The Rest in Peace Thread (RIP)

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Originally Posted by Justthefacts

What's wrong with sharing the fact that her mother passed? 4 days, or 4 years it doesn't seem to matter. By saying she craves attention, you're making her feel as though she can't vent to us about her emotions that are obviously still voided because of the passing of her mother.

You not only have my sympathy, but my empathy as well Dulce.

Call me insensitive then, but that's how I took it. I don't see it as any other way.

[Justthefacts]

Originally Posted by Ki

Call me insensitive then, but that's how I took it. I don't see it as any other way.

How can you continue saying that Ki? This is a RIP thread, for people who were significant enough in our lives who have DIED. Seems to me you haven't experienced someone substantial passing in your whole life. My brother passed in October last year, 5 months ago. It isn't four years, but I still miss the shit out of that man. You think I'm fishing for sympathy? Come on, man.

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Originally Posted by Justthefacts

How can you continue saying that Ki? This is a RIP thread, for people who were significant enough in our lives who have DIED. Seems to me you haven't experienced someone substantial passing in your whole life. My brother passed in October last year, 5 months ago. It isn't four years, but I still miss the shit out of that man. You think I'm fishing for sympathy? Come on, man.

I don't see a reason why someone needs to post about someone who died 4 years ago. If someone can't come to terms with someone's death in 4 years, then yes, that is a bit ridiculous. I never said you can't miss someone, but seeing as this is the RIP thread, i'd imagine it's for people to post about people who have recently just passed, unless I've been mistaken this entire time. Recent passes is what this thread has been used for.

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RIP

[Justthefacts]

Originally Posted by Ki

I don't see a reason why someone needs to post about someone who died 4 years ago. If someone can't come to terms with someone's death in 4 years, then yes, that is a bit ridiculous. I never said you can't miss someone, but seeing as this is the RIP thread, i'd imagine it's for people to post about people who have recently just passed, unless I've been mistaken this entire time. Recent passes is what this thread has been used for.

It wasn't just SOMEONE for Christ's sake it was the poor girls mother. Dulce simply stated her mom died a few years ago, clearly worth talking about still, seems like she'll never truly be whole again and it's seriously tragic. Where else is she gonna feel comfortable letting all of us know such rich, personal information? Huh? Albums you're digging? This thread doesn't appear to be limited to just recent passings. Four years from now, I have no doubt I'll still be relaying my sadness about my brother being gone. And no, not for anyone's fucking sympathy or attention. I already have enough of that.

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Originally Posted by Justthefacts

It wasn't just SOMEONE for Christ's sake it was the poor girls mother. Dulce simply stated her mom died a few years ago, clearly worth talking about still, seems like she'll never truly be whole again and it's seriously tragic. Where else is she gonna feel comfortable letting all of us know such rich, personal information? Huh? Albums you're digging? This thread doesn't appear to be limited to just recent passings. Four years from now, I have no doubt I'll still be relaying my sadness about my brother being gone. And no, not for anyone's fucking sympathy or attention. I already have enough of that.

To answer your question from before, I have lost people close to me. However, I didn't think much of it after a day or two. I came to the acceptance that they were gone and that was it.

[Justthefacts]

Originally Posted by Ki

To answer your question from before, I have lost people close to me. However, I didn't think much of it after a day or two. I came to the acceptance that they were gone and that was it.

Obviously those people weren't significant enough.

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Originally Posted by Justthefacts

Obviously those people weren't significant enough.

One was my grandmother. Another was my two great grandparents. And another was a teacher that helped me graduate high school. Of course they were significant. But why should I be sad about them dying when I can be happy with how they effected my life to make me a better person?

[Justthefacts]

Originally Posted by Ki

One was my grandmother. Another was my two great grandparents. And another was a teacher that helped me graduate high school. Of course they were significant. But why should I be sad about them dying when I can be happy with how they effected my life to make me a better person?

You won't be saying this when your mom, or brother, or best friend, or girlfriend dies randomly tomorrow. God forbid that happening.

[John Wilkes Booth]

grandparents don't count imo cuz you sorta expect old people to die

p.s. abe lincoln passed away