The Sexual Experience Thread

Astronomer · 08-08-2009, 04:37 AM

^ Oh how I don't miss living with parents.

Shrar · 08-08-2009, 09:42 AM

nevermind, university soon. then we can just get walked in on by professors. that sounds like the opening to a really bad nerd-porn

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 08-08-2009, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Double X

Okay, because I knew this girl who didn't think it was cheating to be dating a guy and having sex with a girl secretly on the side. hot? yes, but still cheating if he doesn't approve.

It's still cheating no matter what sex you sleep with if you have a significant other. I say pick a person and stick with them or don't be with someone at all.

Arya Stark · 08-08-2009, 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

It's still cheating no matter what sex you sleep with if you have a significant other. I say pick a person and stick with them or don't be with someone at all.

Sometimes relationships are stronger than that, though.

Double X · 08-08-2009, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

It's still cheating no matter what sex you sleep with if you have a significant other. I say pick a person and stick with them or don't be with someone at all.

Agreed, not really sure if you were disagreeing the quote though.

Astronomer · 08-08-2009, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by AwwSugar

Sometimes relationships are stronger than that, though.

What's strong about wanting to have sex with other people when you've already got a partner? It obviously shows that you're not 100% satisfied with your relationship.

Barnard17 · 08-08-2009, 07:47 PM

There's nothing wrong with wanting sex with other people while you're with a partner, there's something wrong when you feel the need to act on that behind their back.

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

I say pick a person and stick with them or don't be with someone at all.

Wouldn't go that far, but yes: cheating is cheating. Girl or boy. If you're in an open relationship then hey nonny nonny, enjoy yourself. If you're in a just-you-and-me relationship it means exactly that. Saying "but it was just with another girl" doesn't really buy you a hail Mary pass.

Freebase Dali · 08-08-2009, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Fal

There's nothing wrong with wanting sex with other people while you're with a partner, there's something wrong when you feel the need to act on that behind their back.

Agreed.
Everyone has natural feelings that don't simply go away when you're in a relationship. The decision to either act or not act on those feelings is what defines the kind of person you are, and/or the kind of relationship you're in.

When I get into a relationship, I'm expecting it to be exclusive. If a girl decides to fuck around behind my back (and it's definitely happened to me before), I don't lie to myself and say "Oh gee... well we have such a great relationship, I guess I'll let it slide, our love is more important".
Screw that. Cheating is a guaranteed express ticket to getting the fuck out of my life.

Arya Stark · 08-08-2009, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Fal

There's nothing wrong with wanting sex with other people while you're with a partner, there's something wrong when you feel the need to act on that behind their back.

Wouldn't go that far, but yes: cheating is cheating. Girl or boy. If you're in an open relationship then hey nonny nonny, enjoy yourself. If you're in a just-you-and-me relationship it means exactly that. Saying "but it was just with another girl" doesn't really buy you a hail Mary pass.

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Originally Posted by Freebase Dali

Agreed.
Everyone has natural feelings that don't simply go away when you're in a relationship. The decision to either act or not act on those feelings is what defines the kind of person you are, and/or the kind of relationship you're in.

When I get into a relationship, I'm expecting it to be exclusive. If a girl decides to fuck around behind my back (and it's definitely happened to me before), I don't lie to myself and say "Oh gee... well we have such a great relationship, I guess I'll let it slide, our love is more important".
Screw that. Cheating is a guaranteed express ticket to getting the fuck out of my life.

This is what I meant. I didn't mean cheating.

boo boo · 08-08-2009, 09:15 PM

If I found out my girlfriend was f*cking another girl, I'd ask her if I could participate.

I'd only break up with her if she says no.

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