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Chula Vista 05-03-2017 01:43 PM

Clamping something so that it dies because of lack of blood flow after 24 hours in no way resembles clamping something and then cutting it off. OK.

Sorry if I was unaware that the new age practice differs from what I witnessed first hand. Twice.

And Frowny, do you even spend a few seconds trying to comprehend my points? Or do you simply just hop on the keyboard and put on your snarky hat?

A pot shouldn't call a kettle black.

Isborn: The only point I was trying to make is that other than my own ballpark frank - which I see on a regular basis - the only other franks I see are via porn. And 99% are snipped. A trend is a trend is a trend.

The original conversation here steered towards trying to link male circumcism with female genital mutilation as if to equate the two to make a point about unapproved violation. That wasn't my doing. I'm just commenting on the absurdity of that.




My frank is freaking beautiful BTW. At least Linny thinks so. And she's spent a ton more time up close and personal with it than I have. :p:

Goofle 05-03-2017 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831289)
The original conversation here steered towards trying to link male circumcism with female genital mutilation as if to equate the two to make a point about unapproved violation. That wasn't my doing. I'm just commenting on the absurdity of that.

The only link was to point out that one is legal and one isn't, nobody arguing against MGM was equating the seriousness of either. Though it's fair to say that both are barbaric practices.

DwnWthVwls 05-03-2017 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831289)
The original conversation here steered towards trying to link male circumcism with female genital mutilation as if to equate the two to make a point about unapproved violation. That wasn't my doing. I'm just commenting on the absurdity of that.

Except it wasn't.. We aren't trying to equate the two, we are arguing that both are violations of human rights.

Like I said earlier, murdering and breaking the speed limit are BOTH breaking the law, even though they are not closely related. Circumcisions and FGM are BOTH violations of human rights, even though they are not equal. It's really not that complicated.

Isbjørn 05-03-2017 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1831280)
If someone never has a conversation about one without bringing up the other, it suggests that they equate the two on some level. Or maybe they want to use it as reasoning to dismiss opposing opinions a la "all lives matter."

Fair point, blah

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831289)
Isborn: The only point I was trying to make is that other than my own ballpark frank - which I see on a regular basis - the only other franks I see are via porn. And 99% are snipped. A trend is a trend is a trend.

And likewise, I've never seen a circumzised schnapper irl :p:

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831289)
The original conversation here steered towards trying to link male circumcism with female genital mutilation as if to equate the two to make a point about unapproved violation. That wasn't my doing. I'm just commenting on the absurdity of that.

While I don't agree with you on everything you've said, you're right about the absurdity of equating the two types of circumcision. Someone had to bring some nuance to the discussion.

Cuthbert 05-03-2017 02:01 PM

The first time I saw porn the men were circumcised. I thought I was deformed. I only realised I was normal when I was like 17/18.

Frownland 05-03-2017 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831289)
Clamping something so that it dies because of lack of blood flow after 24 hours in no way resembles clamping something and then cutting it off. OK.

It's not really a preferable method, although I'm sure there's some whacko out there who promotes it, but an umbilical cord will objectively fall off without intervention. A foreskin does not.

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Sorry if I was unaware that the new age practice differs from what I witnessed first hand. Twice.
This is actually why anecdotal evidence is not evidence in the slightest. Your--no, NOBODY's experience is an accurate reflection of reality since it's such a tiny cross section of what is actually out there.

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And Frowny, do you even spend a few seconds trying to comprehend my points? Or do you simply just hop on the keyboard and put on your snarky hat?
Please explain where I misunderstood. It would be beneficial to both of us.

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My frank is freaking beautiful BTW. At least Linny thinks so. And she's spent a ton more time up close and personal with it than I have. :p:
We're discussing the ethics of circumcision, so when you come in with something like this it really really sounds like you value aesthetics over ethics. It also sounds like you think the popularity of something justifies it because you keep bringing up how common it is. Do either of these reflect how you feel? Because that is what it reads like.

Isbjørn 05-03-2017 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Man like Monkey (Post 1831297)
The first time I saw porn the men were circumcised. I thought I was deformed. I only realised I was normal when I was like 17/18.

