The Relationship Thread

Originally Posted by elphenor

PS I'd rather just go solo than start putting my mug up on Tinder and such

it's not THAT important to be in a relationship/have sex

actually it is

Who are you worried about seeing it?

Originally Posted by OccultHawk

I say don’t ask out the friend. Just make a good impression on this one and hope she tells her friend. Then after a fair amount time passes the friend is fair game.

lol wut

Originally Posted by elphenor

not really, the best dating advice is to actually GTFO the internet...but no dating during Covid anyway

not that, in 2020, I'm shaming anyone for online dating, I'm just saying it makes me feel like ****

You couldn't have picked a worse year than 2020 to make that point with all the bars and venues closed lol

But nah even in 2019 tinder only expands your options. Not like you can't still meet girls irl once you make a profile.

[WWWP]

Originally Posted by jwb

cool but it's not unsolicited since you posted the **** here

I'm just being 100% with you right now

When you post you business online you inherit the **** that comes along with that

I think we all know there's **** that if we shared on here it would come back to bite us in the ass

I 100% understand, but I don't think you're understanding me.
It's whatever though, not worth spending any more brain energy on tbh.
I'm not concerned with anything I've shared coming back to bite me, I am cognizant of what I share publicly. I was just trying to say that my intention was to talk about the subject, not necessarily my personal situation. I only shared what I did to illustrate why it was on my mind and the terms in which I had been thinking about the topic of exes and new relationships. I am not faulting anyone for commenting on what I posted, I'm not faulting anyone for anything. I was just trying to be clear in my intent but clearly I did not succeed.

[Tristan_Geoff]

Originally Posted by elphenor

I wish I spent that time sleeping with Tindr girls Learning a Skill as they say

if you live an interesting life people will naturally be attracted to you now that's a Win Win

don't make my mistakes Tristan, working at UPS will get OLD Tristan

Wtf does ups have to do with my relationship status lol. Stop blasting my job haha I know it’ll get old but I need 2 bring in tha dough

[WWWP]

DAE whisper *sorry* to those you swipe left on?

[Marie Monday]

Originally Posted by elphenor

I wish I spent that time sleeping with Tindr girls Learning a Skill as they say

if you live an interesting life people will naturally be attracted to you now that's a Win Win

don't make my mistakes Tristan, working at UPS will get OLD Tristan

That sounds like the bull**** bourgeois success story mentality to me. As long as someone has an interesting colourful personality and is attractive I wouldn't care much if they had an uninteresting job or lived with their parents (if they have a decent reason for it). Just be a cool person.

[Tristan_Geoff]

Originally Posted by elphenor

you gonna bag bitches in yo mama's house?

I’m moving out on that money don’t disrespect. And I’ve dated like 3 people since I’ve moved in here so.

[Marie Monday]

The bourgeois preoccupation with 'success' continues.
What angle do you mean even? And would you honestly reject a great girl with a dead end job?

Originally Posted by WWWP

I 100% understand, but I don't think you're understanding me.
It's whatever though, not worth spending any more brain energy on tbh.
I'm not concerned with anything I've shared coming back to bite me, I am cognizant of what I share publicly. I was just trying to say that my intention was to talk about the subject, not necessarily my personal situation. I only shared what I did to illustrate why it was on my mind and the terms in which I had been thinking about the topic of exes and new relationships. I am not faulting anyone for commenting on what I posted, I'm not faulting anyone for anything. I was just trying to be clear in my intent but clearly I did not succeed.

the ironic part is I responded to your request not to get unsolicited advice with more unsolicited advice