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Old 01-26-2021, 09:03 PM   #981 (permalink)
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I know I go back and forth w/ labels and that's a big mental illness thang for sure but nowadays I'm going by they/he pronouns and consider myself like... attracted to anyone who isn't a cis man with some exceptions of course.
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Old 01-26-2021, 09:08 PM   #982 (permalink)
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Old 01-27-2021, 01:02 AM   #983 (permalink)
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They're not (at least not necessarily) and that's exactly what I meant: there is this idea that men are supposed to chase after women and sex. It's an expectation that society has, but that absolutely doesn't mean all men are like that, or that they have to be. Some men just like to find a girlfriend in a different way, or they don't have a strong sex drive (or like I said, maybe they're even asexual). It's just that the idea that men have to behave a certain way is so strong that some people don't understand when some people are different, and so they think 'oh they must be gay then' (because that's the only conventional explanation) but it's not that simple.
with all due respect...
it's not about you have to chase women to be straight

but if you have no impulse or drive to even attempt to be with a woman... maybe you're not that into women

that's not such a crazy leap

could be bi or asexual or gay

but in any case apparently not that into women.

and to be perfectly honest.... as a woman... you probably have no real conception of how demanding having a dick is. if you don't feel the inherent drive to find some bitch to stick it in then you are at least part gay to me.

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Old 01-27-2021, 03:06 AM   #984 (permalink)
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with all due respect...
it's not about you have to chase women to be straight

but if you have no impulse or drive to even attempt to be with a woman... maybe you're not that into women

that's not such a crazy leap

could be bi or asexual or gay

but in any case apparently not that into women.

and to be perfectly honest.... as a woman... you probably have no real conception of how demanding having a dick is. if you don't feel the inherent drive to find some bitch to stick it in then you are at least part gay to me.

imho
I think he was talking about chasing women. Maybe he has the impulse but doesn't act on it. That's my point, that behaviour of acting on your sexual drive is so deeply ingrained that that possibility is usually not even considered. I guess you're right about phallic demands, but even that has exceptions.
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Old 01-27-2021, 03:15 AM   #985 (permalink)
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I think acting on your sexual drive in some form or another is the default

Say you felt homosexual urges but never acted on them? What would your diagnosis be? Probably they are repressing their gay tendencies due to social stigma, no?

So yeah. If you don't "chase" women at all it's a good possibility you just aren't that into women, or else you have some sorta hang up that is stunting your sexual development.
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Old 01-27-2021, 03:32 AM   #986 (permalink)
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That last thing you said about hang ups is important. I basically agree, but I think we're not meaning the same thing by chasing: I think Mindfullness was talking about the assertive way many men adopt, but for some people (if they're shy, withdrawn, or whatever) chasing is hardly the right word for their sexual initiatives
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Yes, shouldn't I have any want or urge to go find some women to have sex with? Don't most men want to have sex? I don't even try, I have Facebook dating app but don't even try that much. I don't have ANY urge to try dating apps. I feel like a relationship will start once some women randomly finds me, I don't go find them.

I guess I am wondering if men who don't even try to chase women, are subconsciously gay like you mentioned.
By assertive you mean putting forth any effort whatsoever???
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So yeah. If you don't "chase" women at all it's a good possibility you just aren't that into women, or else you have some sorta hang up that is stunting your sexual development.

nah some guys aren't comfortable in that role and are better suited towards being chased themselves
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nah some guys aren't comfortable in that role and are better suited towards being chased themselves
better suited... He said it's been since 2009

Sorry but women just ain't as prone to do the chasing in most cases
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