ok, well i see you're trying to be polite about it. lemme put it this way, the guy that cheats on you with another guy was bisexual or gay when you first started dating him...you certainly would not be the reason why that man has turned to guys....if the guy was gay and dated you, he has problems , if he's bisexual and then cheated on you with a guy, it was never meant to be and he simply doesn't care for you much....self esteam has nothing to do with it...contrary to popular belief, people can't be TURNED into gays....:-/

A large phallic.

Guys, I'd like you to meet my girlfriend. :love:

i think we need to see other people

but you know getting it on is still a nice option

Best yet, we should see other people while getting it on at the same time.

our relationship rocks

Hello new girl :)

Hello

I like strong guys, not overly emotional, open, outgoing, not afraid at all to make the first move. My last boyfriend was puerto rican, and he was just like stereotypes suggest, so I'm not like racist, but I'm not going to date outside my race ever again, white boys for me! lol. Since I tend to date guys my friends have already dated, I ask about his past relationships and base decisions off that. Physically I like bigger guys because I'm not like a supermodel and I dont like my guy to be prettier than me. lol.

Warning to guys: Dont break up with girls over myspace.....they'll want revenge.

I think I'd want someone who's different from me who I can talk to and think 'Wow he's weird. Damn I love it.' Being open-minded and freedom are very important to me, so I would want someone who's free spirited and who's not prejudiced or afraid of change. Humor is also very important, so I'd want someone who can take life lightly and make a joke out of most situations. I have a thing for shy intelligent boys that turn out to be extremly fun to hang out with, musicians and artists, guys who aren't afraid of their feminine side, and I hate overly protective masculine types. It all depends on the person though, when I meet them I'll know if I like him or not.

So is July officially the month for contradictory statements?

Well I'm NOT racist. I'm not discriminatory in any way. But I would never DATE anyone outside my race. Dating is not the only kind of friendship and many girls are uncomfortable dating outside their race, they just dont admit it. But I dont like see black guys and just to conclusions about them. I'm not a racist.

You just did it again!

Don't worry, this is just an academic complaint really. Saying that you would treat one set of people any differently based on their race is discriminatory, but that doesn't mean its unnecessarily prejudiced (in my opinion). If, from past experience, you've found there's something about certain cultures which would make it difficult for you to be in a relationship with somebody from that culture... or perhaps you tend to find men of certain ethnicities more physically attractive than others... then that's fair enough but I'm pretty sure it can still be classified as discrimination. I'd say that I discriminate against white women in the same way and I'm perfectly happy to call it such!

Yeah, I think that's true.

thing i want in a guy:
will watch the footbal game with me
looks are not everything, i want a personality
someone who like me for being me;)
who doesn't mind "expirementing" with me
who doesn't mind me keeping a sword in my room

Passionate
Can cut loose and just be himself
Doesnt have to be too mature
Really funny
Treats me right
One-girl man
Sex can be on his mind, but he still trys *lol*
Cute(you gotta be good-looking to ME)
Descent body(not to big, not to little. Prefer abs at the most!!Athletic!!)
Clothes(thuggish or Cool/Casual)
Not straight-down stupid
He can look at girls, but not infront of/around me
^cause it'll only be fair

Not all girls though.
And I just wanted to say, I love your avatar.

heres what i look for:


Urban Hatemonger ;)

Yeah, not all but quite a lot really are uncomfortable. And thanks.



To add to all the above.......a guy that is NOT AFRAID to go searching for a girl's weakness.....but knows that no means no. And can figure out and use the above mentioned weakness(s) against the girl.

ditto here spike

Gagfest

jealous! thats pretty gross, considering youre my brother...

jealous because your not the popular one?

Um, no for one I was just joking.
Two i'm not gonna make this personal.

awww i was just messing with you

why is race such a big deal?

its not really, I just have more of an attraction to white males, even tho I do think blcak guys are hot too..

Weren't you just having a hatefest toward whites in another thread?

Tyrese comes to mind. :)

I'm dating a white Jew so I can't hate white guys too much now can I?
My hate or dislike towards white people is usually limited to police officers and drug addicts

Just drug addicts here. The police are only doing their job, one that I wouldn't want to do.

Police annoy me a good deal of the time.
a good deal that I've cnountered didn't look physically fit to do their job, half of them are prejudiced, and the small minorty that actually do their job aren't around all the time.

And unless you go to the west coast, you see very few asians in law enforcement.

And most asians are drug dealers rather than drug addicts. :)