Things that make you feel sad/ down (tickets, effects, members)

Kurt_Cobain · 05-29-2005, 12:06 PM

In light of Tommy's emotional thread I figured we needed a topic like this. Whenever you're feeling down just post about it in here. The others and I will then support you, relate to you and generally do the nice stuff to make you feel good.
Im gonna make another thread 'Post your Joy'. Gee I wonder whatcha gotta d it that one..

AprilMay · 05-29-2005, 12:30 PM

Okay, i will start with something trivial... I am sad tht the tickets for The League Of Gentlemen for are almost thirty quid and nearly sold out so there is no time to save up so i will not be able to go. *sobs*

Sneer · 05-29-2005, 12:31 PM

the fact i have ****in art to do in my half term break. so pissed off.

adidasss · 05-29-2005, 12:47 PM

something fu.cked up happened recently, my sister's friend ( and my good acquaintance ) almost died from over medicating herself with tranquilizers ( she's a junkie and she did that because she didn't have any drugs ), right now she's in a coma and i'm hoping and praying she'll wake up and be ok...her heart stopped twice and they had to revive her...i've been sorta preparing myself ( and my sister too ) for this for 5 years, because i knew ( despite her assuring us otherwise ) that her continuing drug abuse could only result in death...she thought she had it under control, as they all do, there was no talking her out of it, it was stronger then her...

Sneer · 05-29-2005, 12:50 PM

the perils of drugs. sorry about your freind. why was i quoted?

adidasss · 05-29-2005, 01:02 PM

sorry, i meant to say something but changed my mind, took care of it...

what made me even more sad was the reaction of my family when my sister left work ( she works in my family's firm ) to come to where i am at the moment to see her...they were really pissed, they think junkies are human garbage and don't deserve attention, my sister and i were really hurt and angry about that, it was really insensitive, the lack of sympathy for another human being , and from the members of your own family...it made me sad...( man, now i've started to talk about my sh.it, and i was trying to avoid doing that on this forum...it is a music forum after all...but you asked for it..

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ArtistInTheAmbulance · 05-29-2005, 02:24 PM

^Yeah, people can be really cruel, but if the situation was the other way around, they'd treat it completely differently. Its always different if it involves someone you love, rules can always change.

Hmm, ok Im gonna stop getting all serious and emotional now... Sorry bout this girl though, I hope things sort out for you all.. Drugs can be a bitch. Ive lost people to drugs, but Ive also seen people live through all of it, so there's always hope... You just gotta stick with her.

*Ahem* Sorry, I dont mean to get all serious, I tend to get everyone all depressed when I do...

adidasss · 05-29-2005, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by ArtistInTheAmbulance

^Yeah, people can be really cruel, but if the situation was the other way around, they'd treat it completely differently. Its always different if it involves someone you love, rules can always change.

Hmm, ok Im gonna stop getting all serious and emotional now... Sorry bout this girl though, I hope things sort out for you all.. Drugs can be a bitch. Ive lost people to drugs, but Ive also seen people live through all of it, so there's always hope... You just gotta stick with her.

*Ahem* Sorry, I dont mean to get all serious, I tend to get everyone all depressed when I do...

well it's a serious thread and a serious matter, and thanks for sentiment...i really hope she pulls through, so i can slap the sh.it out of her for being so stupid...
i've tried explaining it to my family, but it's like talking to a wall, and they pretend to be christians and go to church...whilst compassion and care for others is one of the fundamental messages of christianity...
there was an even worse situation a couple of years ago when my sister's friend died...5 days after her funeral they were starting to get annoyed that my sister was spending so much time with her friends family, when all she wanted to do was help them get through it, to be with them in their time of need, to ease their pain...they didn't get it and still don't...it made me so sad...

ArtistInTheAmbulance · 05-29-2005, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by adidasss

well it's a serious thread and a serious matter, and thanks for sentiment...i really hope she pulls through, so i can slap the sh.it out of her for being so stupid...
i've tried explaining it to my family, but it's like talking to a wall, and they pretend to be christians and go to church...whilst compassion and care for others is one of the fundamental messages of christianity...
there was an even worse situation a couple of years ago when my sister's friend died...5 days after her funeral they were starting to get annoyed that my sister was spending so much time with her friends family, when all she wanted to do was help them get through it, to be with them in their time of need, to ease their pain...they didn't get it and still don't...it made me so sad...

