The queer corner

grindy · 07-06-2022, 08:01 AM

I wasn't aware of this "crisis" but really enjoyed this video nonetheless.

~~jwb~~ · 07-06-2022, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Ayn Marx

Two gay friends and their two sons returned to Australia today after six years in Hong Kong. Their boys are now 4 and 8 so I saw some changes. The youngest startled me with a joke. "A man is sitting at the doctor's office. The doctor says, "I have some bad news. I'm afraid you're going to have to stop masturbating." "I don't understand, doc," the patient says. "Why?" "Because," the doctor says. "I'm trying to examine you."

My generation knew nothing about sex at that age. How things have changed.
Now before any of you start in on ‘What do you expect with gay parents’, last year two straight friends visited with the three brats. 5.6 & 8 years old. At the front door the six year old asked me “You got any computer games’? When I answered in the negative the oldest asked “You got any porn we can watch”. Judging from mum & dad’s lack of reaction this wasn’t something unusual.

when I was growing up I experimented with my neighbor. We were both like 5 years old. It wasn't overtly sexual it was more like I show you my underwear you show me yours... And we kept upping the ante until he came up with putting our dicks in each other's mouths lol.

In retrospect I think he was molested by his dad or something because I dunno... Just a vibe thing plus this one time I went over there house and I had this hot wheels car I had got from the grocery store and his dad was like "wow what a cool car!" Then my friend was like " I have one of those too..." And his dad was like "yeah but this one's NEW." It took me many years to figure out he might not have been referring to the car.

Later on I also had another friend who's younger siblings were hypersexual at a young age and I know for a fact their parents were molesting them. So yeah those kids who watch porn with their parents.... There's at least a decent chance they're being molested.

Ayn Marx · 07-06-2022, 05:22 PM

I escaped anything like molestation of the physical kind but was thoroughly traumatised witnessing what went on behind the scenes in the Cathedral were I was a pipe organ student. Invited to a weekend away at the seaside by a group of priests I was offered the ‘privilege’ of being the naked offering on their domestic black mass alter. I fled.
All this had a profoundly negative effect on my view of religion but not male/male sexuality. When I hit 14 I knew I was attracted to males of my age and indulged. It was only very good luck that saved me from potential disaster when I soon discovered a strong attraction to older males.
Apologies to those of you who’ve read me on this subject previously.

Ayn Marx · 07-06-2022, 05:27 PM

I often wonder why hetro males of a certain kind get their knickers in a knot over things like this. I suspect they’re struggling to pretend it doesn’t turn them on. I also wonder how much they know about the history of English theatre where for centuries boys played the role of females in more than just Shakespeare.

https://www.starobserver.com.au/news...-school/214312

Putting this in an historic (hysteric?) context :- https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine...nd-gay/513812/

~~jwb~~ · 07-06-2022, 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Ayn Marx

I escaped anything like molestation of the physical kind but was thoroughly traumatised witnessing what went on behind the scenes in the Cathedral were I was a pipe organ student. Invited to a weekend away at the seaside by a group of priests I was offered the ‘privilege’ of being the naked offering on their domestic black mass alter. I fled.
All this had a profoundly negative effect on my view of religion but not male/male sexuality. When I hit 14 I knew I was attracted to males of my age and indulged. It was only very good luck that saved me from potential disaster when I soon discovered a strong attraction to older males.
Apologies to those of you who’ve read me on this subject previously.

Damn that black mass story is creepy af.

I also avoided being molested myself but had a very close call. Basically some old dude lured me into a stairwell and then chickened out or something. The full story is on my blog.

But yeah I've known people who it happened to like my friends siblings. His younger brother and sister. We all knew their dad beat the mom and the kids but my friend also told me his siblings were sexually abused. Which explained their overtly sexual behavior at such a young age.

Also my other friends younger brother. We knew his family for years and were briefly living with them in this ****ty duplex after my parents split... And this Mexican day labor looking dude molested my friends 4 year old brother one day in broad daylight. Just pulled his pants down and started fondling him. My friend grabbed a broomstick and beat him over the head with it till he ****ed off.

The Batlord · 07-07-2022, 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Ayn Marx

I escaped anything like molestation of the physical kind but was thoroughly traumatised witnessing what went on behind the scenes in the Cathedral were I was a pipe organ student. Invited to a weekend away at the seaside by a group of priests I was offered the ‘privilege’ of being the naked offering on their domestic black mass alter. I fled.
All this had a profoundly negative effect on my view of religion but not male/male sexuality. When I hit 14 I knew I was attracted to males of my age and indulged. It was only very good luck that saved me from potential disaster when I soon discovered a strong attraction to older males.
Apologies to those of you who’ve read me on this subject previously.

