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Originally Posted by s_k (Post 980906)

Haha, I really don't mind doing that. But then I never watch TV. And I'm never forced to do so. It just happens at some point I guess.
I always think it's a fun thing to do. I don't like having pics of myself, but the making process is fun to me. I must say that it's a thing Chloë (the girl above) and I have had for years now. We always take some pics together. I have pics like these over the years. I usually take pics of her though (she likes it and I don't mind having pics of her :))

About the foursome: That would be awesome. I do have a talent for bringing girls together (not a joke, this, happened to me many times) so who knows :).
My ex-girlfriend and I had the exact same taste in girls. Very practical :).

Your a chicks safe haven dude..Layed back taking pictures..actually listening. All qualities they look for in a guy. Im usually so intoxicated the conversation is pretty one sided and sloppy. But makes for a great story the next day on how I either struck out terribly or pulled it off. Even being in a state of drunken stupor. Id say statisticly its split down the middle. With your occasional grenade in the mix..depending on what I had to drink. Never a shot at a multiple partner all at once thing though. Good luck playa

I'm never that intoxicated. And I also talk to my friends at home, not just at parties, that helps. And being a safe haven has downsides... "The Friend Zone".
I must say that most of my female friends know I that I both like them as a friend and as an sexually attractive human being. They seem okay with that. I'm not going to deny that I have fantasies of well... All of my female friends. They usually say it's pretty flattering and I tend to keep all of my friends, so I guess there's no harm in being honest about that. Sometimes it's mutual. Which is nice :)

Enjoy the perks. If things ever go sour with your gal never hurts to have the "friend" element to fall back on. Could pay off in the long run.

Well that's what happened last year after a 6 year relationship.
I should be honest and tell you that, friends or no friends, it took me a year to get my life back. I felt really really miserable. But the friendship stayed. We both knew it was worth it. I'm glad to have her.

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Originally Posted by s_k (Post 980931)

Awww that is the sweetest thing I've read in ages! *hug*

Sorry I keep meaning to PM you!!!! Will do so asap. :D

How long would you say most females like being orally pleased (or displeased depending on whom is performing) before it grows sensitive or tired?

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Originally Posted by RezZ (Post 981439)

How long would you say most females like being orally pleased (or displeased depending on whom is performing) before it grows sensitive or tired?

Depends on the girl, and how good you are at doing it. Look at it from a male perspective, if a girl is going down on you, and it's incredible you won't want her to stop at all. But, if shes a biter and gags easily, then you'll probably want to cut it short and move onto other stuff.

My best advise would be to have open communication during sexual activity. It shouldn't be a mystery whether you're performing to her liking or not. She shouldn't be afraid to tell you what she likes and how she likes it. Communication is the key to sexual pleasure, in my experience anyway.

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Originally Posted by RezZ (Post 981439)

How long would you say most females like being orally pleased (or displeased depending on whom is performing) before it grows sensitive or tired?

I think it all depends on the situation, the longer the better in my opinion. I think most guys will cop out before she's ready for you to stop.

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Originally Posted by Vanilla (Post 981415)

Awww that is the sweetest thing I've read in ages! *hug*

Sorry I keep meaning to PM you!!!! Will do so asap. :D

That hug will make the waiting feel a bit shorter :love:
Eitherway, I had been friends with her for more than three years before she officially became my girlfriend. There was no doubt whatsoever that, should anything go wrong, we would be friends again afterwards.
Turned out to be really tough. But we made it in the end :).
There's too much we have together to throw away.

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Originally Posted by RezZ (Post 981439)

How long would you say most females like being orally pleased (or displeased depending on whom is performing) before it grows sensitive or tired?

Some variation never hurt anyone. So I wouldn't recommend doing pretty much everything for longer than 5 to 10 minutes.
But my experience is that after 20 minutes, it really is time for something else. Not only becaufe fpeaking becomf a bit hard when you can'f feel your fongue.