The Confessional Thread

Tristesse · 11-19-2013, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Mankycaaant

Dazara, my man. Coming to University originally quite apprehensive after having spent some months working in a kitchen and keeping myself to myself hardly socially interacting had me nervous about interactions.
But when I realized that at some point, everyone you ever encounter was new to that particular field or aspect of life, it makes it easier.
Everyone has been the new guy once, everyone has had to start from scratch and try to fit in. When you do, your confidence will increase massively and interaction will become enjoyable rather than an ordeal.

I know this sounds easier than done, but get yourself out there. It'll be awkward at first, yes. But with time and adaption to your new environments and your role in them, you'll find yourself and your self confidence will follow. If it's one thing girls will pick up on its self confidence. This'll naturally come with time and experience of the situation, but get out there. You'll regret it later if you don't. I know you're still young, so there's still time to join a new club, make new friends and try new things.
Just keep open minded and safe in the knowledge that everyone's felt like you have at some point.

Thanks, that's good advice! I've been trying to isolate myself from people a bit less (giving up smoking, trying to be a nicer guy in general) but it's a bit harder than I though it'd be. But yeah, I guess confidence is key.

Not wanting to turn you guys into counsellors or anything.

Tristesse · 11-21-2013, 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by JurassicJakob

Once i drove over a cat :,(

Did it mind?

ladyislingering · 11-21-2013, 06:05 PM

sometimes I feel like people treat me badly because I deserve it, even if I know I've done nothing.

Tristesse · 11-22-2013, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering

sometimes I feel like people treat me badly because I deserve it, even if I know I've done nothing.

I think everyone feels like that a bit. I used to think that when something crap happened that it was karma for me being a bit of a dick at some point in the past, but you just got to accept that everyone's a jerk and sh*t happens to all of us.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 11-25-2013, 08:05 PM

I totally save everyone's snapchats

I should post Rezz's in the troll rezz thread

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 11-25-2013, 08:58 PM

will admit i almost cried just a little the other day. havent even come close since i put my dog down a few yrs back.

got an email a lady i work with had passed away. only 37 yrs old from cancer. im relatively new to the company and she worked in the office, wheras i dont so i googled her name to try to find out what she looked like and if i could put a face to a name. found her twitter, it was all really upbeat stuff about bein a caner warrior and stuff and for some reason seein that really got to me pretty good. sulked in bed for a few hours afterwards.

ladyislingering · 11-25-2013, 10:54 PM

I enjoy pissing rude customers off. I enjoy purposely taking my time with things if they whine about standing in line; I also thoroughly enjoy making them feel like an idiot for trying to exit through the entrance, and I also love yelling at them when they pry the door open because the looks on their stupid fucking faces are priceless.

djchameleon · 11-26-2013, 01:56 AM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering

I enjoy pissing rude customers off. I enjoy purposely taking my time with things if they whine about standing in line; I also thoroughly enjoy making them feel like an idiot for trying to exit through the entrance, and I also love yelling at them when they pry the door open because the looks on their stupid fucking faces are priceless.

One day you will mess with the wrong person and something bad will happen.

The Batlord · 11-26-2013, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

One day you will mess with the wrong person and something bad will happen.

No, one day she will stab someone with a broken coat hanger.

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 11-26-2013, 12:38 PM

my gamblin almost got the best of me last night

put money on the 49ers and the under, won both. got bored and saw the online casino on the site i bet through. decided to check it out and play roulette. i had $200 to play with.

i figured it was almost a surefire way to win some easy money by bettin with a system of bettin on red every time so i have close to a 50% chance of winnin every bet

1st bet: $5

if its red, i pocket the $5 and start again by bettin $5 on red.
If its black, i continue until its red with this:

2,d bet: $5
3rd bet:10
4th bet: 20
5th bet: 40
6th bet: 80
7th bet: 160

rationale was that it was too improbable for it to ever hit black 7 times in a row.

well, it hit it 6 times in a row so i swallowed the lump in my throat and bet $160 on red. and thank god it hit. not sure i should be doin casino games online anymore lol

11-21-2013, 06:05 PM	#923 (permalink)
ladyislingering Maelian Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Seattle Posts: 695	sometimes I feel like people treat me badly because I deserve it, even if I know I've done nothing. __________________ You and I, We were born to die.

11-25-2013, 10:54 PM	#927 (permalink)
ladyislingering Maelian Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Seattle Posts: 695	I enjoy pissing rude customers off. I enjoy purposely taking my time with things if they whine about standing in line; I also thoroughly enjoy making them feel like an idiot for trying to exit through the entrance, and I also love yelling at them when they pry the door open because the looks on their stupid fucking faces are priceless. __________________ You and I, We were born to die.

11-25-2013, 08:05 PM	#925 (permalink)
~~Sansa Stark~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The Eyrie, Vale of Arryn, Westeros Posts: 3,234	I totally save everyone's snapchats I should post Rezz's in the troll rezz thread

11-25-2013, 08:58 PM	#926 (permalink)
~~butthead aka 216~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: freely swimmin thru the waters of glory much like a majestic bald eagle soars thru the skies Posts: 1,463	will admit i almost cried just a little the other day. havent even come close since i put my dog down a few yrs back. got an email a lady i work with had passed away. only 37 yrs old from cancer. im relatively new to the company and she worked in the office, wheras i dont so i googled her name to try to find out what she looked like and if i could put a face to a name. found her twitter, it was all really upbeat stuff about bein a caner warrior and stuff and for some reason seein that really got to me pretty good. sulked in bed for a few hours afterwards.

11-26-2013, 12:38 PM	#930 (permalink)
~~butthead aka 216~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: freely swimmin thru the waters of glory much like a majestic bald eagle soars thru the skies Posts: 1,463	my gamblin almost got the best of me last night put money on the 49ers and the under, won both. got bored and saw the online casino on the site i bet through. decided to check it out and play roulette. i had $200 to play with. i figured it was almost a surefire way to win some easy money by bettin with a system of bettin on red every time so i have close to a 50% chance of winnin every bet 1st bet: $5 if its red, i pocket the $5 and start again by bettin $5 on red. If its black, i continue until its red with this: 2,d bet: $5 3rd bet:10 4th bet: 20 5th bet: 40 6th bet: 80 7th bet: 160 rationale was that it was too improbable for it to ever hit black 7 times in a row. well, it hit it 6 times in a row so i swallowed the lump in my throat and bet $160 on red. and thank god it hit. not sure i should be doin casino games online anymore lol