yes I think your probably right. I am too isolated. Never had a female friend so I know I'm too dismissive.

Unfortunately--I've been to some therapy already. I'm also fairly educated on therapy, alas..it won't help.

If i had replaced the word "them" with "females" it would have been okay? I'm not sure the significance

I always love how any single female is so representative of her gender. Even you yourselves promote uniformity, like there is no possible way that some female could understand where im coming from

Answer your own question dude.

it would have made no difference to me.

I was trying to acquire your opinion, hence asking you.

I know this dude didn't just assume I'm a female. Or single.

was directed at chula,

and i meant single in the sense of 1 opposite of group females, not single in the sense as dating or whatever

At least not one with any self-respect.

I'd be nicer to Chula if I were you; she's full of all kinds of surprises.

I mean, how many girls do you know who like Dishwalla?

sure.

I'm not being mean to chula i don't think.

Nor do I think I've expressed anything that bad or unusual really.