Originally Posted by Burning Down (Post 1222511)

I know you have a thing for my boyfriend Fred, hold your horses.

Originally Posted by Burning Down (Post 1222503)

My boyfriend lets me have my own friends, female and male. Because he's a normal man who doesn't keep a woman on a leash.

Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR. (Post 1222514)

I already know my opening line. My what a nice accent you have, is that Eastern European? :thumb:

Originally Posted by Rjinnx (Post 1222515)

I may be a little nit-picky here but I still have a problem with that statement. Your boyfriend shouldn't let you do anything. It still implies control. I'm guessing and hoping that's not really the case and perhaps not worded the best. But you are both just individuals in a partnership, which heavily requires respect and support for the others' decisions and lifestyle.

Originally Posted by Rjinnx (Post 1222515)

I may be a little nit-picky here but I still have a problem with that statement. Your boyfriend shouldn't let you do anything. It still implies control. I'm guessing and hoping that's not really the case and perhaps not worded the best. But you are both just individuals in a partnership, which heavily requires respect and support for the others' decisions and lifestyle.

Originally Posted by Franco Pepe Kalle (Post 1222497)

Most men in my view would not let the woman to even choose her own friends. Well I will allow that. She will choose her own friends on her terms.

Originally Posted by Franco Pepe Kalle (Post 1222492)

Sometimes I will allow my woman to argue with on me on issues of life but when it comes to the bills, usually I will make that decision.

Originally Posted by Salami (Post 1222535)

Do you think so? I've rarely known men to get worked up about their girlfriends going out with her old friends. To be honest I've more often encountered girls who won't let their boyfriends meet other girls (with usually well-founded suspicion).

I wouldn't call it well-founded at all. Girls are just as likely to cheat as men from my perspective.


Now here's my question - supposing you found your perfect woman, one who's independent and speaks for herself but also happens to have all the curves you could wish for (which I believe is your kind of girl). Supposing you get married. Supposing the first issue of money arises, but she asks to take it upon herself to sort out the bills and taxes. At this point you don't even know whether she's brilliant with money, all she does is ask you to trust her.
What will you do? Do you trust her? Or do you put your foot down and demand you fulfill the typical dominant male role?

Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR. (Post 1222540)

Also the first paragragh how would it be well founded? Girls are just as likely to cheat as men. I know this through personal experience and friends who have gone through it.