Yep, beliefs and such can be abandoned quickly when it effects their own lives, its something that really gets to me. Im not gonna carry on with this post much, Ill start talking about my experiences with this kinda thing, and thats never good news. So Ill just say that I hope everything sorts out for this girl you know, just stick with her and Im sure she'll be completely fine. And also, dont let your family get to you... Families are tricky things, they tend to cause more problems than they solve.

Imonlydancing · 05-30-2005, 03:35 AM

yeah, sorry addidasss, it must be hard. Sometimes its like, you don't know what to do or say, do you keep it in, but its better to get it out. AITA, i agree about the family thing.

05-29-2005, 12:06 PM	#1 (permalink)
Kurt_Cobain Alan Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: In bed, with Cheryl Tweedy Posts: 275	Things that make you feel sad/ down In light of Tommy's emotional thread I figured we needed a topic like this. Whenever you're feeling down just post about it in here. The others and I will then support you, relate to you and generally do the nice stuff to make you feel good. Im gonna make another thread 'Post your Joy'. Gee I wonder whatcha gotta d it that one.. __________________ http://kungfucrazy.forum-motion.com/

05-29-2005, 12:30 PM	#2 (permalink)
AprilMay Hello Dave Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Norfolk, England Posts: 177	Okay, i will start with something trivial... I am sad tht the tickets for The League Of Gentlemen for are almost thirty quid and nearly sold out so there is no time to save up so i will not be able to go. sobs __________________ "I'm just smart enough to know how stupid I am" Joe Strummer (1952-2002)

05-29-2005, 12:31 PM	#3 (permalink)
Sneer Let it drip Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 5,430	the fact i have **in art to do in my half term break. so pissed off. __________________ LastFM Sneer's Emporium of Sound Fright Team radio show**

05-29-2005, 12:47 PM	#4 (permalink)
adidasss Slavic gay sauce Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Abu Dhabi Posts: 7,993	something fu.cked up happened recently, my sister's friend ( and my good acquaintance ) almost died from over medicating herself with tranquilizers ( she's a junkie and she did that because she didn't have any drugs ), right now she's in a coma and i'm hoping and praying she'll wake up and be ok...her heart stopped twice and they had to revive her...i've been sorta preparing myself ( and my sister too ) for this for 5 years, because i knew ( despite her assuring us otherwise ) that her continuing drug abuse could only result in death...she thought she had it under control, as they all do, there was no talking her out of it, it was stronger then her... __________________ “Think of what a paradise this world would be if men were kind and wise.” - Kurt Vonnegut, Cat's Cradle. Last.fm

05-29-2005, 12:50 PM	#5 (permalink)
Sneer Let it drip Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 5,430	the perils of drugs. sorry about your freind. why was i quoted? __________________ LastFM Sneer's Emporium of Sound Fright Team radio show

05-29-2005, 01:02 PM	#6 (permalink)
adidasss Slavic gay sauce Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Abu Dhabi Posts: 7,993	sorry, i meant to say something but changed my mind, took care of it... what made me even more sad was the reaction of my family when my sister left work ( she works in my family's firm ) to come to where i am at the moment to see her...they were really pissed, they think junkies are human garbage and don't deserve attention, my sister and i were really hurt and angry about that, it was really insensitive, the lack of sympathy for another human being , and from the members of your own family...it made me sad...( man, now i've started to talk about my sh.it, and i was trying to avoid doing that on this forum...it is a music forum after all...but you asked for it..) __________________ “Think of what a paradise this world would be if men were kind and wise.” - Kurt Vonnegut, Cat's Cradle. Last.fm

05-29-2005, 02:24 PM	#7 (permalink)
ArtistInTheAmbulance enchanted. Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: cornwailles, angleterre. Posts: 2,537	^Yeah, people can be really cruel, but if the situation was the other way around, they'd treat it completely differently. Its always different if it involves someone you love, rules can always change. Hmm, ok Im gonna stop getting all serious and emotional now... Sorry bout this girl though, I hope things sort out for you all.. Drugs can be a bitch. Ive lost people to drugs, but Ive also seen people live through all of it, so there's always hope... You just gotta stick with her. Ahem Sorry, I dont mean to get all serious, I tend to get everyone all depressed when I do... __________________ shake your wings like theyre laced with sound!

05-30-2005, 03:35 AM	#10 (permalink)
Imonlydancing raaaaaaa Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Bedford Posts: 951	yeah, sorry addidasss, it must be hard. Sometimes its like, you don't know what to do or say, do you keep it in, but its better to get it out. AITA, i agree about the family thing.