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Raine 07-05-2006 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by moley
i think you mistook what i said, i meant without the responsibilities a relationship brings but ok...:S

oh.
I'm sorry.
Do I still get the award?
I'll work . . extra hard it that's what it'll take ;)

MURDER JUNKIE 07-05-2006 02:35 PM

Raine, you do know that Bruise is 15 right???

Raine 07-05-2006 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by MURDER JUNKIE
Raine, you do know that Bruise is 15 right???

No.
I didn't.

Well that might explain some things :(
I think

littleknowitall 07-05-2006 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Raine
No.
I didn't.

Well that might explain some things :(
I think

lmao!!!

bruise_violet 07-05-2006 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Raine
No.
I didn't.

Well that might explain some things :(
I think

Hahahaha I thought you must have known.

Raine 07-05-2006 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by bruise_violet
Hahahaha I thought you must have known.

I knew you lived in North Ireland.
which is why you said a lot fo the outfits Id escribed seemed like red light district material.
I didn't factor in that you might live with your parents and that you might not make out the front door.

bruise_violet 07-05-2006 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Raine
I knew you lived in North Ireland.
which is why you said a lot fo the outfits Id escribed seemed like red light district material.
I didn't factor in that you might live with your parents and that you might not make out the front door.

My mother would not object to me walking out naked. She's great that way :)

Raine 07-05-2006 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by bruise_violet
My mother would not object to me walking out naked. She's great that way :)

ok cool.

If you ever decide to come to America though, you know who to call :)

bruise_violet 07-05-2006 02:48 PM

Well she is the one who buys the skimpy clothes.

Yes :thumb:

Raine 07-05-2006 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by bruise_violet
Well she is the one who buys the skimpy clothes.

Yes :thumb:

Now we're in busines.

I've thought about this for awhile.

Outfit # 1
Black bra (color does matter)
tight white shirt (sheer would be nice)
black skirt (length doesn't matter)
flat pumps
any dark colored lipstick preferably red or whatever looks best
smokey eyes
black nail polish.

bruise_violet 07-05-2006 02:56 PM

Black nail polish? Hmmm, I usually have dark red or pink.

But that sounds good, and I won't look weird because it will be super hot tomorrow.

Raine 07-05-2006 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by bruise_violet
Black nail polish? Hmmm, I usually have dark red or pink.

But that sounds good, and I won't look weird because it will be super hot tomorrow.

sounds like a plan
or

Outfit # 2
short plaid skirt
black tank top
fish nets
whatever shoes you have that looks ok with this ensemble
pink or red nail polish

_Spinning_ 07-05-2006 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Raine
Now we're in busines.

I've thought about this for awhile.

Outfit # 1
Black bra (color does matter)
tight white shirt (sheer would be nice)
black skirt (length doesn't matter)
flat pumps
any dark colored lipstick preferably red or whatever looks best
smokey eyes
black nail polish.

Sounds goooooooooood. :D

MoonlitSunshine 07-05-2006 03:04 PM

ohhh jesus this Boy hunt thing is getting more priceless by the second!

hmmm, what to say?

Well, if you want to know what i'm attracted to, it'd be (vaguely in order):

1: intelligence. If there's one thing I can't stand it's a bimbo.
2: Humour: I have a habit of being horribly sarcastic
3: Personality: you can look great, but Beauty is only skin deep
4: looks: they do count, to be honest, but not top priority

I met a girl who I absolutely adore, so modelling around her I'd like:

I girl a year younger than me (16) who is about 3 inches smaller (don't ask me what that is, I don't know how tall I am anymore) than me, with Hazel eyes, and just over shoulder length light brown hair. she's quite small in build, not height, she just gives the impression of being fragile. She's wonderfully intelligent, is as sarcastic as i am, has the same basic interests as me (we difer on small things, but that just fuels conversation), she can stand up for herself no problem, but loves support, and we could and have, spent hours sitting in a park under a tree without a word being said, and yet have a great time. Oh and she likes much the same music as me, which is good!

All the guys in the North suck? come to Dublin. I'm fairly sure I know a load of guys who you may like, and the majority of them have long hair!

EDGE 07-05-2006 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by bruise_violet
Eeek how skinny?



I dunno.
Skinny.
Hahah, the guy I'm dating is 6'3 and 150 pounds.
Here he is:

http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b3...DSC01040_1.jpg

:)

Raine 07-05-2006 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by _Spinning_
Sounds goooooooooood. :D

I should hope so.
All the outfits I've posted, I've worn before.
One halloween I got dressed up as Aphrodite (goddess of love).
Now that was one hell of an outfit :laughing:

bruise_violet 07-05-2006 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by MoonlitSunshine
All the guys in the North suck? come to Dublin. I'm fairly sure I know a load of guys who you may like, and the majority of them have long hair!

