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his actions aren't your fault. from what you've shared, it sounds like you're in a dangerous relationship that it might best to get out of. |
I dunno man. I did forget his birthday after all.
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i understand that you might feel like you do but no one deserves abuse. i don't know how to assure you of that but to an extent i understand the appeal. what i've found to help me is surrounding myself (or at least trying to) with people who are compassionate and supportive rather than dismissive and/or abusive. this guy sounds dangerous, are you truly willing to accept that level of threat in a relationship?
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It's the guilt that gets me. He gave up everything to move here, if we split I'll have ruined his life. I apparently have lowered his self esteem because I never have anything to say to him and don't give him enough affection, which makes me feel freaking awful. I hurt him all the time, though I don't mean to. And I never do anything right, even when I try my hardest.
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hopefully i'm not out of line to say this but it seems like you're trading your personal safety for his feelings, which are unrequited. you don't owe this guy anything, especially not if he's acting the way he does.
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Not saying what it is at this point, but I'm predicting something.
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