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Old 07-05-2010, 06:40 AM   #211 (permalink)
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One thing I'd like about being a chick is being less hairy cuz being hairy is just gross to me. I hate having hairy balls.

But I'd be called a queer if I shaved my body hair and I dont want to go through the trouble of maintaining it anyway so I cope with it, I don't shave my beard for two reasons and that's laziness and to make my face look less fat. But a lot of girls don't like beards so I am tempted to shave to increase my desirability to potential mates but I don't think it would help really.
Beards are awesome. Fact.

The only time hair is an issue for me is hairy backs or when men are really, excessively hairy (like, part gorilla). Other than that the hairyness of a guy doesn't really factor into anything for me. I can give or take body hair on a bloke to be honest. I don't really know a lot of other girls that it's a huge issue for either...
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Old 07-05-2010, 06:47 AM   #212 (permalink)
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I prefer no hair on a mans chest or back. It just creeps me out its nothing aesthetic i just find it weird cause i dont have it... i guess.
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Old 07-05-2010, 07:25 AM   #213 (permalink)
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One thing I'd like about being a chick is being less hairy cuz being hairy is just gross to me. I hate having hairy balls.

But I'd be called a queer if I shaved my body hair and I dont want to go through the trouble of maintaining it anyway so I cope with it, I don't shave my beard for two reasons and that's laziness and to make my face look less fat. But a lot of girls don't like beards so I am tempted to shave to increase my desirability to potential mates but I don't think it would help really.
You would be called a queer if you shaved your body hair and your balls? I understand that shaving your chest or getting waxed or whatever is considered quite a feminine thing to do but unless you are meeting extremely judgemental females or taking your clothes off around other men, i dont think it would be an issue!


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Short hair is common and not looked upon as being "***" if you have it
No, its just looked upon as gay if you have long hair instead. It works both ways.
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Old 07-05-2010, 08:02 AM   #214 (permalink)
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You have a penis. You can pee standing up. It doesnt take much effort to orgasm. Short hair is common and not looked upon as being "***" if you have it, you dont have to dry it with a dryer. Able to walk around topless. Stubble is sexy meaning i wouldnt have to shave as much (i dont shave my face im talking about id shave my face less than i shave my legs .) just in general males have so many things that make me jealous of.

What would you say the pro's of being a woman is?
-Peeing standing up sucks and it's overrated. I don't do it. I dont want to worry about aiming, and public urinals? Forget about it. I'm already nervous around other people I sure as hell ain't comfortable enough waving my junk around other people.

-But despite the extra effort your orgasms last longer if I'm correct, and multiple ones are achievable at that. And that's a big goddamn plus.

-I promise you I'm not the only guy who is turned on by short hair, you want short hair? Go for it. If a guy calls you a dyke it's not someone you'd want to be with anyone.

-If only this was acceptable behavior for all women. Why don't you try to start a trend?

-Having a beard sucks, I just have one because I'm lazy. But yeah, if I get into a relationship, it's gone. I don't like to feel it, it's itchy, it looks gross with food on it, and it would be uncomfortable to make out with it.

There's many pros to being a women. Among them the empathetic qualities, the communication skills, not having to bottle your emotions, not having to worry too much about having a successful career, not having to be macho and do a lot of backbreaking physical labour, being better around children, being less hairy and disgusting overall, being desirable to men (and if you're only attracted to men that's a plus), a much greater diversity in fashion choices (these days it's very acceptable for women to dress like men but it sure as hell don't work the other way around) and oh yeah. YOU HAVE YOUR OWN BOOBS!!!
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Old 07-05-2010, 08:03 AM   #215 (permalink)
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For a guy, shaving body hair up here in any way would definetly be seen as a bit feminine. Probably, spending any amount of time or products on beautifying yourself beyond a normal shower with some shampoo would. It's worth mentioning again that I'm presentlyin the high arctic, though. Everyone here let's their hair grow, wherever it is. There's testosterone in the air.

The worst machismo environments up here must be in the miner camps where there are no women. It's really hard work, acceptance from your elders/betters is something you have to earn through hardship and probably many pranks and I think it's probably just an environment where a lot of what you'd consider "normal" moral values degrade .. Possibly, they are replaced with other values though and perhaps some kind of honour system When guys get together like that, there's no room for weakness. If you're aching or hurting or at the butt of a joke, you are supposed to suck it up and not whine about it and if you're a newcomer, you are constantly tested to see if you're up to these standards.

The internal "friend" environment with my mates down south shares a lot of similarities with this, just not at all to the same extent.
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The worst machismo environments up here must be in the miner camps where there are no women. It's really hard work, acceptance from your elders/betters is something you have to earn through hardship and probably many pranks and I think it's probably just an environment where a lot of what you'd consider "normal" moral values degrade .. Possibly, they are replaced with other values though and perhaps some kind of honour system When guys get together like that, there's no room for weakness. If you're aching or hurting or at the butt of a joke, you are supposed to suck it up and not whine about it and if you're a newcomer, you are constantly tested to see if you're up to these standards.

The internal "friend" environment with my mates down south shares a lot of similarities with this, just not at all to the same extent.
I think I definately prefer being 'one of the lads' - beating on eachother, getting the 'your Mum' jokes going etc. I've worked in both male and female orientated workplaces and I'd take a male one everytime. Not just on account of being able to flash cleavage and get stuff done for me but because you know where you stand. Yes, I might have to prove myself more than a male newcomer into the group/workplace (let's face it, doing manual jobs, yeah, the blokes will do it faster than me based on strength alone). Sometimes the guys at work might go too far with the jokes and comments, but I've never been hurt by a group of blokes like I have by a group of women. I find in working in offices/shops, if you don't fit into the clicky little groups they have, then you may as well go look for another job cos otherwise you're just gonna spend your worklife having cruel jibes pointed at you until they get the satisfaction of knowing that they've upset you.

Machoism over bitchiness everytime for me
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Attracting other mates is a pretty legitimate use. Taste in women is pretty varied from guy to guy but one thing that is pretty universal is smooth legs.
that's only a modern thing though.

glasses helped people live better lives from the time they were invented. if you were born myopic in the middle ages you were screwed. if you had hairy legs no one gave a crap.

real medieval women did not look like the ones in medieval skinemax movies.


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But I'd be called a queer if I shaved my body hair and I dont want to go through the trouble of maintaining it anyway so I cope with it


how would anyone know you shave your body hair unless you flaunt it? and why would anyone flaunt it unless they wanted the attention? it's not 'queer' unless you're doing it for fashion and ease of man on man action. i keep my body hair trimmed because it means i sweat way less when i drum.
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Um, how about wearing short pants during summer, that would be flaunting it?

Anyhow, being "queer" is not for pussies. So don't be a pussy and be queer. *Marijan's wise thought for the day*

I trim my bodyhair...sometimes...because it looks better...sometimes I even shave my chest hair but then I regret it because I like the way my chest looks with hair.
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Eh, I just think I already have enough things to feel like a weirdo about.
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Boo Boo, I think you worry too much!
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