How well do you know your friends?

Ass Napkin Ed · 05-10-2013, 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by FETCHER.

I've been in my group of 8 friends for 5 years now and only last year one of my best mates came out as a lesbian... Doesn't mean to say I know her any less because I thought she liked guys when she didn't.

actually it does & it says a lot that she knew you for so long & never told you

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah

as for your predicament... does it matter if he is gay, straight or purple? Because if it does then maybe you weren't a true friend to begin with.

Reread that & understand that this is exactly my point & him pretending to be something he was not says a lot about the type of person he is & we clearly were never true friends, so why would I waste anymore time w/ this weirdo

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah

you make it sound like he was a CIA operative..for god sakes.. maybe he himself was confused, for a long time, maybe he went through the 5 stages of dying so to speak... you have no idea..hardly Oscar worthy, just something he had to work out for himself...and let me ask you this... if he told you sooner would it have actually made a difference?

Yes Oscar worthy, he went out of his way to pretend to be straight around me when he knew he was gay so yeah that deserves an Oscar. Here's an ex- a few months ago he stayed at my house for weeks while he was moving to town. Now my gf lives me but she travels a lot and every night this guy was here he would practically beg/drag me to bars/clubs to pick up chicks even though he knew he was gay. And several times we'd talk to a group of girls & he would try to talk them into convincing me that my r/ship was a mistake & I'm young and this wasn't the time to date. He would literally throw pussy in my direction, so what was the ****ing point of such an extreme act if he didn't even like girls. I'm mean the amount of women he banged in those weeks at my place now that I think about it was a desperate cry to appear straight, so yeah he deserves an Oscar, gg, emmy & what ever other awards they give to actors.

FETCHER. · 05-10-2013, 12:30 PM

No I actually strongly disagree because my friend didn't really know herself until she met her current girlfriend last year.

And I know loads of secrets about her, coming out of the closet is a whole other ball game.

I went through a phase of thinking I was asexual and never told anyone because I didn't know if I was or not, does that make me a bad person because I was confused about who I am?

FRED HALE SR. · 05-10-2013, 12:31 PM

Must just be me, but i'm growing tired of the its so hard to come out, its a life altering discussion, whoa is me ****. So you like to engage in sexual activities with someone of the same sexual orientation and you love them. Big ****ing deal.

P A N · 05-10-2013, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by FETCHER.

I went through a phase of thinking I was asexual and never told anyone because I didn't know if I was or not, does that make me a bad person because I was confused about who I am?

is asexual like bisexual or nosexual?

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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR.

Must just be me, but i'm growing tired of the its so hard to come out, its a life altering discussion, whoa is me ****. So you like to engage in sexual activities with someone of the same sexual orientation and you love them. Big ****ing deal.

generally it's not a big deal, but really, it's no straight person's right to call them out for their hesitancy or process of coming out. it's a thing we (edit: "we" as in straight people) don't understand, and everyone's circumstances are always different.

i guess i just mean when one of my friends comes out, it really is no big deal... none of our mutual friends would care. my parents wouldn't care. no one would. but that doesn't mean it wasn't a big deal to decide. and then there's the whole coming-to-terms with the fact that you're gay. like ASS NAPKIN's buddy probably thought he was straight for a real long time, and had to jump through a lot of psychological hoops to get to the point where he would admit that to himself, let alone everyone around him.

Ass Napkin Ed · 05-10-2013, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR.

Must just be me, but i'm growing tired of the its so hard to come out, its a life altering discussion, whoa is me ****. So you like to engage in sexual activities with someone of the same sexual orientation and you love them. Big ****ing deal.

but you forgot to add you're the one that's making it a big deal & it's not.

RoxyRollah · 05-10-2013, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by P A N

is asexual like bisexual or nosexual?

generally it's not a big deal, but really, it's no straight person's right to call them out for their hesitancy or process of coming out. it's a thing we don't understand, and everyone's circumstances are always different.

i guess i just mean when one of my friends comes out, it really is no big deal... none of our mutual friends would care. my parents wouldn't care. no one would. but that doesn't mean it wasn't a big deal to decide. and then there's the whole coming-to-terms with the fact that you're gay. like ASS NAPKIN's buddy probably thought he was straight for a real long time, and had to jump through a lot of psychological hoops to get to the point where he would admit that to himself, let alone everyone around him.

ie: Anger, Denial, Barging, Depression, Acceptance... thats what I was trying to say but the only thing that came out was the 5 stages of dying which can be applied to any momentous thing in ones life...

Ass Napkin Ed · 05-10-2013, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by FETCHER.

No I actually strongly disagree because my friend didn't really know herself until she met her current girlfriend last year.

And I know loads of secrets about her, coming out of the closet is a whole other ball game.

I went through a phase of thinking I was asexual and never told anyone because I didn't know if I was or not, does that make me a bad person because I was confused about who I am?

Asexual

thank god that was a phase

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 05-10-2013, 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Ass napkin ed

I called the other users a trolls b/c one made a silly reference about ***s & the other wanted to know what type of porn I watched, which has nothing to do w/ my thread. You on the other hand are not a troll, you're just an extremely sensitive user that views every word I type as a personal attack towards yourself. Thank god for your opinion as you know it's the first thing I think of when making an impt decision in my life.

& if you honestly believe that someone hiding their sexuality & pretending to be something they are not is normal, then you're excuse for "logic" is a silly & insane

How exactly did I make this about myself other than saying I wouldn't treat my friend like you would? You're the sensitive one, you freak out every time I make a post reply to you.

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Originally Posted by RoxyRollah

no no Vanilla, we are all trolls remember... a giant forum full of trolls...

Oh no sweetheart I am the exception, I'm not a troll I'm a sensitive slut.

Ass Napkin Ed · 05-10-2013, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

How exactly did I make this about myself

In case you forgot vanilla, you said this:

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

Let me guess I'm a troll too right for being more logical than you?

Oh no sweetheart I am the exception,I'm not a troll I'm a sensitive slut.

& thank you for reiterating my point again about how you translate my words into a personal attack against you, and plz don't reply I wouldn't want you to go through the hassle of making another fake complaint about how you were allegedly offended by something I said.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 05-10-2013, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Ass napkin ed

& thank you for reiterating my point again about how you translate my words into a personal attack against you, and plz don't reply I wouldn't want you to go through the hassle of making another fake complaint about how you were allegedly offended by something I said.

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FRED HALE SR. Neo-Maxi-Zoom-Dweebie Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: So-Cal Posts: 3,752	Must just be me, but i'm growing tired of the its so hard to come out, its a life altering discussion, whoa is me **. So you like to engage in sexual activities with someone of the same sexual orientation and you love them. Big **ing deal.