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Old 11-25-2020, 03:15 PM   #491 (permalink)
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Old 11-25-2020, 03:28 PM   #492 (permalink)
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but I've been supah naive about this

you're not gonna mend someone, man or woman
If you're getting into relationships to pretend to be a healer or a therapist you're just playing yourself AND them.
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Old 11-25-2020, 03:29 PM   #493 (permalink)
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All the damsels, all the distress

Isn't there a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere?
People can help other people heal though.
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Old 11-25-2020, 03:32 PM   #494 (permalink)
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People can help other people heal though.
Key word is HELP.

But if you're getting into a romantic relationship treating it like a therapeutic relationship you're not only dooming the romantic relationship but you're probably doing more harm than help to both parties.
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Old 11-25-2020, 03:32 PM   #495 (permalink)
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Isn't there a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere?
yiiikes my scary ex-stepdad used to play this game with me when I was young where he pretended I was a kitten in need of rescue when I climbed into the tree in the garden
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People can help other people heal though.
true. claiming to do the healing is toxic and narcissistic though
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Old 11-25-2020, 03:33 PM   #496 (permalink)
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If you're getting into relationships to pretend to be a healer or a therapist you're just playing yourself AND them.
Of course you don’t get into a relationship for such a role but after you fall in love together you can certainly help each other overcome trauma.
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Old 11-25-2020, 03:36 PM   #497 (permalink)
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Key word is HELP.

But if you're getting into a romantic relationship treating it like a therapeutic relationship you're not only dooming the romantic relationship but you're probably doing more harm than help to both parties.
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Old 11-25-2020, 03:40 PM   #498 (permalink)
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true. claiming to do the healing is toxic and narcissistic though
OK but if you’ve been a rock for a 20 year marriage then you probably do deserve a pat on the back. Both members.

Like I’m saying if you just say “nope damaged goods” you might be missing out on something beautiful and yes goddamnit healing
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Old 11-25-2020, 03:57 PM   #499 (permalink)
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yiiikes my scary ex-stepdad used to play this game with me when I was young where he pretended I was a kitten in need of rescue when I climbed into the tree in the garden
Ewwww what?! Yikes is right.

I was just quoting Ani Difranco lyrics, the first verse is - I am not a pretty girl / That is not what I do / I ain't no damsel in distress / And I don't need to be rescued / So put me down, punk / Wouldn't you prefer a maiden fair? / Isn't there a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere?

But now I'm imagining baby Marie reciting the last verse from her tree perch at her creepy step-creep - What if there are no damsels in distress? / What if I knew that, and I called your bluff? / Don't you think every kitten figures out how to get down / Whether or not you ever show up?

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Old 11-25-2020, 04:03 PM   #500 (permalink)
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yiiikes my scary ex-stepdad used to play this game with me when I was young where he pretended I was a kitten in need of rescue when I climbed into the tree in the garden
I'd just be like, "I'm not fucking you, Mark, and I know it was you who stole my underwear."
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