no, thats not want i was trying to do.
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in my opinion love can be slightly "sealed" after...what..two yrs. & a month or so. 1 year & 5 months being in a relationship; 8 months, about, to live with them.
really? sounds like it's exactly what you were trying to do. And if you're gonna move in with someone before you love them, you're in for a shi*tload of problems.
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Old 01-16-2006, 07:28 PM   #6 (permalink)
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but have you been with someone for 2 years and you dont love them?
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Old 01-16-2006, 07:32 PM   #7 (permalink)
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but have you been with someone for 2 years and you dont love them?

nope, never been with someone longer than a yr. & four months. never lived with them either. Living with them makes a difference. No, i wasnt in love with them. never been in love.


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really? sounds like it's exactly what you were trying to do. And if you're gonna move in with someone before you love them, you're in for a shi*tload of problems.

well its not. look at my edited version, tryed to explain more of what i was trying to say.
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Old 01-16-2006, 07:33 PM   #8 (permalink)
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none of love can be simple though. some people can tell you they love you even though they dont they just dont want to die lonely and it ends up killing you and all you can do is sit **** girls cause everytime you think about telling someone you love them you dont wanna get hurt again so you just use everyone trying to hurt them like you were hurt even though you didnt mean to but something is wrong with your brain just cause she said she loved you when she didnt
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none of love can be simple though. some people can tell you they love you even though they dont they just dont want to die lonely and it ends up killing you and all you can do is sit **** girls cause everytime you think about telling someone you love them you dont wanna get hurt again so you just use everyone trying to hurt them like you were hurt even though you didnt mean to but something is wrong with your brain just cause she said she loved you when she didnt
....purely hypothetical situation I'm sure.....
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Old 01-16-2006, 07:39 PM   #10 (permalink)
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....purely hypothetical situation I'm sure.....


i don't care if your joking about that.. but don't post if you have nothing else to add besides rude stuff.. please.. just pm the person!
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