I probably would've thought the same if it wasn't for my country's relatively early sexual education. I could criticize it, but compared to the sex ed stories I've heard from people in the US, Norwegian sex ed seems pretty far ahead.

Chula Vista 05-03-2017 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls (Post 1831293)
Except it wasn't.. We aren't trying to equate the two, we are arguing that both are violations of human rights.

Like I said earlier, murdering and breaking the speed limit are BOTH breaking the law, even though they are not closely related. Circumcisions and FGM are BOTH violations of human rights, even though they are not equal. It's really not that complicated.

At what point does a newborn baby have "human rights"? Circumcision is usually performed when a baby is less than a week old. Did I have human rights when I was 3-4 days old?

FGM is done anywhere between birth and young teenhood.

In the first case they cut off a little bit of useless skin that serves no purpose whatsoever. In the second, they cut off the clitoris. THE CLITORIS. And the majority of the vulva.

The decision by a father to have his daughter endure FGM is based on religious fanaticisim and female suppression.

Goofle and DWV, do me a favor: Go to Wiki and search "Human Rights Violation". Take ten minutes to read. Then come back and explain to me why snipping the foreskin off of a 3 day old baby brings you down so much.

DwnWthVwls 05-03-2017 02:12 PM

You have rights before youre born, hence abortion laws. If you didn't have rights at 3-4 days then does that mean I could have legally drown you?

It doesn't bring me down.. I already said, I'm snipped, I don't care that I'm snipped, and it's really not that big of a deal(to me). That doesn't have any bearing on the fact that I should have been given the option and it was a violation of my person.

Frownland 05-03-2017 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831302)
At what point does a newborn baby have "human rights"? Circumcision is usually performed when a baby is less than a week old. Did I have human rights when I was 3-4 days old?

Are these genuine questions?

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FGM is done anywhere between birth and young teenhood.

In the first case they cut off a little bit of useless skin that serves no purpose whatsoever. In the second, they cut off the clitoris. THE CLITORIS. And the majority of the vulva.

The decision by a father to have his daughter endure FGM is based on religious fanaticisim and female suppression.
Stop equating male and female masturbation. Steering a conversation about male circumcision towards FGM is doing exactly that.

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Goofle and DWV, do me a favor: Go to Wiki and search "Human Rights Violation". Take ten minutes to read. Then come back and explain to me why snipping the foreskin off of a 3 day old baby brings you down so much.
So the existence of a worse issue makes lesser issues non-issues? F. Ex. petty theft is not a crime because grand theft is worse. Or how on earth can anyone call Caitlyn Jenner brave when SOLDIERS exist?

Cuthbert 05-03-2017 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Isbjørn (Post 1831300)
I probably would've thought the same if it wasn't for my country's relatively early sexual education. I could criticize it, but compared to the sex ed stories I've heard from people in the US, Norwegian sex ed seems pretty far ahead.

It was very basic when I was in school and we only had about three lessons (aged 11/12) it was basically describing how babies are born and that's it. No advice on how to use condoms properly or the facts regarding STIs.

Chula Vista 05-03-2017 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls (Post 1831303)
You have rights before youre born, hence abortion laws. If you didn't have rights at 3-4 days then does that mean I could have legally drown you?

It doesn't bring me down.. I already said, I'm snipped, I don't care that I'm snipped, and it's really not that big of a deal(to me). That doesn't have any bearing on the fact that I should have been given the option and it was a violation of my person.

Were you able to answer questions at 3-4 days old?

PS: If you send me a pic of yours, I'll send you a pic of mine. (mine will be more manly looking. I have an awesome hood.)

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1831304)
Stop equating male and female masturbation. Steering a conversation about male circumcision towards FGM is doing exactly taht.

Stop posting while drunk. If you can do it for three days I'll try detox.

Frownland 05-03-2017 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831308)
Stop posting while drunk. If you can do it for three days I'll try detox.

I'm not drunk. Actually address my points please. If your stance has any validity it should be no issue.

