Is it weird to wear jewelry your ex gave you?
My ex gave me this tiny gold anklet that I found in a drawer yesterday and this big tidal wave of feelings hit me. I've had it on ever since.

No freekin way! I wear every piece. Wish he'd given me more. Course I'm talking ex–hubby, so maybe a little different.

I feel like this is okay because it's subtle and people don't know that he gave it to me. I would feel weird otherwise but this is so tiny. When I wear it I feel like I have a secret

I say you should wear it! No one can tell you what you can and can't wear. I have a bracelet of my ex that he gave me 10 years ago and I still feel fond of it.

It's strange, because I have a few girls leave bracelets and **** like that at my place. I don't really think much about them, but it seems kind of a shame to toss them. I just ended up sticking them on top of my dresser, kind of a nice little reminder who I've been when I occasionally glance that way.

Thank you, I don't feel so weird now


Wait so you have like a museum of jewelry from all the girls you've ****ed?

More like 2 or 3 things on my dresser?

Nah, it's not weird at all. I actually still have a bracelet from a guy that I went on a few dates with (A FEW) maybe 3 years ago. The guy was basically trying to buy my love and was phoney in every way so I quickly parted ways with him. He was a bad kisser too (well at the time I didn't know any better) and I wasted my first kiss on him :mad:

meh, more power to you. I couldn't do it. Especially if you have feelings attached to the object and it makes you feel sentimental.

I would want to get rid of all the energy from that relationship. So , if I didn't pawn the jewelry pieces, I would either throw them out or destroy them in one way or another. I don't want the bad residual energy from a relationship that didn't work out hanging around me. That's just me though.

Update on my case: He actually approached me before I had the chance to get together a case but I managed to stumble my way through saying what I wanted to. He's fine with me not being willing to take it further and claims he isn't torn up by it at all. I hope he's telling the truth.