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~~butthead aka 216~~ · 08-15-2013, 02:36 AM

im a real laid back type of guy

but a friend told me somethin about a post my dad made on facebook so i checked it out since i dont have him added as a friend. backstory is we havent spoke in a long time, maybe 5 yrs because a lot of dumb stuff on his part. but his post alluded to me and kinda made himself sound like a victim of sorts and ppl who i dont even know were commenting on it and stuff. i dunno i dont get mad often and shouldnt care, i wish tht friend didnt mention the fb post but it really got under my skin today

Engine · 08-15-2013, 03:04 AM

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Originally Posted by 216

im a real laid back type of guy

but a friend told me somethin about a post my dad made on facebook so i checked it out since i dont have him added as a friend. backstory is we havent spoke in a long time, maybe 5 yrs because a lot of dumb stuff on his part. but his post alluded to me and kinda made himself sound like a victim of sorts and ppl who i dont even know were commenting on it and stuff. i dunno i dont get mad often and shouldnt care, i wish tht friend didnt mention the fb post but it really got under my skin today

When you live online you are as good as dead.

FETCHER. · 08-15-2013, 03:40 AM

Cruise control is so pointless in Scotland unless you're using the motorway. My brothers BMW has cruise control and I swear as soon as you put it on you need to turn it off, the roads here are so windy, I would love to have a car cam that showed outside and inside of the car when I'm driving. I could post some ****ing priceless clips of my roadrage.

~~Cuthbert~~ · 08-19-2013, 10:20 PM

Buying clothes is a total pain in the arse. Just f*ck off.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 08-19-2013, 10:56 PM

My boyfriend has moved back to Russia. I am so sad. I think there's a chance that he won't come back to NZ (as his visa was refused) or Australia and go for Europe instead. What do I do? Do I wait until he makes a decision or try and convince him to apply for visa in Auz and NZ? If he went to Auz I would be able to come over because we both discussed Melbourne being the best place to work and not over heat (for me!).

~~Cuthbert~~ · 08-19-2013, 11:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

My boyfriend has moved back to Russia. I am so sad. I think there's a chance that he won't come back to NZ (as his visa was refused) or Australia and go for Europe instead. What do I do? Do I wait until he makes a decision or try and convince him to apply for visa in Auz and NZ? If he went to Auz I would be able to come over because we both discussed Melbourne being the best place to work and not over heat (for me!).

Don't know your back story with this so this post will no doubt be shit but why wouldn't you try to convince him? Don't see why not if that's what you want. As long as it's clear that's what you want but he still decides whether it's best for him personally (since he is the one moving) & it's still his choice or whatever then yeah. My ex kept asking me to move to be with her once but that would have been the worst thing ever for me (I said no btw.)

& I did a LDR once before so I can relate to how much you miss your bf

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Good luck.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 08-20-2013, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Fluffy Kittens

Don't know your back story with this so this post will no doubt be shit but why wouldn't you try to convince him? Don't see why not if that's what you want. As long as it's clear that's what you want but he still decides whether it's best for him personally (since he is the one moving) & it's still his choice or whatever then yeah. My ex kept asking me to move to be with her once but that would have been the worst thing ever for me (I said no btw.)

& I did a LDR once before so I can relate to how much you miss your bf

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Good luck.

Yeah I complete understand what you are saying. I think we both as a couple need to decide what our personal goals are and see whether it will be worth sticking together.

I'm pretty devastated to be honest. I'm trying to distract myself and not mope around.

Thanks Fluffy!

anticipation · 08-20-2013, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

My boyfriend has moved back to Russia. I am so sad. I think there's a chance that he won't come back to NZ (as his visa was refused) or Australia and go for Europe instead. What do I do? Do I wait until he makes a decision or try and convince him to apply for visa in Auz and NZ? If he went to Auz I would be able to come over because we both discussed Melbourne being the best place to work and not over heat (for me!).

Damn girl I'm sorry feel free to pm me if you want to talk ❤👸

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 08-20-2013, 02:57 AM

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Originally Posted by anticipation

Damn girl I'm sorry feel free to pm me if you want to talk ❤👸

Thanks hun I really appreciate it!

The Batlord · 08-20-2013, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

My boyfriend has moved back to Russia. I am so sad. I think there's a chance that he won't come back to NZ (as his visa was refused) or Australia and go for Europe instead. What do I do? Do I wait until he makes a decision or try and convince him to apply for visa in Auz and NZ? If he went to Auz I would be able to come over because we both discussed Melbourne being the best place to work and not over heat (for me!).

But aren't you in your twenties? Do you really need to be deciding Europe vs. Australia/New Zealand based on a relationship between two twenty-somethings? I don't mean to sound condescending, but in all likelihood you two will break up at some point and then he'll be in New Zealand for no apparent reason.

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08-19-2013, 10:56 PM	#12735 (permalink)
Scarlett O'Hara Make it so Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 6,181	My boyfriend has moved back to Russia. I am so sad. I think there's a chance that he won't come back to NZ (as his visa was refused) or Australia and go for Europe instead. What do I do? Do I wait until he makes a decision or try and convince him to apply for visa in Auz and NZ? If he went to Auz I would be able to come over because we both discussed Melbourne being the best place to work and not over heat (for me!). __________________ "Elph is truly an enfant terrible of the forum, bless and curse him" - Marie, Queen of Thots

08-15-2013, 02:36 AM	#12731 (permalink)
~~butthead aka 216~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: freely swimmin thru the waters of glory much like a majestic bald eagle soars thru the skies Posts: 1,463	im a real laid back type of guy but a friend told me somethin about a post my dad made on facebook so i checked it out since i dont have him added as a friend. backstory is we havent spoke in a long time, maybe 5 yrs because a lot of dumb stuff on his part. but his post alluded to me and kinda made himself sound like a victim of sorts and ppl who i dont even know were commenting on it and stuff. i dunno i dont get mad often and shouldnt care, i wish tht friend didnt mention the fb post but it really got under my skin today

08-19-2013, 10:20 PM	#12734 (permalink)
~~Cuthbert~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: The Black Country Posts: 8,827	Buying clothes is a total pain in the arse. Just f*ck off.