Then just pm Marie ffs

JS it's not unsolicited advice when you post your baggage on a public forum

I have plenty of **** I don't care to discuss with you guys

Guess what? I don't discuss it

I started this mess now I'm gonna end it.

The original topic wuz...








So how do we find me a honey?

Tinder

Wait you wanted an answer right?

Tinder's been going poorly. Yes I want riveting discussion of my personal relationship life.

Oh also I have a date lined up but tbh I want to date her friend more would it b weird if I asked out the friend instead? Keep in mind I know both of them not that well and mostly thru instagram lol.

No. Keep the date and then ask her friend anyway. It's a gamble but usually girls are more interested when you have other options imo.

I wasn't planning on cancelling the date tbh. But I will def ask her friend later if the date goes not good well I assume it'll b good anyways but if I decide not to date her I mean.

Plus also maybe they're both down 4 polyamory lol

You're not exclusive anyway. No need to wait tbh.

Unless you see the date as a real prospect. If not then she's most valuable to you as a signifier to the main bitch that you have prospects.

I posed the question to solicit other perspectives and opinion, not to seek advice about my own situation. I offered a personal anecdote to get the ball rolling, as one does when posing such a question. I thought that was obvious but apparently not, so I used my words to communicate that I didn't like how it went. How bizarre right? :finger:

Reminder, the original question was:

How much, if at all, do you judge a romantic interest for their exes?