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Old 11-26-2020, 10:34 AM   #551 (permalink)
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It's honestly part of the male psyche to offer advice or solutions when someone talks about a problem.
Nah you're just a dick.
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Old 11-26-2020, 10:35 AM   #552 (permalink)
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Cause they want you to commiserate them with to show that you're on their side. Being talked at just makes you feel isolated.
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Old 11-26-2020, 10:36 AM   #553 (permalink)
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Nah you're just a dick.
fair point but the women who've expressed this to me say it's a common thing with men
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Old 11-26-2020, 10:40 AM   #554 (permalink)
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Cause they want you to commiserate them with to show that you're on their side. Being talked at just makes you feel isolated.
yeah I get that it's just not my intuitive response

I do try to regulate that irl but that's part of why so many irl convos are boring and pointless to me. It's like performative half the time.
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Duh, dicks don't grow in a vacuum (that rips them off, trust me on this one).
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Old 11-26-2020, 11:38 AM   #556 (permalink)
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It's honestly part of the male psyche to offer advice or solutions when someone talks about a problem.

I've had this same complaint from multiple women. "I just wanted you to listen, not solve the problem."

I guess I get the frustration on their end but on my end it's why even bring it up if you don't want answers. Cause it's boring to me to just listen to people's unsolved problems.
Yes, this very much a male vs female brain thing. Can confirm, mental health care providers have explained this to me many times.
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Old 11-26-2020, 12:38 PM   #557 (permalink)
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I try to offer help to my female friends.

EDIT - And male ones.
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Old 11-26-2020, 01:38 PM   #558 (permalink)
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I try to offer help to my female friends.

EDIT - And male ones.
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Old 11-26-2020, 04:37 PM   #559 (permalink)
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The bourgeois preoccupation with 'success' continues.
What angle do you mean even? And would you honestly reject a great girl with a dead end job?
ah it was a joke about me being too rich to be punk

on the real, it's not that bourgeois to put an emphasis on priority

also, you can decide how much this matters

but the societal standard for men is way different on this, a woman is doing fine if she simply has a job...

a man is a ****ing loser if he's in his mid 20s and he's working that same job with no ambition
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Old 11-26-2020, 04:47 PM   #560 (permalink)
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ah it was a joke about me being too rich to be punk

on the real, it's not that bourgeois to put an emphasis on priority

also, you can decide how much this matters

but the societal standard for men is way different on this, a woman is doing fine if she simply has a job...

a man is a ****ing loser if he's in his mid 20s and he's working that same job with no ambition
I think it's absolutely bourgeois. I agree that the standard for men and women is different, but this is exactly the kind of thinking which perpetuates that. And if a girl rejects a guy for reasons like that then good riddance I guess
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