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12-22-2011, 07:41 PM | #641 (permalink) | |
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I don't think it's hard at all to build platonic relationships with men. I think it's just easy to fantasize about women you're close to. Once the fantasy enters your head it becomes a craving. Once it becomes a craving it becomes a crush, and then the will to initiate a sexual encounter becomes rather overbearing.
With that said, there are ****loads of men who establish friendships with women hinging on the fact they want to get in their pants. Some get stuck in those friendships, build frustration, and eventually outlash. Usually quite rudely. Perhaps even heart breakingly. Then again, there are also women who purposely bring forward these friendships, and play dumb throughout them. With that said, I do believe platonic relationships between men, and women do exist. Ones of which don't cross the line at all, whatsoever. Think it just relies on the chance combination of personalities involved. Human beings are very complex creatures. It's hard to keep the balance of cerebral, and primal I think.
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12-22-2011, 07:45 PM | #642 (permalink) |
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I'd like to say I'm an exception to that rule but no I don't set out for anything more than just a friend to hang out with, but it just gets to that point that here is a person where you can take things beyond being just physical, maybe if she was just enough of a bitch it could work?
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12-22-2011, 08:56 PM | #643 (permalink) | |
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Because of bullshit stereotypes perhaps? One of my closest friends is a woman, and even when we were both single, I had nothing but strictly platonic feelings toward her. |
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I bring it up because it's an argument I had today. I haven't had many male friends, but I'm confident that those I've had have had no interest in me. That's been my experience and what I'd like to believe. |
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