Even if that was a real thing, it beats being scared of a word's meaning.

Church

I'm not afraid but it changes the context... That isn't my rule its just common sense

... What did you see the video or something. I bet you did lol.

church??... Don't steal what you believe to be black slang in order to try to tell me that a vs er makes no difference with the n word lol

Yeah I googled it and watched it. So what.

Chomo.

If you weren't afraid of the word, you wouldn't assume the favourable context, and being afraid is bad because it's unmanly and deprives you of personhood.

I think it’s white hate speech and the same word either way. I just don’t care. People say nasty taboo **** all the time.

Horrifying

I assumed it cause it didn't sound like a hateful use based on the context

I still think she probably was just trying to be edgy or something but that's definitely still in much poorer taste based on the word alone.

Maybe you think she's just a hateful Nazi. But you're a white spoiled middle class suburbanite. You're the oppressor.

yeah cause context never matters

Another classic big brained OH take

Right and that's because you're scared of the alternative.

Fair enough

The context matters. She said on Snapchat “I can drive, ******s” after getting her license. That’s a lot different than saying, “Let's go hang a ****** from a tree”

I just think the nigga spelling is weak sauce. I think it’s the same word in a different context. A white person can’t say either variant and blacks pronounce it however they want.

..idk maybe this seems clever to you but to me it's just lazy and boring. If she said it in a context where it sounded like racial hatred i would say so. What is there to be scared of? It's the easiest and safest thing in the world to declare other people racist.


Weak af

I supported Trump but never voted. And i have more street cred and black friends than you.

... No it still matters

Black people rarely use er and if you are white and use a you could have problems yeah but if you use er you could have a race war

I'll read on and see.

Nah, definitely not a clever take mate.

Ja the whole ad hominem approach is pretty stupid innit

And my dick's bigger so I win.

Sounds the same. You can’t say either. It’s unnatural to put the emphasis on the second syllable either way.

oic well I was talking about normal friends but if you found yourself a big black bull then I'm happy for you

how many black people do you know?

Tell all of your black friend to make an account here. Not really concerned about what a white dude with a smaller dick than mine has to say about them.

Maybe try grindr instead. Dunno why you would expect me to ask black people to join a white hipster music message board but then again I forgive your white naivete

I have no idea but I guess about half the people I know by name who’d recognize me around here are black. The teachers I know are like 70% white. Ex-students large majority black. Kitchen staff from restaurant over half black.

The follow up question is how many of them do you think make no distinction between er and a?

Don't worry, I don't actually expect you to ask all of these black friend that totally exist to join the forum.

What do you think he thinks they think we think about thinking about what they think we think they think?

Don't worry,I don't expect to ever see your giant white dick either

I guarantee you that if you show it to me I can give you more moolignans than you have inches

It'd be more blacks than if you showed your dick, so I win.

Which is totally true cause you said so

Just like me having way more black friends is true cause I said so

Either ante up or stop trying to save face

Hey I think you might be onto something here...

Yawn

Nothing worse than a guy who brags about his dick then shies away when you ask to see it

**** outta here you mediocre dicked early male pattern balding piece of trash

I seriously don’t think they give a ****. Whites don’t get a pass either way.

Blacks can pronounce it as they please.

I don’t even think most of them give a **** about the word in and of itself. It’s that using it suggests you’re looking for trouble and they have an honor code to take on all comers. Blacks here don’t exactly have big city militancy. Wiki puts blacks at 35% of the local population and there wasn’t a peep over the George Floyd thing.

Racists who brag about how many black friend they have and try to speak for them then act like it's ridiculous to let all of their black friend speak for himself are worse.

In my experience you're wrong

They give a pass to certain white people sometimes. But even across the board the reaction is way different if you say something like what's up, nigga vs what's up, n*gger

I was being tongue in cheek when I bragged about black friends and street cred as an argument lol

Are you seriously telling me the black people you've met make no distinction between er and a as and ending syllable to the n word?

I am not. You and OH are the only ones here speaking for black people as far as I can tell.

I speak for mankind

Other wise known as the m word

Hmm.

Honestly I’ve never heard a white person use the n-word around blacks in a friendly way ever. Seeing how I like my teeth where they are I don’t plan on testing your hypothesis.

I still think it’s just a spelling differentiation not a genuine matter of pronunciation unless it’s unnaturally forced. If anything it’s just a matter of dialect and accent.