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Old 05-17-2015, 12:22 PM   #32111 (permalink)
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As long as you don't guilt trip her. I got the guilt trip and really had to force myself into the role, made me sick. I couldn't do it.
No. I don't want a woman to be in my life and my kid's life because I guilt tripped her into something she wasn't fully committed to. It's like joining the Army with the only reason to get better in shape. It's not a full commitment, and makes for weak soldiers.
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Old 05-17-2015, 12:25 PM   #32112 (permalink)
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No. I don't want a woman to be in my life and my kid's life because I guilt tripped her into something she wasn't fully committed to. It's like joining the Army with the only reason to get better in shape. It's not a full commitment, and makes for weak soldiers.
Funnily enough the child in question is the only reason my ex joined the army.

I'll be happy when that man is 6 feet under.
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Old 05-17-2015, 12:30 PM   #32113 (permalink)
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Funnily enough the child in question is the only reason my ex joined the army.

I'll be happy when that man is 6 feet under.
Wow, cold. Dude seriously f**** you over. Sorry that happened.
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Old 05-17-2015, 12:35 PM   #32114 (permalink)
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Wow, cold. Dude seriously f**** you over. Sorry that happened.
there's more to the story but the dude's such a moronic asshole.

The mother of his child moved a few states away from where he calls "home" so hopefully he'll never have any contact with either of her sons (because he's a crazy piece of shit).
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Old 05-17-2015, 12:37 PM   #32115 (permalink)
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there's more to the story but the dude's such a moronic asshole.

The mother of his child moved a few states away from where he calls "home" so hopefully he'll never have any contact with either of her sons (because he's a crazy piece of shit).
Yeah, I'm just gonna leave it at that.
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Old 05-17-2015, 12:44 PM   #32116 (permalink)
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Old 05-17-2015, 12:44 PM   #32117 (permalink)
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it's just my personal opinion.

I'm sure there are people out there that want children and they're totally cool with being stepmom/stepdad or whatever, but not me. My ex actually had a son, who I actually met on two occasions - just a child, only 2-3, but his mother was struggling financially (she had another son with another guy, and the kid has autism) and the whole situation was just a fuckin' disaster.

Furthermore my core values would be compromised by settling for someone who has a child (as I'm childfree by choice) and contrary to popular belief, opposites do not attract.
And this is why it's easier to raise cats instead of kids.

It's cool, i understand why you would want to avoid all that extra baggage. Can't say i blame ya.
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Old 05-17-2015, 06:53 PM   #32118 (permalink)
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Just got done holding a Jewish funeral for my cat. My (deist) Jewish friend came over with yarmulkes, put on that... rabbi scarf or whatever, and read from a Torah at the cat's grave. It was both tasteful and ridiculous.

This is the second such kitty funeral my friend has presided over.
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Old 05-18-2015, 01:49 AM   #32120 (permalink)
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Things have been cray lately. We are being forced to move from my current flat so the three of us are looking for a 5 bedroom house. Been to about 3 house viewings and we may have got one scored so fingers crossed. I've already started packing, cleaned the pantry and found 3 maggots, 2 alive, one dead. I have all my food wrapped carefully so it was protected but a fly must have laid an egg when the doors were open. I am so tired, it's hard doing things when you're in pain. Not looking forward to huge packing and moving it all.
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