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Old 11-26-2020, 09:42 AM   #491 (permalink)
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Old 11-26-2020, 10:01 AM   #492 (permalink)
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the ironic part is I responded to your request not to get unsolicited advice with more unsolicited advice
Oh don't think I don't know that lol
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Old 11-26-2020, 10:07 AM   #493 (permalink)
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Lol. It's not a sensitive topic, but more of an "I hate it when men offer unsolicited advice at me" thing. Not even directed at you, we were having a dialogue, that was fine.
Shut up, you dumb bitch.
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Old 11-26-2020, 10:19 AM   #494 (permalink)
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I've been trying to but there are zero dicks in my mouth to stop me from talking
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Old 11-26-2020, 10:28 AM   #495 (permalink)
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Old 11-26-2020, 10:32 AM   #496 (permalink)
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It's honestly part of the male psyche to offer advice or solutions when someone talks about a problem.

I've had this same complaint from multiple women. "I just wanted you to listen, not solve the problem."

I guess I get the frustration on their end but on my end it's why even bring it up if you don't want answers. Cause it's boring to me to just listen to people's unsolved problems.
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Old 11-26-2020, 10:34 AM   #497 (permalink)
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It's honestly part of the male psyche to offer advice or solutions when someone talks about a problem.
Nah you're just a dick.
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Old 11-26-2020, 10:35 AM   #498 (permalink)
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Cause they want you to commiserate them with to show that you're on their side. Being talked at just makes you feel isolated.
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Old 11-26-2020, 10:36 AM   #499 (permalink)
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Nah you're just a dick.
fair point but the women who've expressed this to me say it's a common thing with men
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Old 11-26-2020, 10:40 AM   #500 (permalink)
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Cause they want you to commiserate them with to show that you're on their side. Being talked at just makes you feel isolated.
yeah I get that it's just not my intuitive response

I do try to regulate that irl but that's part of why so many irl convos are boring and pointless to me. It's like performative half the time.
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