Friend Situation

chris_mills · 10-30-2013, 02:08 PM

Im currently in the uncool group. Sure, it's a laugh and these people are actually my friends and like me but yeah. Anyway, I've always tried to get into the cooler group who actually go out to parties and stuff for a while. Recently, they've started to invite me to places more often. However, I realised they don't really like me and only invite me for stupid reasons. So my situation is, they asked me to go paint balling with them and at first I thought it would be fun and a chance to permanently in their group. However I found out that the only reason I was invited was so they had enough people to get a discount. Can you tell me whether I should still go?

scleaves · 10-30-2013, 02:09 PM

Don't waste your time. Better to be cool and unliked than liked and uncool.

Mr. Charlie · 10-30-2013, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by chris_mills

Can you tell me whether I should still go?

I can't, no. But you can.

FRED HALE SR. · 10-30-2013, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by chris_mills

Im currently in the uncool group. Sure, it's a laugh and these people are actually my friends and like me but yeah. Anyway, I've always tried to get into the cooler group who actually go out to parties and stuff for a while. Recently, they've started to invite me to places more often. However, I realised they don't really like me and only invite me for stupid reasons. So my situation is, they asked me to go paint balling with them and at first I thought it would be fun and a chance to permanently in their group. However I found out that the only reason I was invited was so they had enough people to get a discount. Can you tell me whether I should still go?

Sounds like your only option is to go. Put in live ammo and let er rip. Then all the cool kids still left standing will wanna be friends then.

chris_mills · 10-30-2013, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR.

Sounds like your only option is to go. Put in live ammo and let er rip. Then all the cool kids still left standing will wanna be friends then.

Sound good :P

And thanks for all the replies this quickly.

chris_mills · 10-30-2013, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by scleaves

Don't waste your time. Better to be cool and unliked than liked and uncool.

I'm liked but uncool in my current friends group. So your theory would mean I should go and try and become friends with them?

scleaves · 10-30-2013, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by chris_mills

I'm liked but uncool in my current friends group. So your theory would mean I should go and try and become friends with them?

No. Cool to me would be sticking by you like your "uncool" friends are. Uncool would be a bunch of people using you for a discount, no matter how cool they were.

chris_mills · 10-30-2013, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by scleaves

No. Cool to me would be sticking by you like your "uncool" friends are. Uncool would be a bunch of people using you for a discount, no matter how cool they were.

Yeah you're probably right, but parties and alcohol does seem more 'cool' than Friday nights in playing FIFA.

Mr. Charlie · 10-30-2013, 02:41 PM

Chris, which group of people make you feel best?

Isbjørn · 10-30-2013, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Charlie

Chris, which group of people make you feel best?

Point

10-30-2013, 02:08 PM	#1 (permalink)
chris_mills Music Addict Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: England Posts: 97	Friend Situation Im currently in the uncool group. Sure, it's a laugh and these people are actually my friends and like me but yeah. Anyway, I've always tried to get into the cooler group who actually go out to parties and stuff for a while. Recently, they've started to invite me to places more often. However, I realised they don't really like me and only invite me for stupid reasons. So my situation is, they asked me to go paint balling with them and at first I thought it would be fun and a chance to permanently in their group. However I found out that the only reason I was invited was so they had enough people to get a discount. Can you tell me whether I should still go?

10-30-2013, 02:09 PM	#2 (permalink)
scleaves Music Addict Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: Illinois, USA Posts: 76	Don't waste your time. Better to be cool and unliked than liked and uncool.

10-30-2013, 02:41 PM	#9 (permalink)
Mr. Charlie Shoo Thoughts Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: These Mountains Posts: 2,308	Chris, which group of people make you feel best?