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Old 12-02-2010, 12:59 PM   #3301 (permalink)
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Do you guys think that sex is different with every person you sleep with? I mean obviously it is to an extent because people have different body types and confidences. I personally feel like sex is always different with each person, and each time it has a different characteristic that I come to know. I find it harder now to rate sex from with one person compared to another. It's like you can have ultimate pleasure but in different ways and experience it differently.

Am I making sense?
Only slept with a few girls, but yes it's different. Everyone has different things they like, don't like during sex. Some people are pretty open to anything, other people are more reserved and more shy. I think there's always that one thing that you associate with every person you sleep with. Like if someone were to say the name Katy, I'd automatically think 'the girl who loved being choked' or if someone said another girls name ive slept with there'd be one main thing that would pop into my head like 'oh she gave bad head' or 'oh that girl liked to ride' or whatever. Get what I'm saying? Like every person gets associated with one thing you remember more than anything else about them (im just talking sexually).

But I will say that I cna rate sex among different people. Yeah, it's different with different people but I still have my rankings. Some sex is just better or more memorable than others.
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Old 12-03-2010, 01:56 AM   #3302 (permalink)
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What differs the most between the girls I've had sex with, I think, is enthusiasm! What I like is girls who like sex, are confident in bed and not afraid to show what they want and how they want it and actively participate in the act with enthusiasm. To me, that is super sexy.
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Old 12-03-2010, 08:57 AM   #3303 (permalink)
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Do you guys think that sex is different with every person you sleep with? I mean obviously it is to an extent because people have different body types and confidences. I personally feel like sex is always different with each person, and each time it has a different characteristic that I come to know. I find it harder now to rate sex from with one person compared to another. It's like you can have ultimate pleasure but in different ways and experience it differently.

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sex is emotion.

every human relationship is a emotionally different in someway

therefore

sex is always different in some way
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Old 12-03-2010, 04:05 PM   #3304 (permalink)
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sex is emotion.

every human relationship is a emotionally different in someway

therefore

sex is always different in some way
Very good point. But for some people sex can be unemotional.
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Old 12-03-2010, 04:16 PM   #3305 (permalink)
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Very good point. But for some people sex can be unemotional.
Poor people :/
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Old 12-03-2010, 06:02 PM   #3306 (permalink)
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I just had a talk with a girl who doesn't like sex.
She likes body contact. Cuddling, laying together, but she doesn't seem to get the point of sex.
Guess she hasn't had good sex, yet.
I myself don't really need the 'action' in sex, I like sex with a lot of cuddling, too. But still... Strange thing for a (really, really beautiful an sexy) girl to say. And sex is bonding, it really makes you love the other person more (it does in my case).

Eitherway, I still thought what she said was kind of cute. I'll hug her anytime .
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Old 12-03-2010, 06:23 PM   #3307 (permalink)
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Poor people :/
Sex doesn't have to be emotional. When I was with my ex, the sex was emotional... Then we broke up but were still talking and having sex pretty regularly for like a year. It wasn't as emotional for either of us, but it was still really great sex
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Old 12-04-2010, 04:37 PM   #3308 (permalink)
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I just had a talk with a girl who doesn't like sex.
She likes body contact. Cuddling, laying together, but she doesn't seem to get the point of sex.
Guess she hasn't had good sex, yet.
I myself don't really need the 'action' in sex, I like sex with a lot of cuddling, too. But still... Strange thing for a (really, really beautiful an sexy) girl to say. And sex is bonding, it really makes you love the other person more (it does in my case).

Eitherway, I still thought what she said was kind of cute. I'll hug her anytime .
Interesting how you assume that simply because she's an attractive woman, she must have a lot of sexual partners, or constant offers to have sex. In my experience, the people who have the most sex and get the most offers are confident people who like and accept themselves for who they are, regardless of what the rest of the world thinks about their potential attractiveness. People who are less confident tend to have fewer sexual partners. And lack of confidence can affect anyone, regardless of how attractive they may be in other people's eyes.

But I'd agree that this woman most likely hasn't had a good sexual experience yet if she doesn't enjoy or see the point of it. Unfortunate. If you're dating her, I hope you're patient with her, show her lots of love and support and are hopefully able to help her have a better sexual experience at some point in time.

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Sex doesn't have to be emotional. When I was with my ex, the sex was emotional... Then we broke up but were still talking and having sex pretty regularly for like a year. It wasn't as emotional for either of us, but it was still really great sex
Obviously, continuing to have sex made you both happy, which is an emotion, or else you wouldn't have continued.
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Old 12-04-2010, 04:44 PM   #3309 (permalink)
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Agreeing with this ^ if you're completely unemotional about sex, then you aint enjoying it, almost by definition.
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Old 12-04-2010, 04:48 PM   #3310 (permalink)
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I thought it was kind of obvious that when people talk about lack of emotion in sex it's pretty clear they mean their feelings for the other person they're referring to, not their own gratification.
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