Yeah I know we can't all have families with money who are invested in our success.

My family pulled me out of school half way through my sophomore year and told me to get a job.

I used the state programs available to me to get my GED and enroll into college because I was dumb enough to think college would be a viable road to a sustainable career rather than learning a useful trade.

Stopping by hella late to say d*ke isn't even considered a slur in my area like that's what I identify as lol so I'll paraphrase myself and say again it's all about context dummies

Also I went to community college for 9 years lol and I havent even finished my prereqs

D*ke has never had the same impact as f**got, and yes, plenty of people identify as d*kes (butch or otherwise), but you'll be hard pressed to find many gay men who identify as "f**got". And even if some do or use it themselves in other contexts, this is their choice to make, and much like with the n-word, people who are not gay men do not (or should not) get to make that choice.

You should probably take a saltshakerful of your own advice and avoid trying to be the authority on how acceptable the n word is as a white man.

If we're getting into shoulds and should nots maybe you shouldn't take it so hard, it's a word, not a dick. ;)

Clever. You would share the same advice to black people being called the n-word?

No because those two things are incomparable

Care to elaborate?