Black Mass huh? Surprised it wasn't a reference to a big black dick you took marching with MLK.

Queen Boo · 07-07-2022, 01:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Ayn Marx

I often wonder why hetro males of a certain kind get their knickers in a knot over things like this. I suspect they’re struggling to pretend it doesn’t turn them on. I also wonder how much they know about the history of English theatre where for centuries boys played the role of females in more than just Shakespeare.

https://www.starobserver.com.au/news...-school/214312

The same guys calling gay and trans people groomers on Twitter say sh*t like "I wish I had this teacher as a kid" in response to stories about female teachers raping their students and "Start the clock" when commenting on pictures of underage girls.

So to answer your question, projection, it's always been projection.

ribbons · 07-07-2022, 12:23 PM

I've always liked designer Tom Ford as a person and followed his interviews. I had no idea that Tom's husband, Richard Buckley, had passed away. So sad to learn of this - I greatly admired their relationship.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLSZy0ULHtA

~~jwb~~ · 07-07-2022, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Queen Boo

The same guys calling gay and trans people groomers on Twitter say sh*t like "I wish I had this teacher as a kid" in response to stories about female teachers raping their students and "Start the clock" when commenting on pictures of underage girls.

So to answer your question, projection, it's always been projection.

that's more because we don't take female predators seriously. If it's a male teacher with a female student people will lose their ****.

~~jwb~~ · 07-07-2022, 01:54 PM

Intuitively I feel the same way those men feel though.... Even if it's wrong. How are you supposed to sit here and feel bad for the kid when you are secretly jealous?

Also notice it's only the hot teachers who seem to get busted... Probably because the hotter the perp is the harder it is for the "victim" to keep their mouth shut.

Even if the gender roles are swapped and it's a hot gay teacher and a student... Sorry but that doesn't feel like as much of an accomplishment. Gay men are the most down to **** breed of people I've ever encountered by far.

07-06-2022, 08:01 AM	#1441 (permalink)
grindy . Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: . Posts: 7,201	I wasn't aware of this "crisis" but really enjoyed this video nonetheless. __________________ *A smell of petroleum prevails throughout.*

07-06-2022, 05:27 PM	#1444 (permalink)
Ayn Marx Music Addict Join Date: May 2022 Location: Sometimes Posts: 556	I often wonder why hetro males of a certain kind get their knickers in a knot over things like this. I suspect they’re struggling to pretend it doesn’t turn them on. I also wonder how much they know about the history of English theatre where for centuries boys played the role of females in more than just Shakespeare. https://www.starobserver.com.au/news...-school/214312 Putting this in an historic (hysteric?) context :- https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine...nd-gay/513812/ Last edited by Ayn Marx; 07-10-2022 at 01:13 AM.

07-06-2022, 05:22 PM	#1443 (permalink)
Ayn Marx Music Addict Join Date: May 2022 Location: Sometimes Posts: 556	I escaped anything like molestation of the physical kind but was thoroughly traumatised witnessing what went on behind the scenes in the Cathedral were I was a pipe organ student. Invited to a weekend away at the seaside by a group of priests I was offered the ‘privilege’ of being the naked offering on their domestic black mass alter. I fled. All this had a profoundly negative effect on my view of religion but not male/male sexuality. When I hit 14 I knew I was attracted to males of my age and indulged. It was only very good luck that saved me from potential disaster when I soon discovered a strong attraction to older males. Apologies to those of you who’ve read me on this subject previously.

07-07-2022, 12:23 PM	#1448 (permalink)
ribbons Music Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1,265	I've always liked designer Tom Ford as a person and followed his interviews. I had no idea that Tom's husband, Richard Buckley, had passed away. So sad to learn of this - I greatly admired their relationship. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLSZy0ULHtA

07-07-2022, 01:54 PM	#1450 (permalink)
~~jwb~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jul 2019 Posts: 4,403	Intuitively I feel the same way those men feel though.... Even if it's wrong. How are you supposed to sit here and feel bad for the kid when you are secretly jealous? Also notice it's only the hot teachers who seem to get busted... Probably because the hotter the perp is the harder it is for the "victim" to keep their mouth shut. Even if the gender roles are swapped and it's a hot gay teacher and a student... Sorry but that doesn't feel like as much of an accomplishment. Gay men are the most down to **** breed of people I've ever encountered by far.