Just like you said about easily turning those "boring" questions into something interesting the same thing can be said for the bolded part it all falls down to the individual and how confident they are and their conversation skills so basically we are both saying the same thing just with different approaches.

Single guys wish they could find a girl to marry and be with forever.

Married guys wish they were single and had never met the b*tch

People just want what they can't have.

I dont think that really always true. If a guys married he may want that hot single broad, which he could technically go get, but at the end of the day he likes having 1 woman.

I'd say it all depends really, if he marries the hottest single broad he wouldn't wanna look anywhere else for any others.

I just mean he may look. For instance if im with a great looking girlfriend I still looking at other women and imagine. That doesnt mean I want to jump up and get with them.

I'm going out to the bars Friday with a group of girls I've become friends with. They have a friend who isn't quite 21 who I have a thing for. I'm hoping she's pregaming with us Friday so I can flirt with her and get to know her better. But I don't usually go out with a group of girls, I don't have too many female friends anymore. Burned a lot of bridges over the years. I'm interested to see if this has any effect on meeting girls at the bar. I also plan to go out Saturday night and find some girls. I'll report back on my findings.

Good luck Dirty.

I have a question for whomever wants to answer. My biggest problem with new girls Im meeting taking out/going on date with and such is I never know how fast they want to move. Obviously being a guy I dont mind moving real quickly and theres definitely a small portion of girls that do as well. (usually they make it quite obvious) The rest though confuse me, as I have dated one that took over a month and others that I would suggest it within a couple days of meeting/going out with them and get no clear answer.

Now I am not really shy, Ill try mostly anyhting with anyone I please, but I take care in this because as any guy knows some girls that are pushed to fast think your just a pig.

Whats funny to me is that just because I want to have sex/hookup with you doesn't mean I dont actually like you. I cant help that Im a 20 year old male with a strong libido.

It definitly helps to have girls with you when you go out, I've noticed other girls tend to feel more confortable/relaxed if they see them with you, makes you seem more trustworthy. I've never been out with a whole group of girls but meh same principle I reckon.

lol I don't think there was an actual question there but I get what you're getting at. Just don't overthink too much man. If you're feeling it, make an advance, you know; "arm around the chair at the cinema" and all that, just flirt with her and let it progress naturally, you'll make a move, she'll make a move back etc.

like a horny game of chess. man I miss horny chess I need to get out more. I always get checkmated in the first 3 moves but damn it's a fun game. it's like my brother's friend always used to say "It's all about the chase mate "

Sluts are so simple. You both know exactly what the other wants.

Just go out with sluts then if you dig that, you don't have to wanna marry every chick you meet