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Frownland 11-03-2013 11:51 PM

I don't understand why a lot of people don't masturbate to a mirror. I mean, what do you do exactly?

Sansa Stark 11-04-2013 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering (Post 1380373)
I've gotten pretty skilled at distancing myself from everyone just to avoid hating them/having my feelings hurt

but I fear there will come a day when it just won't work

It gets tougher and tougher especially when feelings just hit you out of nowhere, I usually have something that triggers them and then I'm like ****, I give up

Dr_Rez 11-04-2013 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering (Post 1380373)
I've gotten pretty skilled at distancing myself from everyone just to avoid hating them/having my feelings hurt

but I fear there will come a day when it just won't work

I dont mean any offense by this, only to help...but that is a cowardly way to live life. That being said I often find myself doing the same thing and have to remind myself the only reason we are here is to connect with other people, if we do not do that whats the point.

Sansa Stark 11-04-2013 10:13 AM

Not necessarily. A lot of the times I have to package up my feelings because they come at really inappropriate times (such as in the middle of a manic/mixed episode) and I save them for when I'm more equipped to deal with them in a rational manner instead of compulsively striking out/dealing with them in a destructive way

Dr_Rez 11-04-2013 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Sansa Stark (Post 1380464)
Not necessarily. A lot of the times I have to package up my feelings because they come at really inappropriate times (such as in the middle of a manic/mixed episode) and I save them for when I'm more equipped to deal with them in a rational manner instead of compulsively striking out/dealing with them in a destructive way

I guess I am referring to getting to know people in the first place. Essentially not getting in a relationship whether it be romantic, plutonic, or whatever because you are scared it will end badly in the unforeseen future.

Fear of the unknown (getting hurt) is no reason to not even try. I understadn this isnt a black and white issue and times like you said will and should affect some peoples judgment.

Sansa Stark 11-04-2013 10:19 AM

Lol I'm not talking about relationships tho! I just mean in general. Like, not all feelings are feelings about relationships. Just general things, how I feel about what's going on around me, etc. Sometimes I don't feel something then I do feel it way after the fact when I'm not equipped to process it properly


I tend to go into relationships like I haven't dealt with 23 ****boys over the past 10 yrs and don't give a **** then wonder why i did that but oh well

Dr_Rez 11-04-2013 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Sansa Stark (Post 1380468)
Lol I'm not talking about relationships tho! I just mean in general. Like, not all feelings are feelings about relationships. Just general things, how I feel about what's going on around me, etc. Sometimes I don't feel something then I do feel it way after the fact when I'm not equipped to process it properly

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Sansa Stark 11-04-2013 10:58 AM

yes basically

The Batlord 11-04-2013 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down (Post 1380179)
I've been gorging on all the leftover Halloween candy :(

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Originally Posted by djchameleon (Post 1380210)
why do you feel guilty about that? everyone does it.

She's a girl. Go figure.

Burning Down 11-04-2013 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1380566)
She's a girl. Go figure.

It's called emotional eating. Deal with it.


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