Especially address this

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And Frowny, do you even spend a few seconds trying to comprehend my points? Or do you simply just hop on the keyboard and put on your snarky hat?
Please explain where I misunderstood. It would be beneficial to both of us.

I don't know why I bother...

DwnWthVwls 05-03-2017 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831308)
Were you able to answer questions at 3-4 days old?

PS: If you send me a pic of yours, I'll send you a pic of mine. (mine will be more manly looking. I have an awesome hood.)



Stop posting while drunk. If you can do it for three days I'll try detox.

Thank god you escaped religion.

Chula Vista 05-03-2017 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1831310)
I'm not drunk. Actually address my points please. If your stance has any validity it should be no issue.

Again, I'm not in high school. I don't give a **** about trying to win a debate with your pretensious ****. Post your crap and I'll post mine. Maybe try being less one on one confrontational????

If we ever met face to face I'm seriously not sure if I'd hug you or simply punch you in the face.

DwnWthVwls 05-03-2017 02:31 PM

Firm hand shake to assert dominance or you can just whip it out and see who's bigger.

http://westsidetoastmasters.com/reso...age/chap2.html



Book of Body Language

Frownland 05-03-2017 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831315)
Again, I'm not in high school. I don't give a **** about trying to win a debate with your pretensious ****. Post your crap and I'll post mine. Maybe try being less one on one confrontational????

You started participating in a discussion the second you respond. If you really don't care, why are you even following up your points? This really just smells like you are incapable of defending your own stance when a light is shone on it.

I don't pick apart your posts just because I am a dick, I also do it partially because of how consistently idiotic your posts are.

http://www.smashthehsc.com/uploads/3...07724_orig.png

There. That's clearly all that you want from this thread. Now leave the discussion to those with functioning mental capabilities. Sorry to hurt your thinky cap with all these confusing and different words. I thought that maybe because you are a regular on a discussion forum, you might be interested in discussion. Please forgive me.

Chula Vista 05-03-2017 02:41 PM

con·de·scend·ing

ˌkändəˈsendiNG/Submit
adjective

having or showing a feeling of patronizing superiority.

"she thought the teachers were arrogant and condescending"
synonyms:

patronizing, supercilious, superior, snobbish, snobby, disdainful, lofty, haughty;

Frownland 05-03-2017 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831321)
con·de·scend·ing

ˌkändəˈsendiNG/Submit
adjective

having [...] superiority.

If that's what the word means, then when you're around I'm condescending as ****!

DwnWthVwls 05-03-2017 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland (Post 1831323)
If that's what the word means then when you're around I'm condescending as ****!

ftfy


I wish we disagreed more often, you'd be much more entertaining to argue against.

Chula Vista 05-03-2017 02:46 PM

The decades age difference is really hurting the discussion here. I want it to be fun, but the age thing makes it hard.

Have a great evening. Drive safe.

DwnWthVwls 05-03-2017 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 1831320)
Ya I agree it's an outdated practice we do out of tradition

But again it's like "hold up there" when it's immediately compared with female genital mutilation

It's disengeneous and feels like they're just trying punch a hole on their anti-feminism scorecard


I agree when the two are made out to be comparable it seems dishonest, but I don't think using one as an example to justify why the other should also be illegal does that. It's just consistency of reason.

Cuthbert 05-03-2017 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 1831329)
My fav is "you think you're so smart"

Well I do now

:laughing:

Last few posts >>>

Frownland 05-03-2017 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831330)
The decades age difference is really hurting the discussion here. I want it to be fun, but the age thing makes it hard.

Have a great evening. Drive safe.

Ftr I think it can be very fun, you just have to learn not to view everything as a personal confrontation.

Ol’ Qwerty Bastard 05-03-2017 02:55 PM

banging thread

Frownland 05-03-2017 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Qwertyy (Post 1831338)
banging thread

Baby dicks ain't no joke.

Ol’ Qwerty Bastard 05-03-2017 03:03 PM

i've sucked enough to know

Goofle 05-03-2017 03:19 PM

I understand that sometimes it's easier to put on the blinders than holding your parents accountable for consenting in the mutilation of their own child.