You might be seeing me in Dublin very soon...

Raine 07-05-2006 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by EDGE
I dunno.
Skinny.
Hahah, the guy I'm dating is 6'3 and 150 pounds.

:)

I know the body build. I have a friend that's 6'3" and weighs 162.

Too skinny for me.
and I couldn't see his face very well but man he's hot.
Long bangs. Dark hair.
I can see why you like him.

MoonlitSunshine 07-05-2006 03:14 PM

Haha now that WOULD be funny!! I dunno if its the same up your way, but guys with long hair tend to congregate to local gigs. if you like musicians, you may hit a jackpot. If the gigs up there are anything like those down here, DO NOT wear a Mini. you will be avoided like the plague. Again (these are nice guys, best group of people I know) they would, hypothetically, be interested in personality rather than an ability to bare flesh. Bear in mind that the kind of people I'm talking about listen to the alternative side of modern music; you won't find a pop fan, and you will find a lot of punks, skaters and goths, but many like anything rockish with a decent guitar riff!!

Raine 07-05-2006 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by MoonlitSunshine
Haha now that WOULD be funny!! I dunno if its the same up your way, but guys with long hair tend to congregate to local gigs. if you like musicians, you may hit a jackpot. If the gigs up there are anything like those down here, DO NOT wear a Mini. you will be avoided like the plague. Again (these are nice guys, best group of people I know) they would, hypothetically, be interested in personality rather than an ability to bare flesh. Bear in mind that the kind of people I'm talking about listen to the alternative side of modern music; you won't find a pop fan, and you will find a lot of punks, skaters and goths, but many like anything rockish with a decent guitar riff!!

Oh dear.
gigs where mini skirts aren't exactly welcome

Outift #3
sneakers
dark green pants
perhaps a baby blue tank top. Not necessarily tight either.
I usually have to wear my hair up so. . . . if you wear a scrunchy, go for a green one.
(PS wear a bra)

bruise_violet 07-05-2006 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by MoonlitSunshine
Haha now that WOULD be funny!! I dunno if its the same up your way, but guys with long hair tend to congregate to local gigs. if you like musicians, you may hit a jackpot. If the gigs up there are anything like those down here, DO NOT wear a Mini. you will be avoided like the plague. Again (these are nice guys, best group of people I know) they would, hypothetically, be interested in personality rather than an ability to bare flesh. Bear in mind that the kind of people I'm talking about listen to the alternative side of modern music; you won't find a pop fan, and you will find a lot of punks, skaters and goths, but many like anything rockish with a decent guitar riff!!

I'd be in pure heaven :love:

And musicians, oh my god!!!!!!!

MoonlitSunshine 07-05-2006 03:22 PM

Oh yes. I AM good at this. And Raine, you've got it about hands down, I think. At least I couldn't do any better!

bruise_violet 07-05-2006 03:24 PM

I know where I am going on holiday this summer... lovely South.

Raine 07-05-2006 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by MoonlitSunshine
Oh yes. I AM good at this. And Raine, you've got it about hands down, I think. At least I couldn't do any better!

Nice to know my efforts weren't all in vain.
And now half my side of the closet is destroyed. :)

But it was so worth it

MoonlitSunshine 07-05-2006 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by bruise_violet
I know where I am going on holiday this summer... lovely South.

Hahahaha

I can check the gig circles and see if there are any gigs known of in your area. Yes? no?

bruise_violet 07-05-2006 03:33 PM

I always wonder if there are any in Belfast!

MoonlitSunshine 07-05-2006 03:35 PM

Well do hang on, and I shall see what I can find out!

bruise_violet 07-05-2006 03:36 PM

Excellent!

MoonlitSunshine 07-05-2006 03:46 PM

Ok, I don't know any of the names, but i haven't been in the North in god knows how long, and i don't know what part of the north you live in, but try this, it may help. wwwdotfastfudedotcomslashgigsdotasp damn thing won't let me post urls yet! so insert a dot where it says dot and slash where slash.

B*stard Forum

ok I can write Links now so that's www.fastfude.com/gigs.asp

Barnard17 07-05-2006 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by bruise_violet
I don't want to be a slut! :p:

Bull. Fuck buddies are not a slut issue - they're more an "I like sex, you like sex. We know each other. Lets have sex together until someone special comes along." There's no sleeping around with multiple blokes, and there's no serious entanglement either. Best of both worlds.


