The Confessional Thread

[ladyislingering]

I really hate the way my neighbor laughs. It makes me want to throw a shoe at her.

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Originally Posted by ladyislingering

I really hate the way my neighbor laughs. It makes me want to throw a shoe at her.

You'd probably hate my laugh too lol. It's pretty loud and unplesant but my friends get used to it.

[ladyislingering]

Originally Posted by Vanilla

You'd probably hate my laugh too lol. It's pretty loud and unplesant but my friends get used to it.

I'm not usually annoyed by anyone's laugh but this chick literally sounds like "UHH HURR HURR HURR HURR HURR URRR URRR HURRR" and it's just... it's ... unbelievable.

[The Batlord]

Originally Posted by ladyislingering

I really hate the way my neighbor laughs. It makes me want to throw a shoe at her.

See, this isn't about her being burnt out at work, she's just hateful in general.

[ladyislingering]

Originally Posted by The Batlord

See, this isn't about her being burnt out at work, she's just hateful in general.

I prefer to call it "incessantly irritated with the human race".

[Black Francis]

My ex is getting married and for some reason this stings a bit even though i don't want her back..

the sad thing is i know she isn't really in love with the guy it's more like a marriage of convenience and im not just saying this outta jealousy that's straight up what she told me.

if i am to be honest with myself i wish she wouldn't marry anyone but at the very least i hoped she married someone she truly loved not just a guy that doesn't do much for her.

I hate to say this but i don't think their marriage will last too long but i hope im wrong and maybe they'll make it cause she deserves to be happy..

[GuD]

If you don't want her back why are you so concerned with her business dude? What's the big deal if she marries someone else, even if it is just for the convenience? S'her choice man. Sounds like she's gone dude and you're just gonna end up stressing yourself out for no reason if you're uncomfortable with her decisions.

[Black Francis]

I know and this may sound cheesy but i just want her to be truly happy with who she is marrying and it's also cause i lived with this girl and i loved her very much so it's a bit hard for me to accept she is going to be officially married and she's gonna be some dude's wife..

But like i said i don't really want her back but that doesn't stop from being a little sad and wondering "What if"

I'll get over it but i wish she was marrying someone she was crazy about.

It is unnecessary stress as you mentioned but i just can't say "**** it!" and turn off my feelings, no i have to pound them with logic and keep pounding until eventually im alright.

[DwnWthVwls]

Marriage for convenience = something to gain = happy girl = happy Francis.

Rationalization complete. *Logic stomps feelings*

Thee end.

[GuD]

Hey man, a lot times marriages like hers end up working out. Might not be the news you wanna hear cuz it seems like you've got mixed feelings but yeah dude. The whole meet up-and-fall-crazy-in-love-and-get-married-forever thing were everybody is totally happy about everybody else just doesn't always happen. Sometimes, for some people, a pragmatic approach towards relationships is best. Seems like you're on the right path but if you truly wanna let go of her ya gotta respect her enough to stop concerning yourself with her choices. Not tryna criticize you or anything like that at all just offerin some advice because I've been in a similar boat many times and wound up wrecking myself over stuff that really didn't even concern me and wasn't my place to infringe upon in the first place. Never even realized it until after I ended up making a fool/******* of myself.