The Sexual Experience Thread

[Burning Down]

Originally Posted by Vanilla

Thid is such an educational and great post. I find personally that telling a guy what works fpr me (which can vary girl to girl) is more likely to result in orgasm. It's not always easy for some people to be open about it.

Thanks. Communication really is the #1 tool when it comes to improving sex.

Originally Posted by Ass napkin ed

Why do you always miss my point. ^everything you said I already know & I agree with, although I hope you know that most men, (well I'll speak for myself) don't care if you're faking it or not. As long as I ***, I'm pretty much satisfied w/ the work I've put in. And if she isn't satisfied I expect her to say something b/c if the situation were reversed, I would complain if I wasn't satisfied. And according to some men they've had to fake it, which I don't believe. B/c even the worst lay gets the job done, so that's a myth as far as I'm concerned.

Now as for that guy's comment, my point was if he hasn't struck gold yet and he's been digging for a while what makes him think he'll strike gold now? or for that matter why not ask the girl you're sleeping with what you need to do to improve b/c at this point if he hasn't hit the jackpot and she's still allowing him to play he should be grateful b/c as far as I'm concerned he'll never win so he might as well enjoy the free play.

Then if you know and agree with what I said, why did you make that post? Thrusting away and expecting that she'll come from that like you will doesn't work. You also can't just have a rigid MO during foreplay and sex either. The only way to really know how to get a woman off is by talking to her and getting her to tell you what she wants from you and what she likes.

Some people are also just anorgasmic - not able to achieve orgasm due to a variety of factors (most commonly being on antidepressants or using other drugs consistently).

If Slow Groove and his girlfriend have been together for awhile, then sure it's about time they have a conversation or something about what they like. If they've only been together for like, less than 6 months lets say, then that's also a good time to start the communication.

[Ass Napkin Ed]

Originally Posted by Hermione

I am talking from personal experience. I guess some of us aren't as lucky to meet someone like you who cares about them enough to care about whether they orgasm or not

I know, but unfortunately there's only one of me so the world will have to deal.

[Sansa Stark]

Originally Posted by Ass napkin ed

I know, but unfortunately there's only one of me so the world will have to deal.

And what makes you so special besides being able to make a girl ***?

[Ass Napkin Ed]

Originally Posted by Hermione

And what makes you so special besides being able to make a girl ***?

Oh stop it, like you don't already know

[Sansa Stark]

Originally Posted by Ass napkin ed

Oh stop it, like you don't already know

[The Batlord]

How the hell did Hermione and Ass Napkin Ed become friends? Or am I just crazy?

[Justthefacts]

Originally Posted by Ass napkin ed

He's joking right, I mean you've been ****ing her for how long and you've never given her an orgasm? Holy **** it's a miracle she still lets you **** her so why even bother

Personally, I think I'm a monster in the sack, it's just my sexual partners I've had always seem to be difficult with the way they have their orgasms. My new girlfriend I've only had sex with her once, and now I'm going to ask her how I should do it. I'm very self-conscious about this, and I'd appreciate if you actually gave me some advice, instead of saying how she should've left me by now.

[Sansa Stark]

Originally Posted by The Batlord

How the hell did Hermione and Ass Napkin Ed become friends? Or am I just crazy?

I'm good at making friends Batlord. I can relate to pretty much everyone. It's a talent.

[The Batlord]

Originally Posted by Hermione

I'm good at making friends Batlord. I can relate to pretty much everyone. It's a talent.

Now you just need to make nice with HHBH.

[Burning Down]

Originally Posted by Slow Groove

Personally, I think I'm a monster in the sack, it's just my sexual partners I've had always seem to be difficult with the way they have their orgasms. My new girlfriend I've only had sex with her once, and now I'm going to ask her how I should do it. I'm very self-conscious about this, and I'd appreciate if you actually gave me some advice, instead of saying how she should've left me by now.

Yeah then you are still learning what she likes, and she's learning what you like. Just be honest with her and ask straightforward questions. It will benefit both of you!