And bollocks do you want nice blokes. Nice blokes are complete wankers underneath who turn into stalkers when things aren't going their way. subversive control freaks. Plus what's the use in finding a bloke that doesn't give a damn about flesh? "I would have sex, but I'm getting far more out of our intelligent conversation. Lets go to starbucks, so we can continue discussing the metaphysical meaning of Pi over a frappucino. We can go online to do a google search as well! Condom? You can't catch an STD from a computer!"

Piss Me Off 07-06-2006 02:38 AM

I'm a nice guy, trust me, what he says is all true.

MoonlitSunshine 07-06-2006 05:17 AM

Fal, she's 15. 15. think about that for a while.

If your advising getting a f*ck buddy to her with that in mind, there's something seriously wrong with the UK. Not that that's anything new:laughing: :laughing: . I joke, I joke. Just in case anyone gets overly offended...

And not ALL nice guys turn into stalkers; just the desperate ones

Barnard17 07-06-2006 07:37 AM

She's 15 ... so she should be getting into deep relationships where she ultimately gets heartbroken anyway wasting years of her life chasing dead end dreams of romance that blatantly won't work?

And I'm sorry if you're such a prude that you try to deny that under 16s do and will have sex.

MoonlitSunshine 07-06-2006 08:45 AM

Oh I know they do, but it's another thing to actively encourage it. So she shouldn't be trying to figure out what kind of guy she actually likes in more than that he's sex on legs, and instead risk getting pregnant, having a child she doesn't have the time for, go through all the emotional stress involved, and end up wasting away her youth trying to take care of a child she didn't want?

and I'm sorry if you're too big a sex maniac to realise that accidents DO happen.

Barnard17 07-06-2006 09:01 AM

Oops, my bad.

Wear a condom. Get on the pill. Get the smear test. Get the morning after pill. etc etc.

Condoms are 99% effective. But if you're drugged up on contraceptive pills at the same time, have a diaphragm, use spermicide etc ... The soldiers got a battle ahead.

Unless you're Catholic. In which case the condom lets the sperm through regardless. Despite them being water proof. And despite sperm being bigger than water.

And lets face it, part of liking a guy is about liking how good they are in the sack. If you don't know what you like in bed, it's just as bad as not knowing what you like in a man.

MoonlitSunshine 07-06-2006 09:12 AM

condoms may be 99% effective, but what percentage of drunk teenage guys remember to wear them? I've been told that being constantly drugged up on contraceptives is not a fun experience, as well as being dangerous.

I like the comment on Catholicism. it's so true!

and yes, PART of liking guys is how good they are in bed, but if she was to follow your advice she wouldn't have a clue about the other part. A good relationship, at her stage in life, can definately last without sex. When you're older, it's different, but right now, I'd regard it as too big a risk. Call me what you like, that's my view. I'm 17. I've never had sex. Do I give a Sh*t? No. I have plenty of time ahead of me, and I know exactly what I like in a girl, which means I won't have to waste time later on that.

MURDER JUNKIE 07-06-2006 09:13 AM

I'm 32 and I would LOVE to have sex http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f3...badbananas.gif

Barnard17 07-06-2006 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by MoonlitSunshine
condoms may be 99% effective, but what percentage of drunk teenage guys remember to wear them?

Congratulations, you're putting words in my mouth. I never said "go to parties and find drunk boys to shag", I said "find a bloke to shag that you don't have to worry about emotional entanglement with".

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Originally Posted by MoonlitSunshine
if she was to follow your advice she wouldn't have a clue about the other part.

Errr... maybe you need to find out what a fuck buddy is before making assumptions? A fuck buddy is also called a friend with privileges. You are, essentially speaking, mates. You do things what mates do, which inevitably means getting to know each others personalities. But you've also agreed that you both like sex, hence you have it. Because sex is fun. If a fuck buddy were someone that you only met on weekends for an hour during which you did nothing but sex, you might have a point. That is, however, the job of the prostitute.

MoonlitSunshine 07-06-2006 09:30 AM

haha ok I see my mistake and apologise.

But teenage guys, in Ireland at least, have a habit of being drunk quite a lot of the time anyway, so there may be a problem there...

But, I think we agree to disagree here. this is getting nowhere, I would go about it my way, you would go about it yours. Neither of us are her, so we'll have to wait and see what she thinks.

I think it's better to go at it one think at a time, try and figure out what you like in a girl/guy before what you like from a girl/guy. Your way would involve doing both at the same time, and might make it a bit complicated, mistaking liking the person for what they're like at sex, and vice versa. Maybe I'm wrong, maybe I'm right, it'd take someone who's tried both to say for sure.

Trauma 07-07-2006 07:42 AM

Well girls or guys I'm planning on getting my ear pierced soon, from people that have seen my pictures on here before, do you think it would look good or not?


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