Chula Vista 05-03-2017 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Goofle (Post 1831363)
I understand that sometimes it's easier to put on the blinders than holding your parents accountable for consenting in the mutilation of their own child.

Jesus Christ. Just how melodramtic can you be?

Your're beyond ridiculous at this point. Just stop.

There's some pretty serious **** going on in the world. A ****ing snipped foreskin is WAY DOWN on the ladder.

Grow up.

Goofle 05-03-2017 03:45 PM

I can't think of many things worse than widespread acceptance of mutilating babies. Genocide, thousands dying in wars... starts to get a bit hard after that.

Frownland 05-03-2017 03:46 PM

I've heard tale of more than one issue existing at once. Must've been a hoax, hang on let me check Snopes.

EDIT: They say that there have always been several issues all occurring at once for as long as we've been recording history and that none of them invalidate others.

rostasi 05-03-2017 03:51 PM

The real mutilation here is the fact that it's been shoehorned into the "men's rights" thread -
a not so subtle "thread mutilation" (in the accurate sense of the term).
Apparently, "social justice warriors" are verboten, but the ridiculous, over-the-top circle jerk
that breeds "men's justice warriors" seems to be just fine.

Floyd the Barber: Mutilator

http://amayberrystateofmind.com/atta...ge/Floyd11.jpg

Chula Vista 05-03-2017 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Goofle (Post 1831376)
I can't think of many things worse than widespread acceptance of mutilating babies.

If this is a serious response I'm done. You are so out of touch. Circumscision = mutilation????

Are you ****ing serious? Are you ****ing serious??????

My brain just exploded. This is almost on par with the fugue I suffered recently. A senior member of this forum considers a normal medical procedure that happens to more than 8 out of 10 male babies born in the US as mutilation.

Goof: Google mutilation. Your brain needs work dude.

Frownland 05-03-2017 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by rostasi (Post 1831379)
TApparently, "social justice warriors" are verboten, but the ridiculous, over-the-top circle jerk
that breeds "men's justice warriors" seems to be just fine.

If only we could get rid of both and teach logic/debate on a widespread scale.

Goofle 05-03-2017 04:02 PM

Advocating for human rights of Men isn't an ideology, It's just something morally sound people should naturally be inclined to do. Same with advocating for the rights of Women.

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831380)

A senior member of this forum considers a normal medical procedure that happens to more than 8 out of 10 male babies born in the US as mutilation.

I sure do.

Frownland 05-03-2017 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831380)
My brain just exploded. This is almost on par with the fugue I suffered recently. A senior member of this forum considers a normal medical procedure that happens to more than 8 out of 10 male babies born in the US as mutilation.

Are you saying that the popularity of the procedure has a bearing on whether or not it counts as mutilation?

I took your advice and googled it. Here is the definition:
mu·ti·late
ˈmyo͞odlˌāt/
verb
inflict a violent and disfiguring injury on.

It's not violent on any kind of large scale, so that's out. Now, does it qualify as a disfiguring injury? Let's see:
dis·fig·ure
disˈfiɡyər/
verb
past tense: disfigured; past participle: disfigured
spoil the attractiveness of.

So I guess that makes mutilation subjective, since attractiveness is inherently subjective.

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Originally Posted by Goofle (Post 1831383)
Advocating for human rights of Men isn't an ideology

You're technically right. The issue is that passionate advocates, much like SJWs, don't accomplish much except for jacking themselves off with self-congratulatory statements like:

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It's just something morally sound people should naturally be inclined to do. Same with advocating for the rights of Women.

Chula Vista 05-03-2017 04:11 PM

It seriously gets tiring after awhile.

http://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/...37/529/211.gif

Frownland 05-03-2017 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1831388)
It seriously getting tiring.

So it goes with tired arguments.

DwnWthVwls 05-03-2017 04:12 PM

Circumcision = mutilation. Infuriating
Babies dont have rights because they cant ask questions. Logic
And youre the tired one? Lol


Mutilation is a subjective term.

Chula Vista 05-03-2017 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 1831391)
Idk what's worse Chula not knowing what mutilation means

I'm a dullard and you are a genious. Please enlighten me.

Spell it out for me. Be specific.


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